Attract Positive Emotions with Law of Attraction | Live Life Coaching Session by Mitesh Khatri

Especially you said you're a scientist.

Yes. So most of the time work doesn't work.

A scientist's life is about 90% failure.

Failure, yes. And I feel very useless at the night.

Hold on, hold on. What did you say? You feel very

useless?

You're not messed up. You're just doing what your profession is supposed to do. I used to have them. Now I've changed my conditions. My mentor says if I wake up in the morning and if I'm awake, I'm happy.

Yeah,

it's all in, it's all in the mind about what you've been declaring for so many years. You said it so normally, I'm thin-skinned, but no, you're not. You just are what you say you are. In today's video, you're going to learn from a live case study of a coaching that I'm doing in my Advanced Law of Attraction course. You will learn from that case study and this live coaching how we make emotions very difficult for ourselves. In fact, to be very precise, this coaching is from one of my courses called the Advanced Law of Attraction Course, where there's one lesson where we talk about why do we feel negative so easily and why positive emotions are so difficult. Hey, my name is Mitesh Khatri. I'm a Law of Attraction coach. I and my wife Indu Khatri, we are Law of Attraction coaches and national bestselling authors of this book, The Law of Attraction. The video that you're about to watch is free for you, which is part part of the recording of my Advanced Law of Attraction course where there's a very important lesson called easy emotions and difficult emotions. Yes, do you know that we make our positive emotions difficult and our negative emotions easy? Example, sometimes we have unconscious rules, unconscious conditions that we make in our subconscious mind. Example, I will only feel successful when I have created 1 crore of income. Now what happens is We have attached that emotion of success with that number of one crore, and if it's going to take one year to make that one crore, then I have delayed my feeling of success for one year, and I have continued to experience being like a failure for one full year. Sometimes we create very easy emotions for negativity. Example: If you talk to me loudly, I feel angry. You see, raising voice makes me angry. Is that an easy condition for feeling angry or a difficult condition? Very easy, because anybody can easily make me angry, because my easy condition is if somebody talks to me loudly, I feel angry. We have made emotions like anger, hatred, lack of love, loneliness, frustration, helplessness, depression, failure— these emotions we've made very easy. On the other side, we have made emotions like success, satisfaction, joy, love, feeling connected with people very, very difficult because unconsciously we have created very difficult conditions to experience this. Now, instead of teaching you this whole theory, which is actually a 2-hour lesson in my Advanced Law of Attraction course, instead of that, I want to show you a case study where I took a live coaching for a student called Dipanjanam, who's a scientist by profession, by the way, and she was experiencing a lot of dissatisfaction at her work. Think about it. Being a scientist today, she was being dissatisfied with her work every single day, and she's feeling overwhelmed with work. Not just that, she felt successful only once in six months or so. Can you imagine a scientist feeling successful only once in six months? But that impacts her entire career. When people join the Advanced Law of Attraction course, sometimes I give them an opportunity to have a live coaching with me. That's the video you're about to see. It's. life-changing to watch somebody else's life changing, because as you see their life is transforming, you go through a life transformational experience. So go through this golden experience, and after this video is complete, I'll give you one more understanding of what this video is all about and how you can experience the same with me as part of the Law of Advanced Soft Action course. Okay, let's begin to learn with Dipanjana and her life-transforming conversation on easy emotions and difficult emotions with easy conditions and Difficult conditions. Let's begin. Is there anybody here who's going through a borderline depression experience right now? Anybody's going through depression right now? Okay, Dipanjana. So Dipanjana, tell me which are the negative emotions that you want to avoid. Give me an example of that list. Yeah, unmuting you now. Got it. Give me an example of the negative emotion that you want to avoid.

A lot of, uh—

Give me some of them.

Like dissatisfaction.

Okay, hold on. Repeat with me. I feel dissatisfied when—

I say feel dissatisfied when—

Go ahead.

Uh, um, when, um, my work is not done successfully.

