How to Attract Love with Chakras? Mitesh Khatri | Law of Attraction

Today we are talking about why are we not attracting love in our life. A lot of people are not able to attract love because their needs don't match their desire to attract love. I'm going to explain to you a very powerful concept today called 7 human needs based on our 7 chakras. For an example, imagine if your number one need is importance and your partner's number one need is growth. May not be matching, so you might have conflicts all the time. So very recently I coached somebody for about just 10 minutes And in 10 minutes, she understood why she's not able to attract the right partner. I want you to see that video right now. Those of you who are meeting me for the first time, my name is Mitesh Khatri. I and my wife Indu Khatri, we are Law of Attraction coaches and national bestselling authors of this book, The Law of Attraction. Now, what are 7 needs based on 7 chakras? Take a notepad, take a pen quickly, and write it down. There are 7 needs, and I'll tell you the chakra names also, but we'll go into details of chakras some other day because that's part of the advanced Law of Attraction course. The first chakra is called as the root chakra at the base of your spinal cord. Now that has a need called as comfort. Comfort means what? Predictability, surety, assurance, guarantee. Do you need comfort in life? Do I need comfort in life? We all need comfort in life. Now we all have the same 7 needs, but the sequence of these needs decides your frequency. If your sequence is different, my sequence is different, our frequency changes. Makes sense? Just like a mobile number. How many digits are there in mobile number? Ten. One, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight, nine, ten. Same ten numbers, but it's the combination of these numbers that decides the frequency of a mobile number. Correct? Just like that, there are seven chakras, and the combination of these chakras, the combination and the sequence of these chakras decides your frequency. So the first one is what? Comfort. Second one, sacral chakra. That is related to change. I hope you're writing this down. This is very, very important for you. Change. Change. I'll give you some more words which will help you understand the word change. Change means being different, wanting something new, taking risk, going for an adventure. When you eat the same food every day, sometimes you feel, "Yar, kuch change chahiye life." I want something new. Why? Because that may be your need. Now some people have change on the higher need. Some people have change on the lower need. Example: If somebody's change is number one need, they are always going to work on a career which is very risky. Very adventurous, has something new in it all the time, like stock market for an example. But if somebody's need for change is very low in the sequence of 7 and they go into the stock market field, they won't be able to handle it because they can't handle change because they don't need change in their life. Makes sense? Third one is called as importance based on your solar plexus. Now solar plexus is at your navel, and that is your need for importance, self-esteem, wanting appreciation, Being acknowledged that you did something good, feeling good about yourself— all that is related to solar plexus. That is why we call it importance. Who needs importance in life? Everybody does, right? But the sequence of the needs is very important. If somebody's importance need is number one, will it be easy to deal with them? Actually, no. Why? Because if somebody's importance need is number one, they want always to be the most important person in the room, and they don't want anybody to be at par with them. That can make life difficult to conversate with them all the time. They'll be very short-tempered, very sensitive. Their need and demand for respect will be very high if importance is their number one need. But if their need for importance is very low, their nature will be very humble. What they will attract will be also based on that frequency. Let's go to the fourth need now: heart chakra, love. Very simple. Heart demands love. Heart attracts love, right? So love frequency is very simple. I'm not going to go into details of that. Throat chakra is related to growth. The more we communicate, the more we grow in our life. In fact, the number of people we influence depends on how much we grow in our life. So throat chakra is related to your growth frequency. Then comes in the third eye. The third eye is related to serving. That's why if you observe, when you open up your third eye, if you have that experience, it's always looking outwards. It's never going inwards. The third eye, people who awaken their third eye are people who focus on others a lot, very less on themselves. And then comes in the final chakra, which is on the top, called as the crown chakra, also called as the— in particular needs, we call it the nothing chakra, which means people who are vibrating at that frequency, they don't want nothing in their life. They need nothing in their life because they feel like they have everything. This is where you feel you're connected to God. This is where high spirituality experiences will start happening. Now I've explained the 7 needs to you. I want to show you how if you don't sequence these needs correctly, you may not be able to attract a life partner in your life. Or if you have a life partner, if you're married, you may not be able to have a good relationship with your life partner if your needs between 2 people are not matching. Like for an example, imagine if your number one need is importance and your partner's number one need is growth. May not be matching, so you might have conflicts all the time. Now this is very easy to understand when I'm coaching somebody. So very recently, I coached somebody for about just 10 minutes, and in 10 minutes, she understood why she's not able to attract a life partner. I want you to see that video right now and then tell me how do you feel after that in the comments section below. And if this inspires you, which I know it will, but if it really inspires you to master needs, to tune in your frequency correctly of that phone number of 7 chakras and create the frequency to attract your goals, not just your life partner, then there's a link in the description below this video which takes you to my Advanced Law of Attraction webinar. In that webinar, I will give you 100% clarity on how you can also not only work on your 7 frequencies, but I'll give you 9 more powerful lessons of Advanced Law of Attraction which will help you attract your goals. Easy to understand when you're listening to somebody else's results, right? So let's go watch this amazing coaching session that I did with someone for just 10 minutes. Here we go. Let's go, Monica. What did you feel? What did you realize? Go for it. Let me unmute you again. Got it.

