How to deal with cheating partner? | Handling Your Emotions | Mitesh Khatri | Law Of Attraction

How to handle your emotions when your partner is cheating on you? What is cheating? I committed to you that I will give you all my time and money and my quality of life with you. You're always going to be my number one priority. How do you handle that? Whatever we are attracting in our life is our responsibility. So step 1 is take 100% responsibility for your attraction first. The second step is where have I cheated with my partner because of which my partner cheated? The step 3 now is recognize some of the needs of your partner. Which are not fulfilling, because of which the partner had to go and cheat somewhere else. There is a 4th step that you can do to make sure that you're able to manage your emotions. Be happy in your partner's happiness. 5th step, which is the most powerful step: I love myself the way I am. I'm complete the way I am. Step 6 is start saying hope, nope, nope for your partner at least twice in a day. So here's the 7th step: start focusing on all 4 areas of life instead of only one area of life. How to handle your emotions when your partner is cheating on you. A lot of you have been sending me messages to make a video on this particular topic, so here we are. Hi, my name is Mitesh Khatri. I and my wife Indu Khatri are Law of Attraction coaches and national bestselling authors of this book, The Law of Attraction. Let's today learn how to handle your emotions when your partner is cheating on you. This may be happening before marriage, whether you are in a relationship and dating a person Or it may be also happening after marriage when you're already married to the person for some time and now your partner has cheated. How do you handle that? Let's understand first step while handling your emotions. Always remember, in Law of Attraction, we say whatever we are attracting in our life is our responsibility. So step 1 is take 100% responsibility for your attraction first. Listen, I understand what you must be going through. I have personally made this mistake with my partner. I have also experienced this with my partner in a different relationship whereby my partner cheated me. I have cheated on my partner in one of the relationships that I have been in. So I understand it is painful. And it is so easy right now for me to feel like a victim where I feel like somebody has done something to me rather than I taking responsibility. But if I really want to start managing my emotions and get over this, It is important to start taking responsibility for my emotions and for what I attracted in my life. But why? Here is why. If I don't take responsibility for this pattern, if I don't take responsibility for what I attracted in my life, it will repeat. Believe me, when we don't change our frequency, when we don't upgrade our frequency, same problems keep repeating in our life again and again and again. Ask yourself, if you've experienced today, being cheated by your partner. You must have experienced similar experiences in other relationships earlier because it's a pattern, right? So how do you get over this pattern? Not only by dealing with your partner right now, but by dealing with your pattern first. How do you do that? As difficult as it sounds, it is also very powerful. Step 1, say it with me: I am responsible for attracting this situation in my life because I am 100% responsible For everything that I attract in my life. Say it again with me. I am responsible for this situation in my life because I am 100% responsible for everything in my life. The more you say that, yes, I am responsible, you now know that you're not a victim. You're a creator. You're a manifester of this situation. I understand it's a negative situation. You don't want to consciously manifest this. Nobody does. But even though unconsciously, It is our manifestation. Once you say the first step, now you are ready for the second step. What is the second step? The second step is very simple. Where have I cheated with my partner because of which my partner cheated me? Yes, believe it or not, if I'm in a relationship in the first month and the partner is committed to me and I am committed to the partner, and during that one month the partner never cheated me, but after some time if the partner cheated me, that means somewhere the partner was not satisfied with me, and somewhere I have cheated them of something that was my expectation towards them. Unconsciously, I have also cheated. Here is an example of that. Sometimes in marriage, a girl tells me that my husband cheated, and I make them realize— I said, aren't you cheating your husband by having an affair with your children? Think about it. That is also an affair. Because what is cheating? I committed to you that I will give you all my time and money and my quality of life with you. You're always going to be my number one priority. Then after I have children, all my priority goes to my children. All my attention goes to my children. That is also cheating, right? So cheating always happens both sides. It's happening with me because I am also cheating with my partner in a different area of my life, in a different way in my life. Or I'm cheating somebody else in my life in a different way. And that is why this is happening in my life as an attraction. So what do I do? I stop cheating in that area. So step 2 is recognize where am I cheating and stop cheating in that area first. Why? Before we change the world, we have to change something inside us because of which our world got attracted to us. Whatever we are attracting today is because some world inside us is like that. And that is why the external world is simply a reflection. It's a mirror image of who we are inside. So instead of changing the world first, which is just a reflection, it is just a mirror effect, change the world inside here. Think, where am I cheating right now and how can I stop cheating in that area? To do that, the step 3 will help you a lot. The step 3 now is recognize some of the needs of your partner which you're not fulfilling, because of which the partner had to go and cheat somewhere else. Simple example, if I am eating food in a particular restaurant for one full year And then eventually, after 1 year, I feel like I don't want to have food here anymore. It probably means that restaurant stopped fulfilling my needs. I know, I know, comparing a relationship with a restaurant seems very lame, right? I understand that. But this is just an example. I want you to understand that human beings are made of needs. You fulfill my needs, I fulfill your needs. The day we stop fulfilling each other's needs, that is where we're cheating on each other. But if we continue fulfilling each other's needs, there is no reason somebody leaves. Because when a person is fully satisfied with us, why would they