In this 12‑minute bilingual (Hindi‑English) live coaching session, Paridhi Dhingra works with two participants (Speaker B and Speaker C) who express deep‑seated fear, suicidal ideation, and pressure around marriage. Paridhi first diagnoses the fear as a long‑standing emotional habit that has manifested negative outcomes for decades. She links the fear to subconscious beliefs and even physical symptoms (e.g., IBS, digestive issues), illustrating how the mind‑body connection reinforces the pattern. Using a Law of Attraction framework, she explains that 99 % of life is belief‑driven interpretation, while only 1 % is objective reality (day/night, life/death). She guides the participants to reframe the opposite of fear not as courage but as "comfort," and leads them through a series of affirmations (“I am powerful,” “I am comfortable…”) repeated multiple times. A metaphor of digestion is employed: the subconscious mind must be “flexible” and able to “digest” all experiences—success, failure, love, criticism. Paridhi repeatedly asks the participants to affirm this new belief, checks their emotional response, and encourages them to visualize a future where they live without fear. The session concludes with a celebratory acknowledgment of the participants’ willingness to live, followed by a promotional pitch for an Advanced Law of Attraction program, inviting viewers to register for a free first lesson.
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So you said you're suicidal. So what is the feeling that you're usually struggling with? Is it lack of love? Is it stress? Is it worried? What do you what do you struggle with?
मतलब मुझे डर लगता है और अभी प्रेशर इतना है कि हर दिन देखिए कैसा निकल रहा है चैलेंज के साथ कि नहीं करना है anyhow.
Yeah, if the fear started at five, it was there at twenty, it was there at twenty five, it was there at thirty, and it was also now there at thirty six. Point is the fear has become what? ये रियलिटी है कि बिलीव है। All of you repeat with me, I am powerful.
I am powerful.
I have already manifested so much negative.
I have manifested so much negative.
So can we stop that? Can we change that? We can change that. So my question is very simple. Do you want to continue this emotional pattern? So you said you're suicidal. Try किया?
ट्राई नहीं किया बट ऐसा लगा कि अगर मैं कुछ भी करती हूँ तो अगले दिन ऐसा होगा कि कुछ भी सोचेंगे लोग और दो घंटे में जला के आ जाएंगे और कुछ बचेगा नहीं लाइफ के आगे सो मतलब यही ट्राई
किया कि नहीं किया
ट्राई नहीं किया ट्राई नहीं किया बट ये पता है कि क्यों ट्राई नहीं किया ये सोचके कि कल तो
smell करें क्या मतलब क्या what was your expectation
मतलब मेरा ये thought रहा है कि ये life एक बार मिला है और जल्दी नहीं छोड़ना चाहिए तो कोई दूसरा जो आपको गलत वो मिल जाता है life इस वजह से तो अगर मैंने मतलब बहुत बार ऐसा आया और अभी भी अगर मुझे कुछ coming days में अगर future नजर नहीं आएगा तो I don't know what will happen but so
what is the feeling that you're usually struggling with is it lack of love is it stress is it worried What do you struggle
with? Fear since childhood.
Fear about?
Fear about marriage. Each and every area. Are you married? Not.
So fear of not being married? Or fear of being married?
Not married also.
नहीं तो शादी हो जाएगी इसका डर है कि शादी नहीं होगी इसका डर है?
मतलब मुझे डर लगता है और अभी प्रेशर इतना है कि हर दिन देखिए कैसा निकल रहा है चैलेंज के साथ कि नहीं करना है anyhow दो छोटी सिस्टर्स की शादी हो चुकी है उनके पांच पांच साल के बच्चे हैं even मैं elder मतलब मैं सबसे बड़ी हूँ घर के अंदर तो उनकी
तरफ से प्रेशर है आपको शादी करने का
पापा मम्मी की तरफ से क्योंकि उनको and you are scared yeah
कि अगर शादी कर दी तो क्या होगा हाँ
because मैं आपको करनी
है नहीं करनी
मतलब करनी है but मैं उस पर्सन को जानती हूँ तो मैं उससे कर सकती हूँ क्योंकि मैं दो अपने रोका कैंसिल कर दी in two thousand fourteen and seventeen because कि वो बात करो मिलो और मु
So if you observe what I'm trying to identify her is what emotional pattern habit and if you yeah can we give him give her some water the emotion of fear ये आज से या शादी के वजह से नहीं आया
मुझे ये
सालों से चल रहा है
कब से चल
रहा है बचपन से चल रहा
है मैं जब चार पांच साल की थी तो मैं नाम तो नहीं लूँगी but मैंने किसी close one को ऐसा मतलब किसी के ऊपर हाथ उठाते हुए देख लिया तब से मुझे लगा कि ऐसा ही होता है दुनिया में। In
a husband and wife relationship, you saw one person hitting the other person,
and you feel
कि relationship ऐसे ही होते हैं, तो तब से डर शुरू
हुआ। हाँ, तो मैंने अपनी studies में बहुत focus किया, मतलब इतना focus कि मैं हमेशा first reason आती रही और घर में रहा कि तुम बड़ी हो, तो तुम सही रहोगी, तो बाकी भाई-बहन सही रहेंगे। But पता चला वो सब आगे निकल
5 years age. What is— what's your age today?
