How does Ho'Oponopono work for a Relationship? Law of Attraction with Mitesh Khatri

1 Aug 2024 · 1 min

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In this segment of a bilingual conversation, Paridhi Dhingra and a speaker discuss how misunderstandings and hurt arise in close relationships—spouses, parents, in‑laws—when communication goes wrong. They define the "gap" between two people as the accumulation of negative emotions that creates distance. To bridge this gap, they propose using a Ho’oponopono‑style apology sequence: acknowledging the hurt, asking for forgiveness, expressing love, and gratitude, either to the other person or internally to oneself. The dialogue frames this practice as a way to heal emotional wounds and restore connection.

So in relationships, maximum when we are close to somebody like husband, wife, parents, in-laws, we end up hurting people. We end up creating a lot of misunderstanding. We end up hurting by communicating wrongly.
So when we say there's a lot of gap between 2 people, what is this gap? This gap is those negative emotions which creates distance between 2 people.
So let's say I hurt you. So I'm going to say, I'm sorry, Mitesh, please forgive me, I love you, thank you. Or I will say to myself because I am hurt.
Even today, if I am angry with her or if she is angry with me, and it doesn't happen very regularly now, but whenever it does, we instantly do hope noop noop for each other. And I know कि अगर मैं अकेला बैठा हूँ और मेरा अंदर का गुस्सा अगर चला गया, बैठे-बैठे होता है ना like sometimes you are sitting angry, अब तुमको लगता है आज तो छोडूँगा नहीं इसको and sometimes your anger just fizzles out. तो जब अब वो होता है मेरे साथ, तो मैं जाके बोलता हूँ तो hope noop noop कर रही थी and she like हाँ.