Very good. Hold on. All of you say it with me again and with her again. Is everybody with me? Are you working with me? Good. Say it with me again. Say it with us. I feel dissatisfied when— come on.

I feel dissatisfied when my work is not done successfully.

Okay. This is your unconscious conditions for feeling dissatisfaction. You didn't realize it, but you have this unconscious condition that whenever this happens, that my work is not done successfully, I feel dissatisfied. Correct? Okay. Can you validate that by looking in your memory that, yeah, that's true?

Yeah.

Okay. Tell me, is it an easy condition or a difficult condition to— for the work not being successful?

Very easy for my work.

Very easy?

Yeah.

Especially you said you're a scientist?

Yes. So most of the time work doesn't work.

A scientist's life is about 90% failure.

Failure. Yes. And I feel very useless at the night.

Hold on, hold on. What did you say? You feel very

Useless.

Okay, so say it with me. I feel useless when—

I feel useless when my work is not done successfully.

You got this unconscious condition that when my work is not successful, I feel useless, I feel dissatisfied. Easy condition or difficult condition?

Difficult condition.

Now here's my question. Do you think useless and dissatisfaction is a don't want feeling or a want feeling?

I put it in don't want feeling.

Exactly.

But can I change after?

No, no, that's okay. Hold on, hold on. Yeah, right now it's a don't want feeling, which is I don't want to feel that dissatisfied. I don't want to feel useless. Problem is, have you made feeling useless and feeling dissatisfied easy or difficult?

I feel very easily that.

Yes. So repeat with me. I have made easy conditions.

I have made easy conditions

to feel dissatisfied and useless.

To feel dissatisfied and useless.

Even though I don't want to feel that.

Even though I don't want to feel that. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yes. And also the problem, if I don't have— I'm not busy whole day, I feel extremely useless.

But sometimes— here we go. Here is another one. Another unconditioned unconscious condition. Say it again. If I'm not busy the whole day,

if I'm not busy the whole day,

I feel useless.

I feel useless.

If I'm busy the whole day, how do I feel? Productive.

Productive.

Okay, good. Say it with me. If I'm busy the whole day, I feel productive.

If I'm busy whole day, I'm productive.

During the day when I'm busy,

during the day I'm busy,

if I'm not successful, I feel useless.

If I'm not successful, I'm useless.

But because I'm a scientist,

because I'm a scientist,

the more busy I am,

the more busy,

the less successful I am,

the less successful I am, and the

easier it is for me to feel useless,

and it's easier for me to feel useless because that's my

condition.

That's my condition. Yeah. Oh wow. Yeah.

Do you realize what you've done with your brain?

I'm complete messed up. I'm in medicine for a long time.

You're not messed up, by the way. Repeat with me. I feel messed up when.

I feel messed up when.

When I realize I've done something wrong.

When I realize that I have something done wrong.

You're a scientist. How many times can you do something wrong?

Ninety nine point nine.

You're not messed up. You're just doing what your profession is supposed to do. Yes. But unfortunately, you've got these wirings in your brain about, okay, I feel sad when, I feel useless when, I feel dissatisfied when. And all these conditions are very easy conditions. Now tell me some of the feelings you do want and you're not getting those. Specifically, tell me an emotion you want but you're not getting.

Happy.

Okay, hold on. You're not getting happiness easily?

No, it's like I'm changing very fast.

No, that's fine, that's fine, that's fine.

Do you realize I don't get happy very easily? No.

Okay, good, good, good.

That's what I wanted to check.

So repeat with me. I feel happy when—

I feel happy when, um, I got a result, or—

hold on, hold on, hold on. One is good. Let's go one step at a time. Say it again. I feel happy when I get a result.

I feel happy when I get a result, a successful result.

Successful result. How frequent is that in the profession of a scientist?

Once in a six months.

Oh God! How many of you can see what's wrong in her life and why she's not happy? Deepanjana, have you made your happiness easy or difficult? Is it an easy condition or a difficult condition?

Very difficult condition.

Yeah, but not because it is difficult. You've made it difficult. Does that make sense?

Yeah.