I have completed 36 years now.
So 36 years and she still has fear. She had— if the fear started at 5, it was there at 20, it was there at 25, it was there at 30, and it was also now there at 36. The point is the fear has become what? Habit. How many of you have small bad habits like moving your fingers, moving your feet? Anybody has those fidgety habits? It's a habit, right? What's a habit? Something you can't control. It happens on its own. So for her, the emotion of fear has become a habit. If you right now see, she did write in the Google Form. That means she wanted support. Am I right? Yes. But when I took her name, did she stand up? No. Why not? Fear. So that fear has become again I have it. Is this fear helping you emotionally? The way you feel about it right now? अच्छा लग रहा है fear feel करके?
बिल्कुल भी नहीं और अभी ऐसा हो गया है कि मुझे IBS is a very small thing but क्योंकि मेरा subconscious mind ने इतना stress था last six months में कि subconscious mind ही समझना भूल गया है कि digest कैसे करते हैं चीजों को कौन समझना
भूल गया
है? Subconscious mind कौन? मतलब मेरे doctor ने मुझे बताया है।
अच्छा doctor ने बताया?
जी
तो उसने उसका address दिया subconscious mind का?
तो उसकी वजह
से मेरे कहाँ है सबकॉन्शियस माइंड कहाँ है
पता नहीं मतलब माइंड में ही है
so you feel fear because आगे बोलो because मेरा सबकॉन्शियस माइंड क्या
understand नहीं करता है समझ नहीं पा रहा चीजों को कि कैसे डाइजेस्ट करना है तो
इम्यून सिस्टम डाइजेस्ट करता है she's developed a belief that I am scared because my subconscious mind is stuck अब ये reality है कि belief है?
But ये doctor ने कहा है because तो जो doctor बोलता है हमेशा
सही होता है।
But इससे मेरे lungs पे impact आने लग गया है, swelling आने लग गया है क्योंकि digestive system digest नहीं कर रहा चीजों को, मुझे दवाई लेनी हो रही है और due to the सिर्फ stress is the reason तो what do you
mean by digestion system ठीक नहीं उसका subconscious mind से क्या लेना-देना?
वो
मतलब सुबह पॉटी नहीं आती, gases बहुत हो जाते ह
हाँ ऐसी कुछ चीजें हो रही
हैं। ऐसी कुछ चीजें होती हैं। तो उसका सबकॉन्शियस से क्या लेना-देना? उसका सबकॉन्शियस से क्या लेना-देना?
वो कह रहे हैं कि माइंड डाइजेस्ट ही नहीं कर रहा है। मतलब उन्होंने बोल दिया आपने मान लिया। Don't have option.
Don't have an option. She really doesn't have an option? Is this belief or is this reality? But क्या होता है कई बार when an authority says something to us, तो हम वो मान लेते हैं। Is that right? Yes. But does it always have to be true? No. All of you repeat with me: 99 percent. साथ में बोलो 99 percent things in life. 99 percent things in life. Our beliefs. Our beliefs. Only one percent is reality. Only one percent. अब वो one percent reality क्या है मैं बताता हूँ। One percent reality is life and death, day and night, darkness and light. These are one percent things in life which are reality. बाकी इट इस आवर इंटरप्रेटेशन ऑफ़ लाइफ, इस दैट राइट? सो व्हेन शीज़ एक्सेप्टिंग दैट हर सबकॉन्शियस माइंड इस टुक एंड शीज़ नॉट अबल टू डाइजेस्ट थिंग्स इन लाइफ, सबकॉन्शियसली एंड इवन फिजिकली, इस दैट हर रियलिटी और इस दैट हर बिलीफ, एंड दैट बिलीफ इज़ कंवर्टिंग इन For 30 years of your life, you've manifested fear because of this belief. You're so powerful. This is you manifesting all this in your life. Now, if you can manifest this, you can stop manifesting this and you can manifest something else. All of you repeat with me, I am powerful.
