How to attract anyone easily| Understand 7 Needs of Humans | Law of Attraction| Mitesh Khatri

How to attract anyone easily? Human attraction happens based on fulfilling each other's needs. We all have 7 needs, but the sequence of these 7 needs is very different. If you meet a person in your life whose need for change is very high and your need for change is very low, what's going to happen now? Whenever there are 2 people with different needs altogether, it's difficult to attract them together. They will constantly get repelled. Now, you can identify what the other person's needs are Meet those needs and they will be attracted to you. If you can learn to identify, they will get addicted to you in their life. How to attract anyone easily? That is the law of attraction that you're going to learn today. How you can be a charismatic personality, people come close to you, and in just 10-15 minutes they just fall in love with you. They want to be with you. They get addicted to you. It's possible to do that if you understand the law of attraction and some human needs. That's what you're going to learn today. Those of you who are meeting me for the first time today, my name is Mitesh Khatri. I and my wife Indu Khatri, we are Law of Attraction coaches and national best-selling authors of this book, The Law of Attraction. Let's learn about how do 2 people get attracted to each other in the first place. Here is what I want you to understand. First, take a notepad and a pen. Pause this video quickly, get a notepad, because what you're about to learn requires you to write a few things down, because otherwise you'll forget it. Okay, so hope you got a notepad and a pen. Let's understand this. Human attraction happens based on fulfilling each other's needs. Write that down again. Human attraction happens based on fulfilling each other's needs. The more I fulfill your needs, or the more you fulfill my needs, we are always going to be attracted towards each other. And these needs are standard 7 needs based on our 7 chakras. Yes. What is the difference between needs and desires? Let's understand. When you say I want juice, is that a desire or is that a need? That's a desire. But when you say I want water, is that a desire or is that a need? That's a need. If you say I want, um, a Lamborghini, is that a desire or is that a need? That's a desire. But if you say I want a car that helps me travel regularly. Is that a desire or is that a need? Now, that's a need. Whenever we are talking about needs, we are talking about those things in life which are essential for your survival. Your needs in life. Just like this, psychologically, we have 7 needs in our life based on our 7 chakras. In my Advanced Law of Attraction course, I go into the details of how to activate all your 7 chakras and how to fulfill all your 7 needs for yourself and others. But today I want to give you a little brief understanding on what these 7 needs are. We all have 7 needs, but the sequence of these 7 needs is very different. And write this down: the sequence of my needs creates the frequency of my life. Write this down again: the sequence of my needs creates the frequency of my life. So whatever is your sequence, that's your frequency, and that's what you attract in your life. Now, when 2 people's needs start start matching. Their frequency starts matching. If you can learn to identify what is the sequence of needs of another person, and if you can meet even 3 or more of somebody's needs, they will get addicted to you in their life. Don't believe me? Watch me till the next complete 15 to 20 minutes to understand what these needs are. Don't drop out at all. Pay attention. This could be one of the most powerful lessons of your life, because think about it. Your life is always about influence. The higher your influence, the higher your level of success, the higher your level of attraction. Ready? So once again, first need is what? Comfort. You also need comfort. I also need comfort. But let's write down a few words which are related to the word comfort. Predictability. People like prediction because it gives them comfort. Surety, assurance, guarantee, warranty. All these are words related to comfort in life. So if a person has number one highest sequence need at comfort, will they believe in astrology? Yes, they will. Why? Because astrology gives them comfort. कि हाँ भाई, life में सब ठीक चल रहा है, आगे भी सब ठीक होने वाला है। You see that predictability gives them comfort. So comfort is one need, one of the needs of that seven sequence. You and I both have very different needs in sequence. You will understand that now. Second one. Is called as change. You also need change in life. I also need change in life. Example: Don't you sometimes feel, "Ya Raj, कुछ अलग खाते हैं?" Let's go for some different food today. You, because we all need change in life. But do we all need change at the same level, in the same sequence? No. But there are some people who need change at the very, very top. These are the people who make adventure sports as their career, or they will choose a career which requires too much change. Too much risk. Write down some words which are related to the word change: risk, adventure, newness, something unique, something different. People who have change at the highest needs, top