So let's change this for a minute now. Let's make an easy emotion for happiness. Can you? And I want you to not think like the panjana. I don't want you to think like an adult who's a scientist. I want you to think like a baby who's ten-year-old. Like, do you have children by chance?

No.

I mean, not by chance. Everybody has children by choice, but I was just checking. So let's say you had a child who's just a 10-year-old girl, and you tell this girl to make some— a game of making easy rules for being happy. Because she's only 10 years old, she's gonna go crazy, right? Like, she's gonna go illogical. I want you to do that right now. I want you to be a 10-year-old girl and say,

I

will feel happy when—

I get to get desserts.

Okay, good. So say it with me. I feel happy when—

I feel happy when I eat desserts. I eat desserts.

But that girls 10 don't say desserts. They use the word what?

Ice cream, chocolate.

Okay, so say it with me first. I feel happy when I eat a chocolate.

I feel happy when I eat a chocolate.

No, first we'll question the validity of it later. Being a scientist, I'll have to stop your questioning there. But tell me, is it an easy condition or a difficult condition there?

Easy condition.

Very easy, right?

Yeah.

Question is, any condition, easy or difficult, if you repeat it too many times, doesn't it become your reality?

Yeah, kind of.

So if you repeat it many times, if I eat an ice cream, I'm happy. What happens after a year?

Yeah, that's my problem because I pampered myself a lot with ice cream, chips, chocolate, desserts, and then I'm not fit at all at the moment.

Perfect. So you've got easy conditions which are unhealthy to make you happy, and you've got difficult conditions which are good conditions. Being successful is a good condition, but you've got very difficult conditions that make you happy. So you've not chosen your conditions carefully because unconsciously you never chose your conditions. It just got formed on its own. It's like In a garden, there are 2 kinds of flowers. One are organic, which the gardener comes and shapes and stuffs. But then there are these unorganic growth plants, right? Like, they just take whatever shape they take.

Yeah.

Our conditions right now are unorganic. We've never given it any shape. So unconsciously, you've ended up having easy conditions. If I eat a chocolate, I'm happy. If I eat an ice cream, that's happy. But it's growing weight for you.

Yes. In my PhD, I gained 10 kilos.

That's because you've got easy conditions to be happy. Yes. I used to have them. Now I've changed my conditions. So I want you to make an easy condition for happiness right now, which is healthy and independent. Something that will suit your profession right now. Give me an example. Use your creativity. Come on.

Um, I will be happy at the moment if I get a job.

Now hold on. Say that again. I will be happy if I get a job.

I will be happy if I get a job.

Until I get a job, I'll not be happy.

Oh yeah. You see that?

It's a condition, right?

Yes.

It will not be fulfilled then. Then you're making your condition of being happy difficult again. And what are the chances that you'll attract a job if you're not happy while not having a job?

It will be, you know, easy because I signed up platinum.

No, but if you don't practice being happy, can Platinum give you a job? No. No. Being part of Platinum is practicing the conversation we are practicing, which is creating easy and healthy conditions to be happy.

Yes.

So give me an emotion of happiness with an easy condition that can make you happy right now. Use your creativity. I'm ha— I can be happy if—

I can be happy if I start my painting again.

Interesting. Is that easy?

Yes.

Is that independent?

Yes.

Is it expensive?

No.

No. Can you do it independently?

Yes, everything in my hand. But I don't.

Here's another one. Say it with me. I I can be happy.

I can be happy.

When I wake up, when I wake up, when I

wake up,

and I realize,

and I realize

I'm alive.

I'm alive.

Easy condition or difficult?

Ah yeah yeah of course.

Like a wake up. Damn! I'm alive. I can be happy.

Yes, of course.

Easy condition has nothing to do with your PhD, has nothing to do with your job. And when we make such easy conditions and you start being happy, you vibrate at that frequency, and then you attract that happiness in the form of a job.

Even that 21 days challenge making me happy to say gratitude.

Exactly.

So I found out a lot of things I'm actually happy and I have in my life.

