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To any woman who's ever been told 'you're too much'

12 Mar 2026 · 0 min

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In this brief monologue, the speaker confronts the common criticism that a woman is "too much" by interrogating what that phrase actually means—whether it refers to her opinions, laughter, height, or presence. She highlights the absurdity of expecting a woman to scale down herself to fit someone else's comfort level. The speaker’s core message is a call for women to stop caring about such judgments and to unapologetically occupy their space without trying to be "less" for anyone.

I love when somebody says about a woman, "Oh, she's too much. She's too much for me." Too much of what? Too much of an opinion? She laughs too loudly? Stands too tall? Takes up too much space? What would be just the right amount? And not too much? She'd have to be less. That's what you're saying. You're saying be less if she's too much. You know what I think? I think she should not give a fuck about what you think about her.