three or top, they will always say things like, "नहीं यार कुछ अलग करते हैं। हर बार कुछ अलग करना चाहिए," because that's their need. So people who go into the stock market, one of their highest need is always change in their life. That means they can handle change in their life. But think about it. Are there also people whose needs for change is low? Maybe you, maybe one of your friends who you know doesn't get very comfortable with change. Don't you know people who are not very comfortable with change? उनको change ज़्यादा अच्छा नहीं लगता। So on the sequence of seven needs, their need for change will go a little downwards. Now by mistake, what happens is some people get excited and go into the stock market because everybody's going into the stock market. But their need for change is very low. They can't handle it. They get anxiety because of the stock market going up and down. Why are they going through anxiety? Because the stock market is not vibrating at the frequency of their needs. Making sense? If you meet a person in your life whose need for change is very high and your need for change is very low, what's going to happen now? That person is going to constantly make changes in relationships, constantly changes in Choice of food, choice of locations you go out for a date with, and you'll be like, वही वाले restaurant चलते हैं ना वहाँ पे तो सब कुछ ठीक ही था, अच्छा वाला ही था तो. And he's like, नहीं, कुछ नया करते हैं. And maybe you get uncomfortable with change. Whenever there are two people with different needs altogether, it's difficult to attract them together. They will constantly get repelled. Now you can identify what the other person's needs are, meet those needs, and they will be attracted to you. But for that, first you need to understand all these seven needs. Makes sense? So stay with me, 5 more needs to go, and then you will understand the power of how you can attract anybody in your life. Now, before I go to the next need, I want to invite you for the Advanced Law of Attraction course, because in the Advanced Law of Attraction course, we go into the depths of understanding and helping you identify what your needs are, matching your needs with your goals, helping you understand how to identify other people's needs. Yes, in the course, we actually do an exercise where we identify Shah Rukh Khan's needs. I know you don't know him, but I'll show you a formula in the course how to understand anybody's needs. We write down Mother Teresa's needs, Shah Rukh Khan's needs, and then we identify your needs. Then we teach you how to identify your life partner's needs and how to meet those needs. You want to go in depth with all this? Come and join the Advanced Law of Attraction course. The link is in the description below. Quickly click right now, go through the first lesson free, and when you go through it, you will understand how powerful this experience is. Now let's move towards the next need. The third need write down is called as importance. हम सबको importance चाहिए ज़िंदगी। I also want importance. You also want importance. Write down some words related to the word importance, significance, respect, appreciation, compliments. People who need importance on a very high level, they will always be very, very choosy about who they talk to depending on are those people respecting them or not. Their highest need is respect, and if their highest need is respect, and if they meet a person who doesn't respect them, what are this? What's going to happen? These people will not get attracted to these people because these people are not fulfilling their needs. Is that making sense? If you identify कि भाई सामने वाले को importance चाहिए, how do you attract them in your life now? भर भर के तारीफ करो, हर बात पे compliment दो, let them talk about their life. आप अपनी बातें कम करो, उनको ज़्यादा बोलने दो। The more they talk, the more they feel important. The more they feel important, the more they get attracted to you. Importance जिसकी need होती है ना, उसको attract करना बहुत आसान है। But to hurt them was also very easy because by mistake अगर आपने कोई ऐसी चीज़ बोल दी जिससे उनकी importance थोड़ी भी कम हो गई, oh they will also walk away from you very very easily. Do you know some people who are very short tempered? जिनको जल्दी बुरा लग जाता है। You call them people with high ego. But why do they have high ego? Because their need for importance is very high. Now many of us judge these kind of people, and I say don't judge them. Write this quotation down: Don't judge people for who they are; understand their needs and meet their needs. I repeat: Don't judge people for who they are; understand their needs and meet their needs. You will attract them instantly in your life. हर टाइप के लोग होते हैं, सबके नीड्स अलग होते हैं। आप उनके नीड्स समझ जाओ, उनको जज मत करो, उनको समझो, उनकी नीड्स पूरी करो, वो अपने आप आपकी तरफ खींचे आएंगे। If you meet even three or more of anybody's needs, they will be addicted to you. Whether that's a customer, whether that's a partner, whether that's a friend, whether that's a boss, whether that's a subordinate, कोई फर्क नहीं पड़ता। आप लोगों की needs पूरी करो, लोग आपके तरफ खींचे चले आएंगे। So whenever you're dealing with people, always ask yourself this question: ये सामने वाले इंसान के needs क्या हैं? इसके sequence क्या हैं? How can I fulfill