A Perfect Apology in 3 Steps Explained by Mitesh Khatri | Law of Attraction #shorts

21 Oct 2024 · 1 min

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In this short instructional video, Paridhi Dhingra presents a concise three‑step framework for delivering an effective apology. Step 1 emphasizes stating the apology with the exact behavior the other person is upset about (e.g., “I’m sorry I was late”). Step 2 adds a promise not to repeat the mistake, which reinforces sincerity. Step 3 advises listening to the other person’s feedback without defending oneself, repeatedly restating steps 1 and 2 until the person calms down, which signals that the apology has been accepted. The speaker warns against justifying the mistake during this process.

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Has this happened with you that you say sorry and people don't feel that sorry from you? Let me just give you straight, simple steps of how to say sorry. Step number 1, say sorry with that particular point which the other person wants to hear from you. Example, I'm sorry I was late. That's it. If you don't say sorry with that last part of the statement which they want to hear, they will never feel you're sorry. So I'm sorry I was late. 2, I'm sorry I will not repeat this mistake. When you tell people that you will not repeat this mistake, they really feel that you are sorry. And step 3 is the most difficult but the most important part. When you say sorry, they are going to give you more gyan, they're going to give you more advice. You just need to hear it out and repeat step number 1 and 2. I'm sorry I was late. I'm sorry I will not repeat this. Keep repeating step 1 and 2 until they feel you're sorry. And how will you know they feel you're sorry? They'll calm down. That's how you know they feel— they felt you're sorry. But don't justify that. Step number 3 is very, very important.