How to build connection in a relationship? Relationship Advice by Mitesh Khatri I Law of Attraction

3 Oct 2024 · 1 min

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In this short motivational monologue, Paridhi Dhingra explains that each person carries three ego states – child, adult, and parent. She describes how each ego manifests: the child ego behaves playfully and emotionally, the adult ego operates rationally, and the parent ego takes on a guiding or authoritative role. Dhingra argues that conflicts arise when two people interact from mismatched ego states, which she calls an "ego clash." To reduce such clashes and foster connection, she advises matching the other person's current ego state: respond with a childlike attitude to someone in a child ego, stay in the adult ego when the other is adult, and avoid imposing a parent ego on a child ego. She uses a conversational example with a listener named Henna and encourages viewers to follow for more relationship advice.

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There are three kinds of egos we all have in our life. It's called the child ego, the adult ego, and the parent ego. When somebody is having the child ego activated, they are behaving like a child. At that time, if you are going to become an adult, the child inside them is not going to like you. So the best way to manage that ego is with a child. I should also become like a child. Henna? Don't you do that with children? You become children with children. Then they get along more with you. If your parents are behaving like children. you don't become their parent at that time. You continue being a child with them at that point of time. Then it is easy to manage ego. But when somebody is behaving like an adult, they are into the adult ego. At that time, you don't get into the child ego or the parent ego and start giving them advice, because then again there's going to be an ego clash. So what is an ego clash? An ego clash is when the other person is in a different kind of an ego and I am in a different kind of an ego. Keep following me for more such amazing content. Bye.