You know, a lot of people have told me I tried doing this 21 days gratitude challenge somewhere else. I never got a result. In your community, I don't know why I got a result. I'll tell you why you got a result. I've designed that 21 days with very scientific knowledge of—

ah, yeah,

it's a very scientifically designed program where every day the challenge that you're doing is a very easy condition to make you happy.

Yeah, so now last 2 weeks I'm happier. I feel that like

Yeah, but now you're understanding the formula behind it, so you can create your own design like that. My mentor says, if I wake up in the morning and if I'm awake, I'm happy. In my case, I'll give you an example. As a coach, repeat with me, if I'm coaching—

If I'm coaching—

10,000 people—

10,000 people—

only then I'm successful.

Only then I'm successful.

Tell me, is that an easy condition or a difficult condition? Difficult. Yeah. So until I don't achieve 10,000 people, I'm postponing my feeling of being successful and happy as a coach. So if I postpone that feeling and I'm not feeling that now, I'm feeling the opposite of that. What is the opposite of feeling happy? Sad. What is the opposite of feeling successful? Failure. And I've postponed my happiness and success. I'm only allowed to feel happy and successful when I reach 10,000 people. And now my case, I changed it. I had this, by the way. This was my difficult condition earlier. Now I made an easy condition. When I wake up in the morning and before I sleep at night, if I can help even one person, I'm successful as a coach. Yes. Hmm. Do you think I can find one person in this big world?

Yeah, of course.

Sure. And if I can find even one person whom I can make happy, I'm happy. I'm feeling happy as a coach. Am I going to attract more people to serve?

Of course.

But people have this rule when they're making YouTube videos, until I don't have 1,000 subscribers, I'm not successful.

Oh yeah, I know people like that.

Yeah, and now they make a YouTube video and they're counting, 1, 2, 3, it stops. Like, holy shit, it's been 5 days, only 3 subscribers. And the mind is saying, until you don't have 1,000 subscribers, you're not happy. It's such a difficult condition. You've postponed your happiness, you've postponed your success. In Wealth Mastery, we teach— a lot of people say, repeat with me, I'm financially free.

I'm financially free.

When I have 5 lakhs of passive income monthly.

When I have 5 lakhs of passive income monthly.

Do you have a similar goal?

No.

No, good. A lot of people have created such stupid, crazy goals in the name of financial freedom. How many of you, by the way, have these kind of crazy goals? Type in G for guilty in the chat window, please. Let's see how many people have created such very, very crazy goals based on financial freedom books and lessons and YouTube videos. Well, say it with me again, all of you. I will be financially free.

I will be financially free.

Only when.

Only when.

I make X amount monthly passive income.

I make X amount of passive income.

Now that's going to be now or future?

Future.

Easy or difficult?

Difficult.

I've made my happiness difficult. I've made my richness difficult. I've made my abundance difficult. I've made my feeling of being financially free difficult. Now repeat with me. If I have money to eat pani puri.

If I had money to eat pani puri.

I'm financially free.

Yeah, I'm financially free.

Now if I make— is this an easy condition to feel free?

Yes. Or difficult? Easy.

Easy? So if I have an easy condition to feel financially free today, will I feel financially free every day?

Yes.

And if I feel financially free every day, will I make more money or less?

More money.

This is called a positive virtuous cycle.

Ah, yeah.

Otherwise, you go into a negative virtuous cycle.

Yeah.

Hey, making sense now?

Yes, much more.

Can you look at your emotions and realize now that you have some very, very unconscious conditions which are very difficult conditions for want feelings, and you've got easy conditions for don't want feelings?

Yeah, that's a bit confusing for me.

Easy to be sad, easy to be depressed, easy to be upset, easy to be angry. Like some people say, don't raise your voice, I feel humiliated. Oh, so all I have to do to humiliate you is what?

Raise the voice.

Oh, easy or difficult?

Very easy.

So then easy to humiliate you then. Is that a good thing?

Yeah, yeah, I have very thin skin, so exactly.

