In this motivational talk, Paridhi Dhingra addresses why many people feel their manifestation efforts fail, arguing that the law of attraction works but is misapplied. She outlines four concrete daily actions that, when consistently applied, align a person’s vibration with their desired outcomes. 1. Practice daily – Commit to a regular manifestation routine (e.g., the Daily Manifestation Practice (DMP) Zoom session at 9 PM) because inconsistency is the primary reason affirmations don’t work. 2. Feel before you affirm – Emotions have frequency; you must first generate a positive feeling (through music, video, or a real‑life uplifting moment) and then state the affirmation, otherwise the affirmation remains a “dead statement.” 3. Maintain an 80/20 emotional ratio – Throughout the day, at least 80 % of one’s emotional experience should be positive and no more than 20 % negative. This “golden ratio” is presented as essential for the vibration to attract desired results. 4. Identify and rewrite limiting beliefs – Write down the cause‑and‑effect statements behind negative emotions or outcomes, expose the limiting belief, and replace it with a positive, empowering belief. Paridhi supports each step with anecdotes (students landing jobs, a 62‑year‑old improving sleep, a teenager improving math scores) and promotes a free 30‑day “Daily Magic Practice” challenge where participants join the live DMP community. The overall message is that manifestation works when practiced correctly, with the right emotional state and belief system.
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So why does everybody else manifest what they want but not you? A lot of people ask me that question. Have you also asked yourself this? Many of my students who attend workshops with me live also say, Mitesh, everybody's manifestation is working, their affirmations are working, my affirmations are not working. They are manifesting an amazing relationship, I am not. They are getting a job so fast, I am not. Why does that happen? There is a reason why manifestation does not work, but first I want you to know Not because manifestation doesn't work. It's because you're not using manifestation correctly. The first thing we always do when something doesn't work for us is we easily give up and say, maybe that is not working for me. ऐसा कुछ नहीं होता है. Saying gravity doesn't work for me doesn't make sense. Law of attraction is a law. It works on a simple science that when two things vibrate at the same frequency, they attract each other. So if I am not attracting something, it's obviously that I am not vibrating at that frequency. Now, why am I not vibrating that frequency is a more important question. Because if you ask yourself that maybe manifestation is not working for me— not true. Manifestation is working. In fact, you are attracting the same frequency that you have right now, which means if you're attracting negative right now, it's because you're vibrating at negative frequency. If you're not attracting positivity, it's because you're not vibrating at that frequency. देखो भाई सिंपल है। Show me one radio where you tune to ninety three point five and connect to one zero one point one ऐसा होता है कभी? ऐसा नहीं होता है। Show me a mobile number where you connect as an example to one two three four and you connect to four five six ऐसा होता है? ऐसा नहीं होता है। If you are attracting something in your life, it's only because you're vibrating at that frequency. And if you're not attracting something in your life, it's because you're not vibrating at that frequency. How do you correct that is the question. I'm going to tell you exact 4 steps that you can take today to instantly make manifestation work for you, just like all the other people who are saying it's working for them. You will come back and tell me it's working for you now, but you have to apply all 4 steps. Missing one will not work, so stay with me till the very end. Okay, so here we go. Step number 1 is very, very important, and you'll be surprised what the step 1 is. The step one is you're not using manifestation. Now this may look too simple, but let me clarify this. Whenever people tell me it's not working for them, I ask them, in the last 30 days, how many days did you miss doing affirmations? In the last 30 days, how many times did you stop your visualization? In the last 30 days, how many times did you use the water bottle technique? How many times did you use the hope, nope, no technique? All the manifest techniques that we talk about, how many times did you use it in the last 30 days? And then people give me excuses like, I used to do it but it didn't work, so I stopped doing it. Well, that is why it's not working for you, because you stopped using it. I'm guaranteeing you, the number one reason why affirmation may not be working for you, manifestation may not be working for you, is guaranteed you're not using it. And I'll give you an example of this. Many such people come to my program called DMP, called as Daily Manifestation Practice, where every day at 9 PM more than 1,500 people live come with me on Zoom live and we practice manifestation together. In 10, 10 days, people have told me started getting jobs. In 20 days, people have told me their depression is gone. Just yesterday, there was a 62-year-old gentleman saying For the last 10 years, I haven't slept so peacefully as I have after 15 days of practicing DMP. Why? Because— not because I am something special. Look, they started practicing regularly, so they started getting results. I'm only creating an environment where they practice, nothing else. You start practicing, you will also get results. I guarantee you that. So promise yourself right now, and promise me by telling me in the comment section right now, I will practice every day from today for the next 30 days. Whatever technique you know, it doesn't really matter. I'll give you an example. One day I was talking to a fitness coach and I was asking him which