those needs? The more you fulfill those needs, the more they get attracted to you. Right now you've understood third, four more to go. Stay with me. अभी तो मजा आने वाला है। Because after I tell you those seven needs, I'm going to tell you a formula which is going to blow your mind about how easily you can attract somebody in your life. Ready? Let's continue. The fourth need is called as growth, which means you also need to grow in your life. I also need to grow in my life. We all need to grow in our life. Now this growth can be physical, emotional, financial in all areas of life. People whose growth need is number one, will they be high ambitious or low ambitious? Obviously high ambitious, right? So you'll see some people they're constantly working, workaholics, पूरा time काम करते रहते हैं, छुट्टी पे जाते हैं, laptop लेके बैठ जाते हैं। Why? Because their need for growth is very high, Baba. People who don't need growth, जिनका need of growth is low, they will judge them. अरे यार क्या तू पूरा time काम ही करता रहता है? थोड़ा सा हमारे साथ भी time spend कर लिया कर। Now you see, do you think a person who needs growth will get attracted to you if you are judging them for their need of growth? No, they will not get attracted to you. They will move away from you. So what do you do? Talk to them about their needs. Fulfill their needs of growth. Correct? I'll talk more about this after I complete all the seven needs. Now coming to the fifth need: love. प्यार किसको नहीं चाहिए? सबको चाहिए. You also need love. I also need love. But listen, we all need love, but at a different level. Some people need love on the highest level. Some people need love at the lowest level. Yes, there are people like that. जिनको प्यार sequence में कम चाहिए. For them, growth is high. For them, maybe change is high because everybody's sequence of seven needs is different. So if you meet somebody for whom love is very important, and for you, let's say, growth is very important. Now you are talking about growth. He or she is talking about love. Do you think attraction होगा? नहीं होगा, because both are talking different languages. The language of love is the language of needs. Write this down. The language of love is the language of needs. If you understand the needs language of the other person and speak their language, they're gonna get crazy attracted to you because now you are speaking their language. Many times people who get attracted to you, they say, आपसे बात करके बहुत अच्छा लगता है। ऐसा लगता है जैसे आप मुझे समझते हो। I feel like you understand me. When people get attracted to you and say that, it means that consciously or unconsciously you are talking about their needs and you are fulfilling their needs. If you fulfill their needs, फिर देखो खीचे चले आएंगे। बार-बार बोल रहा हूँ इसलिए क्योंकि you need to get this. Learn how to identify people's needs and fulfill their needs. Don't judge them. Now the next one. So what have you learnt already? Comfort, change, importance, growth. Love, and now coming to the next one: serving. A lot of people, they are just serving-oriented people. उनको ना लोगों की मदद करना बहुत अच्छा लगता है. So here is an example of serving. There are some people like Mother Teresa. Mother Teresa is somebody who lived her entire life serving people. Why? Because her highest need was serving. So now if you find somebody in your life who's very high on serving other people, who's always doing something for other people, they're always sacrificing for other people. Do you know somebody in your family who's like this, constantly sacrificing everything for somebody else? कोई ना कोई तो जानते होंगे आप. Go to them and talk to them about growth. Attraction होगा ही नहीं. Because they are talking about helping other people, you are talking about making money or growing in your career. See, I told you the language of attraction depends on the language of needs. You meet their needs, they'll get attracted to you. खेचे चले आएंगे आपकी तरफ. आपको सिर्फ उनकी needs पूरी करनी है. Now the last need. The last need is the need of very few people in the world, but these people are called as monks, sadhus. The need is called as nothing, based on your seventh chakra called as nothing need. What is nothing? Sometimes when you go for a holiday and people ask you, क्या करोगे हॉलिडे पे जाके? Many people say, कुछ नहीं करूँगा यार मैं हॉलिडे पे जा इसलिए रहा हूँ. I want to do nothing for a few days. You see when we sometimes we get full of everything in life. We want to sometimes experience nothing. We all want to experience all these 7 needs, some higher on the sequence, some lower on the sequence. Everybody's needs for these needs is different. But here is the formula which I was wanting to tell you. Now think of it as husband and wife, okay? Husband also has the same 7 needs. Wife also has the same 7 needs. Question I would ask is to the husband, On a level of 1 to 10, how much are you meeting your wife's all 7 needs on a level of 1 to 10? So for an example, if your wife needs love on the top, are you knowing and realizing that she needs love on the top? And are you fulfilling her need of love on the top on a level of 1 to 10, let's say 8, 9, or 10? If yes, then she'll be attracted to you, otherwise not. But you'll observe many times it happens that the husband has now become a