In this self‑help video, Mitesh Khatri – a Law of Attraction coach – presents a four‑step method for moving on from a breakup without struggle. He begins by challenging the belief that breakups must be painful and introduces an affirmation that frames the individual as “not a beggar” and encourages letting the ex‑partner go gracefully. The second step is a visual “energy cord‑cutting” exercise where the viewer imagines a white‑light thread connecting them to the former partner and then severs it while repeating affirmations. The third step applies the Hawaiian forgiveness practice Ho’oponopono, reciting “I take 100 % responsibility… I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you, I love you” eleven times to heal emotional wounds. The fourth step, called “Love Pono Pono,” uses three self‑love statements – gratitude for existing love, affirmation of self‑love, and expressing love to people in one’s life – each repeated five times to raise the viewer’s vibration to love. Khatri concludes by inviting viewers to a free workshop and a complimentary lesson on “Hope Nope No,” promising that these practices will enable graceful letting‑go and attract new love. The video mixes English and Hindi, uses an instructional and motivational tone, and repeatedly calls for sharing, commenting, and subscribing.
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Today we're going to learn how to handle a breakup easily, how to deal with a breakup easily. In fact, how to break up easily. Instead of letting somebody go with a lot of struggle, saying, no, please don't go, please don't go. Instead of being a beggar in love, let the person go gracefully. Why? Because the more we don't let the person go, and the more we behave like a beggar, do you really think they're going to treat us properly? Imagine there's a visual energetic cord, like a thread connected between you and that other person. Say loudly, I am not a beggar. I let you go gracefully. I take 100% responsibility for the way I feel. I'm sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. I love you. A lot of people have been sending me messages about this, that I broke up with my partner recently but I don't know how to handle it. I'm going to show you step-by-step method how to make a breakup also easy. Ready? Let's begin. My name is Mitesh Khatri. I and my wife Indu Khatri are Law of Attraction coaches and national bestselling authors of this book, The Law of Attraction. Today, when we talk about learning how to deal with breakup, most people have this belief that it is very difficult to get over a relationship, that it is very difficult to break up, that breakups have to be difficult. But it doesn't have to be. That is just a belief. Don't you know some people in your school or college that when they broke up, they took months to recover? But were there also not people who, when they broke up, they recovered easily? That means that there are people with all kinds of beliefs. So yes, it is possible to get over people easily and to break up easily. I'm about to show you step by step how to do that. The first step of breaking up with anybody easily is— say this affirmation with me: I am not a beggar. I will let you go gracefully. Say it loudly. I am not a beggar. I will let you go gracefully. What do you mean by gracefully? Instead of letting somebody go with a lot of struggle and saying, no, please don't go, please don't go. Instead of being a beggar in love, let the person go gracefully. Why? Because the more we don't let the person go and the more we behave like a beggar, do you really think they're going to treat us properly? How do you treat a beggar? When somebody you see on the road who's a beggar, when was the last time you went to a beggar and you felt bad? Many times you must have felt bad for a beggar. But after feeling bad, when did you go to the beggar and say, यार तेरा घर नहीं तो मेरा घर रखले, right? और you don't have money, take my wallet. जितना पैसा सारे क्रेडिट कार्ड सारे रखले। Did you really treat a beggar this way? No. Even though you feel bad for a beggar, how do you treat a beggar? This way you give money, right? Or sometimes even after that you're like, जाओ जाओ। Isn't this how people treat us when we don't let them go gracefully? When we are treating ourselves disgracefully We are being beggars in love. That is why I'm asking you to say this affirmation with me first. I am not a beggar. I let you go gracefully. Say it again. I'm not a beggar. I let you go gracefully. बोल के तो देखो। Just by saying that, you will realize that you're upgrading your standards. You're upgrading your frequency. I'm not a beggar. I let you go gracefully. Think about that person and say it five times right now. And if you think you know somebody who needs this, please share this video with them right now. The second step that you need to now do is called energy cord cutting. Yes, you and that person are energetically connected at all points