exercise works the best. He says, close your eyes, keep 5 exercises in front of you, do akkad bakkad bombe bo. Wherever your hand stops, just do any. But the promise you have to give is do that exercise for 30 days. He says, works When you do it consistently for thirty days, problem is you are not practicing regularly. So tell me in the comment section right now that I promise I will practice manifestation for next thirty days. Which technique? कोई फर्क नहीं पड़ता. कुछ तो करो लेकिन regularly करो result मिलेगा. Okay? That's the first point. Now the second reason why sometimes even though you do regular affirmations, I know some of you are saying ऐसा कुछ नहीं मितेश. I am doing affirmations regularly. It is still not working for me. I'll tell you why. The reason is you're doing affirmations, and from that affirmation you are trying to feel good. Doesn't work. Listen, affirmation works on feelings, energy, frequency. Emotions are feelings, right? And that has frequency. If I'm happy, I attract happiness. If I'm successful, I attract success. So why are you doing your affirmations? Because you want to feel Happy because you want to feel successful. Now people are telling me, Mitesh, I'm doing my affirmations, but I'm not feeling happy after that. I'm getting doubts. I'm thinking, बोल तो रहा हूँ, but होगा कि नहीं होगा? I don't know whether it will work. The mistake most people are making, probably you are too, is you're saying your affirmations every day, but you're expecting your affirmations to give you a feeling. Doesn't work. Here is what you need to do. First feel, then say affirmations. Example, in our DMP, what we do is if I want that day people to do affirmations of their success, I tell them, let's first feel successful and then say affirmations using those feelings of success. Example, let's say you switch on an amazing song, a motivational song that makes you feel powerful, motivated, and now you're doing affirmations that I'm motivated to exercise every day. That feeling, when you invest in that affirmation, it starts working. Think of affirmation like something which is a dead statement. When you invest affirmations in that, or when you invest feelings in that, it comes alive. But without the feelings, those affirmations are not alive. They're literally dead, just points written on the paper. But the moment you add energy to it, the moment you add emotions to it अब देखो उसका मैजिक नाउ इट स्टार्ट्स वर्किंग। सो व्हाट यू नीड टू डू नेक्स्ट टाइम? व्हेन यू आर सेइंग योर अफ्फरमेशंस, फील फर्स्ट, बी हैप्पी। हाउ? अरे म्यूजिक सुन ले। गो टू यूट्यूब एंड लिसन टू अ स्मॉल बेबी गिगलिंग लाइक क्रेजी। देरा मेनी सच वीडियोस। करके तो देखो You can do it the whole day by being aware when do you get a certain feeling and instantly after that say an affirmation. I'll give you an example. Some time ago I went for a cricket match in a stadium in Pune next to Henjewadi. There is a very nice stadium over there and there was a match going on. I don't remember the match exactly which one was it, but when I was watching that cricket match there was this euphoria of the whole stadium and people going crazy. The energy was amazing. And at one point, there was a sixer, and we were like, whoa! And it was at a time when there was silence for 15 minutes. The players were not playing properly. Everybody was very sad. And suddenly there was a sixer. The whole stadium just stood up and was like clapping like crazy. I was happy. The whole stadium was happy. You know what I did? Everybody just sat down. I sat down and I closed my eyes and instantly did an affirmation for my goals. Why? I was just filled with affirmations of positive— I was filled with emotions of positivity right now. I want to use this positivity and immediately use an affirmation right now. I do this regularly whenever I am in a powerful emotion. Sometimes I create those emotions. That's what we do with DMP members every day. You can do that. Or sometimes during the day when you feel it for any reason, you may be watching a movie and you saw a scene and you're like, wow, Instantly do an affirmation. But the best way to do it is decide one time of the day. Example, 9 PM every day or 9 AM every morning. Feel good first. Watch some video, listen to some music, jump a little bit, you know, play with your children, do some romance with your life partner if you're married. Have some fun. Get into some positive feelings first. Invest those feelings. Now say your affirmations. They will work. So those steps हो गए, two steps are done. Now let's go to step number three. The step number three is your daily eighty percent emotions during the day are not positive. I call it the golden ratio. What is the golden ratio? If you really want manifestation to work for you, your emotional pattern has to have a golden ratio, which means let's say from the time you wake up in the morning till the time you sleep. At night, if you looked at 100% of the day, 80% of your emotions have to be positive and 20% maximum have to be negative, which means more than 20% negativity not allowed if you really want to manifest something in life. I know many people who say, I'm doing affirmations every day, I am feeling before saying my affirmations. But now when I ask them that from the time you wake up in the morning till the time you sleep at night, If you had to divide your day between positive and negative feelings, most of the day, what is your emotional ratio? Is it golden? Is it 80% positive and 20% negative? And they say it's actually many times opposite. Instead of the golden, it's the black ratio— 80% negative and 20% positive only. Believe it or not, in my Advanced LOL program, the first lesson is actually about an assessment Where I make people go through an Excel sheet measuring two hours at a time of the day for the last one month, what is their emotional ratio? Many people when they calculate their emotional ratio, they tell me it is literally ninety nine one, which means ninety nine percent negative and only one percent positive. अब आप बताओ, somebody who's feeling ninety nine percent negative or even seventy percent negative during the day, will their manifestation work? No. But on the other side, think of somebody else who has 80% positive feelings during the day, only 20% negative feelings during the day, and they're doing their affirmations every day and they're feeling it. Will their affirmations work? Obviously it'll work. See, that is why affirmations work for people who maintain their golden ratio. You maintain your golden ratio? How will affirmation not work for you? I guarantee it will work for you. So type in the comment section right now, I promise I will create an 80/20 golden ratio of my emotions where 80% of the times during the day I will practice feeling positive, only 20% negative. Why 80/20? 