workaholic. Just as an example, and he's focused on number one need of growth. The wife is focused on number one need of love, connection, family. Attraction हो रहा है? नहीं हो रहा। But if this was a love marriage many years ago, these two people, same people, for him highest need was love, for her highest need was love. Attraction was happening. But as they got married and few years went away, for him his needs changed. Yes, needs can change based on your life conditions. But you can consciously change your needs and consciously even change other people's needs. These are things we change— we teach in our advanced Law of Attraction course, by the way. So if he's got growth on the top now and she's got love at the top, are they going to be attracted? No. But you can create attraction if you identify the person's needs. You don't have to become like them, but you just have to learn to fulfill those needs. How do you fulfill those needs? Very simple formula. Step 1, talk to them about their needs first. Question them about their needs first. Let them talk about their needs. Example, if somebody has growth on the top, ask them questions about, so what are you doing for growth nowadays? And believe me, if that is their number one need, they will go on talking about it for 10 minutes, and that is why they will be attracted to you. If the highest need is change, ask them, to experience newness in your life, what do you do? They will go on for 10 minutes about it. If somebody needs serving and contribution in their life as the topmost need, ask them, what should I do to help people? They will give you 10 ideas and they will go on talking about it. What I'm trying to say is this: your 7 needs, whatever they are, yes, those are your needs. You need to fulfill your needs. But if you want to attract somebody else in your life, you have to first understand what their 7 needs are. Take their name, write it on a note of paper, and write down their needs in a certain sequence which you think is appropriate for them. That's the science. You need to understand what their needs are. Write down their needs and then write down first need, how much am I fulfilling their needs on a level of 1 to 10? Second one, how much am I fulfilling their need on a level of 1 to 10? Third need, how much am I fulfilling their need on a level of 1 to 10? If you take all the 7 needs and you take 10, 10, 10, 10, 10, what is the total score? 70, correct? Ask yourself When I total up all the needs and how much am I fulfilling that person's needs, what's the total score coming in? A lot of people who are into fights in a marriage, when I ask them to do the scoring for each other— can you make a guess what is the scoring of a couple that is constantly fighting? About 20 to 25 score only, which means out of 70, they're fulfilling each other's score at only 20 to 25. That is why they are not able to fulfill their needs and they're constantly fighting. So the attraction is gone. People say, I don't feel that love towards my partner again. Why? Because the partner has stopped fulfilling needs. With my business, when I meet clients one-on-one, I first identify their needs and fulfill their needs. You see, there are some clients I meet who are very high on importance. They dress well, they drive a beautiful car, and they love importance. So when I talk to them, I talk to them in their language. I don't talk about simplicity with them. But there are some of my clients who are very simple by nature. For them, serving is on the top, love is on the top. I don't talk to them about growth, I don't talk to them about flashy cars or a lifestyle which is full of luxury. I talk to them about love, I talk to them about serving, I talk to them about simplicity, and that is why they get attracted to me. Understanding people's needs and then fulfilling those needs is an art. Promise me that you will start Doing this exercise from today, you will write down the people whom you meet in your life, identify their needs in a certain sequence, and then start fulfilling those needs as much as you can. And the more you do that, they will be attracted to you. जैसा मैंने बोला, खिचे चले आएंगे आपकी तरफ, right? Beautiful exercise. Did you learn something new today? If yes, and do you want to go into the depth of these seven needs? Because here is something I didn't tell you: when you match your seven needs with your goals, you attract your goals. A lot of people make this mistake. Their career frequency is different, their needs frequency is different. Attraction होएगी ना? Many times in our advanced law of attraction course, people come, they understand their needs for the first time in their life by a formula which I give them. When they understand their needs, I now tell them, write your goals and change your needs as per your goals. Don't change your needs just because you want to change your needs. Change your needs and the sequence as per the goals, and the attraction starts happening. So not only can you attract human beings, you can attract your goals in your life if you match your needs with goals. That's what we teach in the Advanced Law of Attraction course. The link for joining the first lesson of Advanced Law of Attraction is right now below this video. 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