of time, and that is what builds that attraction between both of you. Example, take your hand like this right now and move your hands like this. Don't touch your hand when it comes back, just keep it this much close and take it away. You must have done this in school, remember? It's called static energy. But do it, come on, right now, do it with me. And as you're doing this, do it faster. And as you're doing it faster, now just bring your hands close and keep it like that. And you'll observe that automatically your hands move towards each other because there's a static energy between your hands that's pulling both your hands towards each other without your will. That is the power of energy. Once you and that person vibrates at the same frequency, there is an energetic bond that you're connected with. That is why when you move away from that person, it becomes very difficult. It's like a sticky. It's a stupid example, but think about it: chewing gum. When you pull the chewing gum, कैसे खीचा जाता है? लोग इसलिए लोग बोलते हैं यार टॉपिक को खीच के चुंगम मत बनाओ। Right? But that's what's happening with us when that energetic bond is too strong. Pulling apart becomes very difficult as an experience. But there is an easy way of doing that. This repel difficulty that is happening is not actually glue. It's not actually chewing gum. It is just pure energy. You can disconnect from this energy. Here is how you do it. You use your hands like a scissor, like 2 fingers like this. You close your eyes and you visualize mentally that between you and the other person there is a thread of white light energy connected between you and them. Close your eyes, visualize that, and say it loudly. I am not a beggar. I let you go gracefully. And then say the second affirmation before you cut the energy cord. The second affirmation is, go with love, grow with love. Whenever we are letting people go, we feel bad for them and we feel, why did they leave us? Why did they hurt us? Instead of that, say, go with love, grow with love. Let them go with blessings. Don't let them go with curse. Don't let them go with hurt. Now you may not do that physically first, it— because it may take time to do that. But when you mentally do it again and again, doing it physically later becomes very, very easy. Okay, so how do you do it? Close your eyes. Imagine there's a visual energetic cord, like a thread connected between you and that other person. Say loudly, I am not a beggar. I let you go gracefully. Go with love. Grow with love. And now imagine that cord in between you and that person and cut the cord. And the moment you cut the cord, imagine that thread got cut and imagine the person is flying away from you far and far and far and far and they disappear. And now you open your eyes. And the moment you open your eyes, now you need to do the third step. The third step is healing your emotion with Ho'oponopono by saying, I take 100% responsibility for the way I feel. I'm sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. I love you. Do this 11 times. Whenever you feel bad about letting go of that person, or you are not able to deal with anybody's breakup, do all these steps at one place. Step 1 again, what do you do? Say this affirmation with me. I'm not a beggar. I let them go gracefully. Close your eyes. Imagine that energetic thread. Say it again. I'm not a beggar. I let them go gracefully. Go with love, grow with love. Cut that energy cord. Watch them flying away and going away and disappearing. Immediately open your eyes and say, "I take 100% responsibility for the way I feel. I'm sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. I love you." Repeat this eleven times. One round of hope nope nope, which means all four statements is one round. I'm sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. I love you is one round. Say this eleven times. This is your third step. Immediately after finishing that eleven times. Fourth step is very important. You now need to vibrate at the frequency of love again, so that you can attract love for yourself and for people around you. Because people who break up, think of them as bomb. When a bomb blasts, it doesn't only affect the bomb itself. वो तो फटा, आसपास के लोगों को इंजर कर देता है, right? So people who are miserable out of a breakup, watch them. They're not just making their own life miserable. Whose life are they making miserable? Everybody around them. Their mom, their dad, their brother, their sister. Everybody. सब परेशान हो रहे हैं उनके आसपास। क्यों? Because energy इतनी negative है। It's not their fault. So what do you do? Heal your energy first by using hope nope no. And then the fourth step is very important. Now vibrate at the frequency of love by saying these three simple statements. I call it love pono pono. Did you like the name? Just like Ho'oponopono, I call it Love Pono Pono. Now let's vibrate at this frequency by saying these 3 statements. Thank you for the love