But what if you say, oh, you can shout all you want, that raising voice doesn't humiliate me? Try, try saying it. So you can shout all you want.

Voice is Humiliating for me.

Yeah, but say the opposite now. Say you raising voice.

You raising voice

doesn't do anything for me.

It doesn't do anything for me.

I'm okay with that.

I'm okay with that.

Yeah.

Yeah.

It's all in. It's all in the mind about what you've been declaring for so many years. You said it so normally. I am thin skin, but no, you're not. You just are what you say you are.

Yeah, yeah, I take everything by heart very easily.

So repeat with me, I don't take everything by heart.

I don't take everything by heart.

It's very difficult to humiliate me.

It's very difficult to humiliate me.

You will have to be a very, very bad person to humiliate me.

You have to be a very, very bad person to humiliate me.

You'll have to work hard to humiliate me.

You have to work hard to humiliate me.

So I'm not saying you won't get humiliated. You are a human being after all, right? But somebody has to do really hard work now. Like, they'll have to do 10 mistakes and super difficult mistakes before they humiliate you, if you got that condition.

Yes.

But if you have very easy conditions, like if you raise your voice, I feel bad, then obviously you're walking around with a label that says, raise your voice, you, you can make me feel bad. And by the way, you go around declaring that to people.

Yeah, yeah.

So you're even telling people how easy it is to upset you.

Yes.

Then they do it again.

And also overthinking. I think that's like that increase. Imagine there's nothing called overthinking.

It is just a feeling with a condition. What is overfeeling or overthinking? Having the same thoughts again and again.

Again in a circular process. But why do you have it?

Because you say. Until that problem is not solved, I feel like thinking about it again and again. But what if I'm okay with that problem not being solved? In NLP, we teach a technique. Do it with me. Say, I haven't got a job.

I haven't got a job.

Now take your shoulder and do what I'm saying. Say, so what?

So what?

Say it again. I haven't got a job.

I haven't got a job.

So what?

So what?

That has nothing to do with me being happy.

That doesn't have anything to do be happy.

I can still be happy.

I can still be happy. I

have many reasons to be happy.

I have many reasons to be happy.

Now?

Much better. This

is called behavioral science.

Exactly, exactly how I'm processing here. Yeah.

And it's a lot of fun when you do it the right way. It's not even complex.

Okay,

awesome. All of you on mute, give her a high five.

Thank you so much.

Thank you for helping us learn. Hey, loved that video with the Panjara? I have a surprise for you. Here is what happened. About one month after this experience that I had with the Panjara in the workshop, one month later she came to the Daily Magic Practice. She's been practicing every day part of DMP. I hope you know Daily Magic Practice is where 9 PM every day we practice. Law of Attraction, manifestation, affirmation with more than 1,000 members every day. So Dipanjana was attending DMP, and at the end of it, she shared with us how this conversation changed her life, how it helped her upgrade her frequency, it helped her create magical miracles with her father at home, and her own frequency went up like amazing crazy. But hey, don't let me tell you that. Let her tell you what happened with her after this last coaching program. Ready? Here is the Panjana. The Panjana. Hey, the Panjana, go for it. What do you want to share? Yes. Hi.

Hi, Nitesh. How are you?

I'm good. How are you doing?

Hi. I'm doing great.

Okay, go ahead.

What do you want to share? Yeah, so I have many things to share, but I will share just 2 things. First of all, I'm leaving With such a happiness, whatever in my life, what I learned beyond manifestation and goal, I learned like I'm living a happy life. That's what I'm telling people. Whatever it is, whatever is my goal, but I learned how to live happy and satisfied.

Yes.

And I have a lot more learned, but I am, I'm going in a right direction. So that's make my day happy. And another magic I want to share, I want to thank to Hindu ma'am especially because he gave me lots of suggestions. I shared that my dad was very sick and I was very tensed about that. So ma'am told me like, don't just talk about that and be happy. And I was following all the steps. And also I was doing the remote healing.

Yes.

