Everything You Want To Learn Is A Skill!

27 Aug 2025 · 1 min

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In this short segment, Paridhi Dhingra introduces a practical interpersonal framework consisting of three ego states—child, adult, and parent—and explains how recognizing another person's ego can help meet their needs and prevent ego clashes. She then outlines four conflict‑management styles—passive, submissive, aggressive, and assertive—emphasizing that most people acquire these skills over time but they can be deliberately learned. Paridhi advises viewers to actively seek out conflict‑resolution techniques on platforms like YouTube or ChatGPT, dedicating a couple of days to practice so that future disagreements are handled more confidently rather than with uncertainty.

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There are three types of egos. It's called child, adult, and parent. Right. If you recognize the other person's ego, you can fulfill their need accordingly, and you may not have to then have an ego clash. Another skill is conflict management. There are four styles of handling a conflict: passive, submissive, aggressive, and assertive. Most people learn this with time, but skill है सीख लो, formally ठीक लो, अच्छे से सीख लो उसको। I would say go to YouTube, go to ChatGPT nowadays, and ask what are the best ways of managing a conflict. And दो दिन ना dedicate कर दो and learn that skill so that the next time you have a conflict with people, your brain doesn't say यार अब क्या करूँ?