ever felt CHEATED in life? #shorts

9 Jun 2026 · 1 min

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In this brief coaching dialogue, Paridhi Dhingra guides a participant (Speaker B) to uncover the opposite of feeling "cheated" or "desperation." Through a series of questions, she leads the participant to recognize that the antithesis of desperation is "satisfaction." She then has them repeat affirmations—"I am perfect where I am" and "I am satisfied with where I am right now"—to embody that feeling. Paridhi emphasizes that merely knowing the word is insufficient; the feeling must be internalized and practiced until it becomes a habit, resulting in sustained satisfaction both now and in the future.

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So tell me what's the opposite of cheated, and once I tell you, it'll be you'll be like, oh, I knew the word.
Hey, I think I know, but I cannot remember.
Do you know why?
Why?
Because you don't practice that. What is the opposite of desperation?
Desperation? No, man. I don't know.
This happens in our programs all the time.
Yes.
When I tell people to choose the opposite word of their patterns, they can't because
because they're not practicing it and they don't. Tell me.
No, wait. What is desperation? Desperation is, when will this get over? When will I get there? Yeah. Right?
Like something you really badly want.
I want it. When will I get there?
Yeah.
What is the opposite of that now? And when I'll tell you, you'll be like, oh, I knew it.
I have no idea.
Should I tell you?
Yeah.
Satisfaction.
Satisfaction. Yeah, correct.
Say this with me. I am perfect where I am.
I am perfect where I am.
I am satisfied.
I am satisfied
with where I am.
With where I am.
Right now.
Right now.
Now if this becomes your new habit, then satisfaction now and satisfaction in the future.
You're right.
Because this becomes your new habit.
Yes.
See, we may use the words, we may know the words, but if you don't feel it—
You're right.