In this YouTube video, Law of Attraction coaches Mitesh, Indu, and host Paridhi Dhingra explain a three‑step process for handling a possessive spouse. First, they stress that change must begin within oneself—taking responsibility for one’s feelings and recognizing that a possessive partner is a manifestation of the individual’s internal beliefs. Second, they advise healing the negative emotion by repeatedly expressing apology, forgiveness, and gratitude toward the partner, using a specific scripted practice performed at least eleven times each morning and night. Third, they recommend creating and reciting positive affirmations about trust, freedom, and emotional transparency for 21 days to re‑program the relationship’s vibration. The video intersperses humor, calls to subscribe, and promotion of a free lesson from their "Relationship Mastery" course, encouraging viewers to share the video and ask further questions.
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How do you deal with a possessive wife or a possessive husband? That's today's topic. So let's learn. Be with me till the very end. We'll give you some very practical steps for it. Now, my name is Mitesh. This is Indu. We are Law of Attraction coaches and also best-selling authors of our book, The Law of Attraction. The Law of Attraction. So how do you deal with a possessive spouse? Step 1, we don't deal with your spouse. We deal with ourselves first. Now, why do we deal with ourselves first? We don't try to change them. A lot of you will say, but Mitesh, I'm watching this video because I want to change my partner. No! Surprise! You don't change your partner first, you change yourself. Why? Explain. Yes, Sandhu.
So you are dealing with your own feelings. You first deal with your feeling because what you are manifesting is what you are getting it from the other person. So start dealing with your own feelings. You start saying that I am comfortable with what I am, I have, and I love and accept my spouse the way he or she is.
But why? Because as per Law of Attraction?
Because I have manifested it.
Correct.
I have manifested a possessive husband or I have manifested a possessive wife.
So it's my manifestation.
So if it is, if I am feeling that my husband is possessive, then I am the one who manifested it. So who do, who do we need to change? I need to change. Simple.
Anything that's happening in our life right now is a manifestation of our internal feelings, thoughts, beliefs, and actions. So in Law of Attraction, we say don't change outside first, change inside. Inside. So when we say inside, inside whom? Not inside your spouse, inside yourself, right? So what I need to change in me is why do I feel possessive? Why do I feel troubled about she being possessive about me? That's what I need to change inside me first. So step number 1, how do you do that? Step number 1 is take responsibility for your feelings by saying,
I'm responsible for my feeling and I love and accept my spouse the way he or she is. Simple.
I don't mean— she doesn't mean you have both, he and she, whether you have a he or she. Okay, so again, I am responsible for the way I feel. So you can even stop here by saying this statement as many times as you can until you realize that awareness that I am responsible for the way I feel,
and she's responsible—
not my partner, right? And she's responsible for her feelings. But you need to continue remembering, I am responsible for the way I feel that. Step number 1. Now step number 2 is, let's heal this feeling of why is she so possessive, or for her, why is he so possessive. Let's heal this feeling because somewhere we are troubled, right? We need to heal that negative feeling first. Otherwise, how will we manifest positivity in our marriage? So how do we heal that feeling?
You can do it with hope, Nupur. How?
Let's give an example.
You can say that I'm sorry, I'm feeling this, I'm feeling suffocated, I'm feeling contracted because my husband is possessive. Please forgive me. Thank you so much for understanding me, loving me, and I love you.
Perfect. Say I'm sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. I love you for feeling this. Say I'm sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you to your partner. Say I'm sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you for this situation. And the more you do hope no for this twice in a day minimum, like minimum eleven times in the morning, minimum eleven times in the night before you sleep, you'll heal any negative emotion that's going on between you and your partner. By using hope, nope, nope. Then the third step, after you felt that, okay, now I can feel that I'm not feeling so troubled by my partner anymore. Now you go to the creation step, which is the third step. What is the third step?
Third step, you can create an affirmation. So this is where we go into creation that I and my husband share a very good relationship. We have amazing bond between two of us. We trust each other and we love each other and we are super transparent with each other.
So we are transparent. I mean, not transparent in like transparent, but like emotional transparency, right? So we are— we trust each other, we are secured with each other, we give each other a lot of freedom, we love each other, we have a great relationship with each other. What do you want in your relationship? We have an amazing bond. We have an amazing bond. What do you want in your relationship? Write that down and they become your affirmations. Say these affirmations every morning, the moment you wake up in the morning, night before you sleep. Do this for 21 days and see suddenly how that insecurity converts into secure feelings, that possessiveness converts into freedom and trust. It's possible. We worked on our relationship, so we know anybody can. So if you learned something amazing today and you liked this video, what do we do?
Subscribe to my channel. Click the bell icon.
Your channel? I'm possessive now. This is our channel, not her channel, right?
Actually, it is his channel.
Just kidding, just kidding. Our channel. So please subscribe quickly. And then what do we do after that?
Click the bell button.
Click the bell button because क्या होता है bell button दबाने से?
You'll get.
She's never done this.
Actually, what
do we do? Bell bell button दबाने से क्या होता है?
You'll get the notification when he releases next video.
That's right. So make sure that you hit the bell button and hey, do you know some friends or couples who you think might need a little help in their relationship because they've got too much possessiveness between each other? What can they do?
They can share this video with them and ask them to go through it once or maybe a couple of times.
Perfect.
You'll get the bond which we both have.
Absolutely. And you want to learn more from us about how to handle relationships, you want to know more about how Law of Attraction can change your relationship frequency, in the description below we've got a link for you. It's a free link, it's a gift worth ₹10,000 where you will get the first lesson of our actual course called
Relationship Mastery.
That's right. See, she knew it before I could even say it. We've not planned this. So Relationship Mastery course, which is on Law of Attraction, how you can attract the life partner that you desire, how you can have— if you already have a life partner and you want to convert a struggling marriage into a beautiful, happy married life, how do you do that? The lesson number 1 is mind-blowing.
Amazing.
It's crazy. Go through that lesson. It's my gift to you. It's our gift to you. And start developing beautiful, loving relationships with your partner and with your friends and family, because I think we all deserve to have happy relationships. So promise me that you will watch that video, and after you do that, come back to this video and share in the comment section how did you like that video. And if you want us to make more videos on relationships, tell us what your questions are.
Questions are—
tell us your questions. Indu will look at those questions.
I picked it up from the question only.
Yeah, this video she picked up from one of the questions. So Tell us your questions. We'd love to make more videos on this topic in the future very soon. Remember to hit the bell icon because only then you will get the notification from YouTube. We'll see you soon. Bye-bye. Click on the link, attend the first lesson of Relationship Mastery. Bye.