And my dad had a brain stroke, multiple, and he lost his both kidneys. So he survived in the dialysis. So all the parameters gone wrong. And doctors said that he is going through the multi-organ failure. So I was super, super stressed. He was in the hospital with lots of infection. And last time when it happened, 4 years ago, he was there for 3 months in the hospital. And you know the hospital charge nowadays, how terrible. And now without job, I was super tense at the beginning, but I had somehow the feeling like he will be fine, he will be fine. I was just practicing what you two have suggested, and even— My friends were telling you should go now because we are sensing that he cannot make this time because it's too bad. I was no, I feel my dad will be fine. Dad will be fine. I had that confidence and magically in five days he is back in the home. In five days, like last time it was he's back in the home. We don't know. Doctor said like you just take home. He will be fine. It's just you need to do dialysis and he's back.

He he got back.

His memory eighty percent in two days, and I cannot believe that happened. And all the cost has covered by the insurance. Like I did. So it's for me is is very very very magical, and I'm so thankful and grateful to your you.

Thank you, Dipanjana, for sharing that. It makes all these practices so worth it when you can give those kind of blessings and prayers to your father and heal him at. That level of speed—that's truly awesome. Congratulations! You are a blessing to your father now.

Thank you, and I I I have the confidence I can solve everything in my life now.

Amazing.

Thank you. Thank you so much.

Congratulations, Dipanjana. All of you on mute, give her a high five. Congratulations for being a magical daughter.

Congratulations. Congratulations.

So how was that video with Dipanjana? Did you learn a lot? Was that an amazing experience to watch her? As a scientist, changing her beliefs. Did you realize she didn't even know that she had such unconscious conditions within her mind because of which she was experiencing success only once in 6 months? She was getting so easily negative. She was getting so easily overwhelmed with work, not satisfied at work. Imagine, do you also have such easy conditions for negativity? Do you feel negative emotions very easily? Do you also feel happy emotions, successful emotions, positive emotions with a lot of difficulty? It's because you don't know what your unconscious conditions of emotions are. Wasn't this very different from simply basic law of attraction? I tell this to people all the time in my workshop. Basic law of attraction and advanced law of attraction is very, very different. Think about it. If Dipanjana would have continued doing affirmations without changing her emotional conditions, and she continued to have very easy ways to feel negative, very difficult ways to feel positive, If she continued that, if she had not gone through this coaching with me, if she had not gone through Advanced Law of Attraction and she continued only applying Basic Law of Attraction and just basic affirmations, do you think she would have attracted what she wanted? No. Makes sense. Would you also love to learn this? Would you like to go deep and dive into understanding your emotional conditions and experience Advanced Law of Attraction? I'm going to give you one more lesson free of the Advanced Law of Attraction. You've already experienced one lesson. I'm going to give you one full lesson free again. Below this video in the description right now, there's a link to register for the first lesson of Advanced Law of Attraction free, where you will understand what Advanced Law of Attraction truly is, and you will experience— you will have an experience of tears of joy that you've never had before. Go through that experience and you will realize how advanced this Law of Attraction course is. Then come and join me so that I can help you transform your life just the way I did it with Dipanjana. By the way, we don't do this one-on-one conversation with everybody. Deepanjana was lucky when she was part of the workshop. I selected her. Maybe you will also be lucky when you join the workshop, but go through the introduction first. The first lesson is free from my side, but register right now before that free workshop is gone because we have it only for a limited period of time free right now. Okay, see you soon in the next YouTube video where I will bring you more such case studies. Tell me in the comments section below, what did you learn from Deepanjana's case study? Tell me in the comments section below, Do you want me to bring more such live coaching sessions for you so you can learn from actual people? If yes, your comments will help me to create better videos for you next time. And hey, remember to hit the subscribe button and click on the bell icon so next time I create videos like this, you always get a notification. And do you know somebody who is dissatisfied like Dipanjana? Do you know somebody who finds it very difficult to feel positive like Dipanjana? Please share this video with your friends and family so they can also learn from Dipanjana. And change their emotional frequency. See you soon in the next video. Bye.