Thank you, sir. Um, I cried in both the sessions, and the biggest realization I had is I am looking for love from outside people than finding love and support in myself. It's not out there.

It's dependent love, isn't

it? It's a lot more dependent love. I was judging myself, my self-worth with the other people, how much they value me.

What was your first need that you wrote?

Sir, my first need is love. Love, I put.

I know, I know you would have said that, but now you know that's not your true need because what you need you attract. Remember that what you need you attract. If you're not attracting it, you're not needing it. Your subconscious is sabotaging it. So can I tell you what's your first need? Yes. You need surety in your life. You need security in your life. You need guarantee in your life. From every person in your life, you look for that level of commitment. Yes. And you're not getting commitment from people.

No one.

You're getting non-committing people. I'll tell you why. Because you've got comfort in your number one need. And that's what— the more you need comfort, you keep looking for comfort. Comfort. Repeat something with me. Say, I need comfort.

I need comfort.

I need predictability.

I need predictability.

And I want to be married happily.

And I want a partner.

Does that match? I need to be comfortable and I want a partner. Does that match? Because the moment you get a partner, what's going to happen to comfort?

Out the door.

Exactly. And do you really enjoy change? Be honest. Or do you like things the way they are?

Sir, it has become a roller coaster from past one year.

Answer my question. Answer my question. You're dodging my question. Do you like change or do you avoid change? Do you like things the way they are, or do you like to keep changing things?

I personally am adventurous. I love change. And in—

so where have you written change for yourself? In the top 3?

In the— yes, in the top 3. Change.

So that means you're not scared of trying multiple people in your life? You'll keep failing, but you'll not give up. You'll keep trying. You're an adventurous person.

Yes, yes.

But the problem is, because you've got comfort on the point one and then change, you keep changing. But when you change, you don't get comfort, and then you get bothered again.

Yeah.

You don't get commitment, and then you get bothered again.

It's not. But

I'll tell you your need: comfort, change, and importance. Respect is your number one priority in a relationship?

Yes, respect is number one, because I had, I had given up my respect a lot, and I want it.

Yeah,

in the—

and what happens, and what happens the more you want importance, the more you need importance? Do you think people give it to you?

No.

So check comfort, change, importance. I'll tell you what you need after that: growth. Because you work on your career, and I'll tell you why you work on your career. Because you feel प्यार तो मिल नहीं रहा है काम करके ही कुछ like let me live my life at least. At least somewhere I'll be successful. At least if I'm successful, maybe I'll attract love because of being successful.

Yes.

So you work hard on yourself and you work hard on your career. But the problem is you're not able to give your 100% because somewhere your subconscious is still stuck with love.

Yes, bang on.

I know.

Hang on.

Your need is serving, which means you try to do things for others.

I

sacrifice.

Yes, that, that's essentially my goal, honestly.

You've got serving, and after serving you've got love. So unfortunately, your love is Number 5. But that's your highest desire, my dear. So if you really desire love, where should you keep it?

Love.

Exactly. Not comfort. But because comfort is your number 1 need, the moment somebody comes in your life, they change everything. You like it to some extent, but you don't like it beyond a certain extent because it impacts your comfort. So then you're confused, like, I like change, but I don't like change. I like change, but I don't like change. But that's because comfort and change is in the top 2. It's screwing with your brain.

That's where tug of war is going on.

Yes, I know there's a tug of war going on in your head because you change and then your comfort brings you back. And then when your comfort brings you back and you want love, then you try to change again. And when you change again, you miss that comfort. So you bring yourself back again and you look for commitment. But people don't give you commitment, so you're scared of being with people then, because then you can't trust them, because they're not— because you're not sure whether they will give you that comfort that you need, that commitment that you need. So then you back out of a relationship unconsciously. You don't give people what they need. You don't communicate. You don't open up. You don't ask for help. You don't express yourself.

I don't find trustworthy people to trust with.