20%, it's being human, man. It's okay. Okay, now let's go to the last step, which is the most powerful step. Why affirmations don't work? Why Manifestation does not work for us sometimes because of our internal limiting beliefs. Now, what is a limiting belief? I'll show you an amazing way to understand what is a limiting belief. Okay, take any negative emotion that you're feeling in your life right now, or any negative result that you're getting in your life right now. दोनों में कुछ भी चलेगा। I'll give you both examples. Let's say you're feeling sad. Now say the statement with me: I am feeling sad because. लिखो नोटपैड पे स्टार्ट विथ मी। I am feeling sad because. Give me a reason what comes after because लिखो। Whatever you're writing after that is your limiting belief, and that is why you're not achieving your goals. When you strongly believe, I am feeling sad because nobody loves me. अब देखो ये nobody loves me is the belief, and that limiting belief makes me sad more and more, and because of that sadness, I'm not manifesting my goals. Makes sense? I'll give you one more example. If you don't want to take a feeling, take a result. I am failing in my studies because— and now you say, I'm failing in my studies because I don't like studying. Now this statement, I don't like studying, is a limiting belief. You'll say, Mitesh, no, it's not a belief. I really don't like studying. When you were born, the moment you were born, did the doctor look at you and say, this one cannot study, next? No, obviously not. Nobody was born with the ability to study or not study. But if you start believing that I cannot study, you're programming yourself, you're giving yourself this limiting belief that you cannot. It's not true at all. You can if you want to, but for that You have to convert your limiting belief into positive belief that yes, I can study and I love studying. I'll give you an example. There's a 16-year-old girl who was attending one of my workshops called Platinum Membership. Now, Platinum Membership is a program where 2,500 of our members are there who work with me for lifetime as life coaching program. Now, the commitment of these students is to convert all their negative beliefs into positive beliefs in a very short period of time. So one day I was taking a live session and there was this one mother who was sitting with her daughter who's 16 years old only, and she said she was very bad at maths. After listening to this lesson, for the first time— and you know what is the advantage of children and teenagers? They don't ask too many questions. They easily understand things. So for the first time when she heard this, she said, okay, from today onwards I'm going to say I am very good at maths. She was getting bad marks on maths before this. She used to always say, I am getting poor maths because— poor marks because I am bad at maths. Nobody's bad at maths from birth. Okay, I get it that not everybody is Einstein by birth. I, I get it. But you don't have to be bad at maths completely from birth. You can be decently good at it if you believe so. So she started saying the statement every day that I believe I'm good at maths. I believe I love studying maths. She started doing this. True story. Next exams, she got 75% instead of what she got last time, which was only 50%. I get it. She didn't come in merits. अरे but 50 से तो better है। Now she improved in her life by 25% only because she improved her beliefs. I want you to write down right now what are the excuses you have. For all the negative emotions that you're feeling in your life, for all the negative results that you're getting in your life. All those excuses are nothing but limiting beliefs. If we don't change those limiting beliefs, nothing will change in our life. Makes sense? So these are the 4 steps that you need to work on to make manifestation work for you. Step number 1, start practicing every day. Step number 2, feel first, then practice your affirmations. Step number 3, 80/20 golden ratio. Feel 80% positive during the day, 20% only negative. Step number 4, create powerful beliefs. Recognize your limiting beliefs, break them, and create powerful beliefs. Now, if you want to do that with me, here's my gift for you. We do a program called Daily Magic Practice every day as a challenge. We call it the 30 Days Challenge of Daily Magic Practice, 9 PM every day. Like I told you, we have got like 1,500 people who come and attend live every day. Here's the good news for you: I'm giving you full 30 days free for the first month. All you have to do, click on the link below if it is still working. I don't know when this video has got published. Sometimes we stop the link after some time. So if it is still working, good news for you. Click on it, come for 30 days live with me, and I will prove it to you that when you practice 30 days every day, when you feel and then say your affirmations every day, When you create create eighty twenty golden ratio every day, when you change your beliefs every day, which is what I help you do in DMP. फिर देखो कैसे manifestation. Makes sense? I'll see you soon in the next video. Until then, keep manifesting. My life, my rules.