I am powerful.
I have already manifested so much negative.
I have manifested so much negative.
So can we stop that? Yes. Can we change that? Yes. We can change that. So my question is very simple. Do you want to continue this emotional pattern? No. रखना है कि नहीं रखना है? No. ये belief help कर रहा है कि नहीं कर रहा है?
इसने मुझे हर एरिया में fail कर दिया है। तो अभी रखना
है इसको कि नहीं रखना है?
बिल्कुल भी नहीं। पक्का?
Career में मैं बहुत down हूँ। तो ये belief रखना है कि नहीं रखना है? नहीं रखना। पक्का? पक्का hundred percent। Sir जीने के लिए ज़िंदगी पक्का लॉक कर दिया जाए। She wants to live. Let's give her a big round of applause for that first. All right. So what is the opposite of fear?
आपने मुझे comfortable का बताया था। Comfort.
मैं वही कर रही हूँ। Actually balance हुआ एक मिनट। So fear का opposite courage नहीं होता है। Fear का opposite comfort होता है। So whatever is the opposite of your emotion, write it down. All of you. For her it is comfort. So say it with me. I'm comfortable.
I'm comfortable.
I'm comfortable not being married.
I'm comfortable not being married.
I'm comfortable being married.
I'm comfortable being married.
I'm comfortable with the pressure of my parents.
I'm comfortable with the pressure of my parents.
I'm comfortable even if they don't put pressure.
I'm comfortable with it. I don't put pressure on me.
I'm comfortable if I get married.
I'm comfortable if I get married and
it doesn't work.
It doesn't work.
I'm comfortable if I get married.
I'm comfortable if I get married.
And it works.
Or it works.
And then I have to be scared for kids. हो सकता है ना? It might work. And then the next fear is what? बच्चे। But emotion is just a habit. So can we change that habit from fear to comfort? Yes. So how do you have that solid comfort by changing the belief? What is your belief? My subconscious mind is stuck. I can't digest things. What is the opposite of
that? I can digest.
My subconscious mind is flexible.
My subconscious mind is flexible.
My subconscious mind is open.
My subconscious mind is open.
I can digest anything.
I can digest everything.
Say it loudly five times.
My subconscious mind is active, and I can digest everything.
Five times.
My subconscious mind is working properly. I can digest everything. My subconscious mind is working. I forgot, but that's okay. Continue. My subconscious mind is working and I can digest everything. My subconscious mind is working and I can digest everything. My subconscious mind is working and I can digest it.
Turn towards the side. Check her eyes if she's feeling like crying right now. Where are the tears gone? Try to cry. Try, try. You're, you're a queen at crying, no? No. Are you able to cry right now? No. This is her new reality. Who created this reality? She created this new reality. Now, what if you lived this belief that my subconscious mind is working and I am— I can digest everything, I can digest anything. Can you digest success?
Yes.
Can you digest failure?
Yes.
Love?
Yes.
Hate? Criticism? Compliment?
Yes.
Can you just give her a compliment? Can you digest that?
Yeah.
Are you sure? You just have to say yes. Whatever you say yes becomes reality for you.
Yes.
So give her a compliment again.
Thank you.
Now give her a criticism. Can you digest that?
Can you digest that? Yes, sir. When
she can digest the compliment and criticism both, that's when she's become unconditional and unlimited. Give her a big round of applause for that.
Thank you. Thank you,
sir. Now, would you like this to continue?
Sir, yes, of course.
And if you did this for the next one year, how would your life be?
Amazing, because मैंने मैंने आपको बताया था And if you
did this for the next ten years, how
would life be? You are universe for me. ये जब platinum में आई हूँ तो ये मेरी नई life है क्योंकि मुझे बस लाइफ में अब जाना है आगे पीछे नहीं आना है
अदरवाइज़ पीछे गई तो मैं वोकेबुलरी है शिफ्टेड राइट एंड इफ यू डिड दिस फॉर टेन इयर्स वेर यू बिलीव्ड दैट योर सबकॉन्शियस माइंड इज़ विथ यू एंड यू कैन डाइजेस्ट एनीथिंग लव हेट क्रिटिसिज्म कॉम्प्लीमेंट सक्सेस फेलियर Awesome. Life is beautiful. Life is
even I can't say in the words कि क्या है life.
Life is awesome. Life is miracle. Now she's willing to live. Let's give her a big round of applause for that.
Thank you,
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