See, that's what you said. I don't find trustworthy people. Bullshit. There are trustworthy people all around you. There are untrustworthy people all around you. What you attract is who you are.

Yeah, yeah.

You're attracting untrustworthy people because you need comfort and importance on the top all the time. But if you bring love on the top and you start feeling love for whom?

Myself.

Then that's what you feel, and then that's what you give. And now I'll show you an amazing thing. Instead of having comfort and change, what if you had love and change?

That would be amazing.

Yeah, I know. It would be like a different trajectory of life. It will be like a completely different destiny altogether. One small change in your sequence can change your life. Try it. Say, I need commitment.

I need commitment.

I need change.

I need change.

I need growth.

I need growth.

Now this is who you are right now, and check how you're feeling. There's a there's a weird mixed feeling inside you, and you don't know what's happening right now. And now try what I'm saying. Say I need love.

My throat is hurt. Is hurting.

I know it'll hurt because that's what it does. It it your needs are going up and down. It's hurting you inside. Your chakras are being screwed up right now. Now say it with me. I need love.

I need love.

Focus on your heart. Say I need love.

I need love.

For love, I'm willing to change.

For love, I'm willing to change.

For love, I'm willing to do new things.

For love, I'm willing to do new things.

For love, I'm willing to take risk.

For love, I'm willing to take risk.

Trusting people is risky.

Trusting people is risky.

But it's worth the love.

But it's worth the love.

So I trust people because I need love.

So I trust people because I need love.

Now check how you're feeling.

Very much relaxed.

That's what happens when your needs are aligned with your goals. Now say the affirmation with me. I'm happily married. Say the affirmation with me. I have a wonderful partner. Say it. I know where those emotions coming from. Don't worry about it. Just do what I'm saying. If you trust me as your coach, Monica, just say it. This is the moment. Use this. There's energy in this moment. Say it with me. I have a wonderful partner.

I have a wonderful partner.

I am happily married.

I am happily married again

because I need love.

Because I need love.

Because I'm willing to change.

Because I'm willing to change.

Because I'm willing to take risk.

Because I'm willing to take risk.

It's worth it.

It's worth it.

And if I fail again?

And if I fail again?

I'll try again.

So what? I'll try again

because I need love.

Because I need love.

That's my number one priority.

That's my number one priority.

It's worth it.

It's worth it.

That's why I'm happily married again.

That's why I'm happily married again.

Now check, how does that affirmation feel?

Fulfilling.

Yeah. Is there any doubt in your mind right now? Is your brain saying bullshit? No,

it doesn't say bullshit. But what I'm getting at is, why do I need love from other person?

Beautiful, beautiful, beautiful. But earlier when you said that affirmation, you had self-doubt because your need was comfort and change, and love was at the fifth. Now I got love on the top and then change. And now you know that if you fail, it's okay because love is worth it. And now when you say I'm happily married again, The affirmation makes sense because your heart opens up and your throat opens up. Check your throat.

Better than before.

Yep.

Thank you.

Most welcome. All right, all of you on mute, give her a high five. Congratulations for magical love. All right, did you love that? Wasn't it amazing? Did you see how when I was able to connect to her needs She broke down. Did you see how she felt the, the realization that what she was doing was wrong in her life? And she was not doing it consciously, by the way. Isn't it weird we don't even know about these things? Would you like to go in depth with it? Because once I went into depth with this lady about this conversation, it was now so easy for her to feel, yes, now I can attract my life partner. Did you specifically notice I told her also in the video that if your affirmations are based on basic law of attraction, but if you're not practicing these advanced law of attraction lessons like needs, Affirmations don't work. Hope, nope, nope doesn't work. Vision board doesn't work. Why? Because the advanced lessons are not mastered correctly. So I invite you to come and be part of the first lesson of Advanced Law of Attraction, completely free as my gift. Yes, first lesson is free for you. All you need to do is quickly click on the link below, register, take advantage of that lesson, and I'll see you there. And hey, if you loved today's video and if you have some friends of yours who should also understand about needs, and if they want to have help in attracting their partner in their life, or they want to understand why they are not getting along with their existing partner, partner, please share this video with minimum 3 of your friends right now. You'll see a small arrow below this video right now. Quickly click on that, share this with some of your friends in some WhatsApp group so we can help more and more people. And of course, if you've not yet subscribed to the channel, do it now. Hit the subscribe button and then the bell icon so next time I come up with amazing lessons like these, you definitely get a notification. Okay, see you soon. Keep fulfilling your needs in the right way. Keep attracting your goals. Bye-bye.