In this segment of the YouTube video, law‑of‑attraction coach Paridhi Dhingra answers a viewer’s question about dealing with people who repeatedly judge them. She advises that instead of trying to alter others’ perceptions, one should change the emotional response to those judgments—adopting a neutral or curious stance rather than irritation, which only reinforces the label. Paridhi illustrates this with a practical response technique (“Is it? Tell me more”). She then shifts to a related manifestation query about a client who fell in love with a photo of a man who is already in a relationship, exploring how to use the Law of Attraction to focus on the desired outcome rather than a specific individual. The overall message emphasizes mindset re‑framing, emotional self‑regulation, and applying manifestation principles to relationship goals.
Questions this video answers
Don’t try to change their perception; instead, change how you feel about their perception. Adopt a neutral or curious stance rather than irritation, and respond with curiosity (e.g., “Is it? Tell me more”).
Focus on the feeling of love and happiness you want, rather than trying to attract that specific person. Shift the intention to the desired emotional outcome instead of a fixed individual.
What do we do when certain people judge me in the same way again and again and they are not changing their perception about me?
Very simple. Don't change their perception about you. Change how you feel about their perception. Example, if they are calling you irritated all the time and if you're getting irritated, you're just proving them right anyway. So instead of changing them and running away from them, you're going to find these kind of people all over the world. So instead of avoiding them and trying to change them and changing the whole world, I would say you change the way you feel about that perception. And the next time they'll say, you're very irritating, say, is it? Tell me more. See, that's a different response to their perception. So I would say change the way you feel about their perception rather than trying to change their perception.
Got it. Now there was this one story that you mentioned about the girl She fell in love with the photo of the guy. Now, what if she would have come to you and said that through manifestation, I want that guy only who's in a relationship with that other girl?
So I think your question is something very common a lot of people have asked me, is can I attract with manifestation and Law of Attraction a specific person whom I've fallen in love with? And can I bring that person back in my life if that person has broken up with me, or yet that person has not fallen in love with me? Can I attract that specific person in my life? My answer is always yes and no. If you insist on using affirmations too much to attract that person, in some cases I have seen it happens. They do come back, they do get attracted to you. But should you do it? My answer is no. Why? Because in law of attraction, we always say focus on the end result manifestation, not the process. Attracting that person is the process. What you want is not that person. What you want is love and happy married life and a great companion. It's possible that you may attract the person Now I'll tell you a true story about this. From Nasik, a guy came to me once. This is a pretty old story, about 10 years old. In fact, I think I've written about this story in my book also. This guy came from Nasik to me because he heard about me on Facebook, and he paid me for personal coaching and said, I want to attract a specific person in my life who stays in Nasik with me. And I said, nobody, I can't help you with that. He said, but why not? Law of Attraction works. You, you said it in your books, it works. I said, yeah, it works, but Focus on the end result, which is of you attracting love and happiness. Don't think of attracting love and happiness specifically only from that person, because the universe might have a better person for you. Just say, I have already attracted the love of my life, I'm happily married in my life. He said, no, I want that person. So I said, no, I can't help you with that. So he actually said, in that case, I want my money back. I said, that's a problem. So I gave him his money back. And he left home. True story. One month after that, I got a message from him on Facebook, personal chat. Uh, I learned Law of Attraction from Bob Proctor. Bob Proctor, if you know, Bob Proctor is another very famous international Law of Attraction coach. He's no more in the world, in the world right now. Now, he learned Law of Attraction from this guy, and he said, I learned from him, I applied Law of Attraction, and I got married to this girl. You are a liar. You are trying to hide something from me. Law of Attraction works. My response to him: Congratulations. I'm sorry that I could not fulfill your expectations. Best of luck for your relationship. Six months after that, I get a same message. Another message from the same person. Sir, I got divorced with this girl. How do I get her back? Answer to him: Same. Don't try to get her back. Try to attract love. So the answer is: Will it work? Maybe if you insist, sometimes it will. But is it always good for you? No. So I would suggest attract the end result— love and happiness and a great companion— rather than attracting the specific person only. Want to learn more such amazing techniques on law of attraction? Subscribe to the channel right now and then hit the bell icon and go through my videos in detail. Learn a lot and tell me how and what results you have already started achieving. Okay, see you soon in the next video. Bye-bye.