I have. And when you say this, say it 5 times, and each time you say it, you will think about a person that already loves you in your life. It may be your mom, it may be your dad, it may be your brother, it may be your sister, it may be your friend, it can be anybody. It may be the universe. You see, when somebody breaks up from us, we feel like nobody loves us right now. But that's not true, isn't it? There are so many people who love us right now, and we are taking their love for granted. So start saying this five times: Thank you for the love I have. Thank you for the love I have. Say it with me right now: Thank you for the love I have. And think of somebody who truly, truly loves you, and feel their love right now. Second statement again five times: I love myself. I love myself. I love myself. I love myself. I love myself. And every time you say it, remind yourself a time in your life when you loved yourself with a choice that you made to pamper yourself, something that you bought for yourself. For an example, this camera that I'm recording from, I love this camera. I gifted it to myself. So if I say I love myself, I say that is why I bought this camera for myself. I love myself. That is why I made the decision of traveling alone for a holiday once upon a time. So the more you remind yourself how you have loved yourself in the past, the more you vibrate at that frequency of self-love. Now the third statement. The third statement is what you have told yourself after a breakup. अब नहीं बोलूँगा ये statement. But you need to say the third statement. But there's a reason this statement comes third. Because the first statement says thank you for the love I already have in my life. Second statement says I love myself. Now you've awakened that love from within, and that is why now you're saying, I love you. You don't have to fall in love with the next person in your life to say I love you again. You just have to say I love you to feel love. But while saying I love you, don't think of the person you broke up with. Think of the people you have in your life. Think of the people who you need to say I love you right now in your life. Again, mom, dad, brother, sister— so many people are there in your life. whom you need to acknowledge, and you've probably not said I love you to them for a long time. Mentally think of them right now. Take 5 such people in your mind and say, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you, I love you. This seems like a 4 to 5 minutes process, but I promise you it's a very easy process. These 4 simple steps very easily helps you move on from somebody in life, and your breakup will become graceful. Isn't that a beautiful thing to have? Do you know somebody who needs these four steps? Do you know somebody who needs to practice this to move on in their life and experience love easily? Please forward this video to all those people who you think needs to break up easily. I want to invite you for this beautiful workshop called Ho Opano Opano, where I teach people how to heal themselves of not only a breakup, but of physical pain, relationship pains. Career problems, money problems. Because when we don't heal ourselves, we're not able to go towards what we want to go. Imagine you are here and you want to go here in your life. In between, there's a lot of negative emotions. What happens? You're not able to go from here to here easily because there's so much traffic in between. We need to clear this traffic. To clear this traffic, the most powerful technique in the world is Ho'oponopono and Love Pono Pono. How do you really use this? I want to give you the lesson one free, where you'll have tears of joy experience. And if you truly want to get over someone right now, watch my first lesson of Hope Nope No. It becomes so easy after that to let go of anybody and start vibrating at the feeling of love and healing one more time. So promise me you'll watch that video right now. The link is in the description below. It's completely free. Normally it's worth ten thousand rupees, but it's my gift to you so that you can move on. Gracefully in your life, right? Tell me in the comment section below how did you feel after today's video, and especially tell me after you watch the first lesson free of Hope Nope No. How did you feel? I want to know how gracefully you are moving on, not only by using the steps in this video, but also by watching the first lesson of Hope Nope No free right now. Did you register? Great. Remember to subscribe to this channel and hit the bell icon, and tell me in the comment section below. What are the other topics you want me to share lessons on? And I promise you, I will read the comments and I'll try to create videos on the topics that you ask about. Okay, thank you very much. Happy gracefully moving on. Heal yourself, help other people heal and move on. And whomever has gone away from your life, remember to tell them, go with love, grow with love. Bye.