want to go anywhere else? Because believe it, when people go somewhere else, they are not going for another person. They are going to fulfill their needs from another person. Listen to this and understand this. You and I are sources of meeting each other's needs. Listen to this again. You and I are sources of meeting each other's needs. I am a source to fulfill your needs. You are a source to fulfill my needs. When the source of meeting needs is not doing a great job and I'm not meeting my needs from there, I change my source. Example, if I am trying to get water out of the well and for some time I get the water out of it, but then the source of water, which is the well, stops drying up and doesn't fulfill my need anymore, I am going to go and dig a well somewhere else. Right? Some of you will say, but Mitesh, it has nothing to do with me. My partner has a habit. He has a pattern of repeating and cheating people in his life. Listen, if I attracted— going back to the first step— this kind of a partner in my life, then I allowed that, didn't I? I accepted that, didn't I? That means it is my attraction. If you knew this is the kind of person you have in your life, you could have had the choice to leave your partner long ago. There is always a choice. But the reason we don't practice that choice is because we feel, no, no, I love that person. I don't want to do what that person does. Well, then whose choice is that? That is my choice. My choice is to be with my partner, even though my partner has his choice of probably cheating on me. But the point is, if I have not left him, then I'm being with him. And if I'm going to be with him, then I need to accept that this is my responsibility to be with that partner. Now, if you want to leave, leave. Really nothing wrong with that. But be clear, is this allowed? Is this not allowed? If this is not allowed, leave. If this is allowed, and then if you're now going to be in that relationship, don't crib, don't complain, because it was my choice to stay. Then I'm going to live in that relationship fully by fulfilling that partner's needs. Because if I'm not going to fulfill that partner's needs, believe it or not, that pattern of theirs to go to another source is just going to become stronger and stronger and stronger. Here is a 4th step that you can do to make sure that you're able to manage your emotions, something that will help you and help your partner both. And that is be happy in your partner's happiness. Sounds crazy, right? Sounds very, very crazy. But as difficult as this sounds, believe me, it is possible. I have learned it from my mentor in my relationship. Where we have practiced being happy for each other. Sometimes when we find our source of happiness somewhere else instead of in the same relationship. And it doesn't always have to be because we find a source of happiness with another person. It can also be through another friend. It can be through another job. It can be another task. It can be anything else. It is also, in a way, cheating, right? But the question is, can I be happy with your happiness? That is true love. Now, that will more than helping the other person, it'll help me. When I am happy in their happiness, I am secured. Why? Because now comes in the 5th step, which is the most powerful step. Here is the affirmation. Repeat with me loudly. I love myself the way I am. I'm complete the way I am. Say it with me. I love myself the way I am. I'm complete the way I am, with or without somebody else's love. With. Or without somebody else's love. I've experienced whenever people tell me that they're encountering the situation of their partner cheating them, they feel very incomplete. They feel hurt. They feel lack of love. Why? Because that means that your partner was 100% source of your love. Now, if your partner is 100% source of your love, obviously you're going to feel incomplete. You're going to feel empty. You're going to feel devastated that why did this happen to me? Because your source of love just went away. But instead of that, if you could make yourself the source of your own love, which is by saying, I love myself the way I am, I am complete the way I am, with or without somebody else's love. Yes, I appreciate somebody's love in my life, but I'm not incomplete without their love. The more you remember that I love myself the way I am, I'm whole, I'm complete with or without my partner, and hopefully Now you will attract a partner like this in your life, and if your partner also feels complete without you, and you also feel complete without the without your partner, now you've got two complete people making another complete relationship. But if I am incomplete in my relationship, where I feel I am nobody without my partner, and if my partner feels he or she is nobody without me, now there are two dependent people, two incomplete people trying to fulfill each other's needs. एक अधूरा इंसान दूसरे को क्या पूरा कर देगा? Right? One incomplete person cannot make another person complete. 2 complete people can definitely make each other complete. Try these steps, and I'm telling you, you will instantly feel that you have the strength to handle this situation. I'm not saying what happened is right. I'm also not saying what happened is good. I'm just saying what happened is what happened. Now let's learn to deal with it. Let's take, take your life to the next level. Because if we can't solve this problem, At least let's evolve from this problem. Okay, let's repeat the steps again. Step number 1, what do we do? I am 100% responsible for my life, for the situation. I'm 100% responsible for everything that I attract in my life. Step 2, where did I cheat in my life? Stop cheating there. Step 3, where am I not fulfilling my partner's needs? Write it down and see if you can fulfill your partner's needs so that the partner comes back to you for that source of needs. With you. Step number 4, feel happy for your partner. Start saying, I'm happy for my partner if my partner is happy somewhere else. It may even be a job. Believe it, the more you feel happy for your partner, that vibrations of feeling happy will go to your partner and will reflect back to you. Step 5 is very important, which is, I love myself the way I am. I am whole and complete the way I am, with or without my partner's love. Now I am complete. The step 6 is a bonus, but if you do it, you'll get magical results. Step 6 is start saying hope, nope, no for your partner at least twice in a day, if required, 3 times in a day. In fact, anytime during the day you remember your partner, say hope, nope, no. What is hope, nope, no? By the way, if you haven't learned the magical technique of hope, nope, no yet, please go to my video on what is hope, nope, no. I'll send you the link of this video below this video in the description somewhere, or you'll find it as an i-card on the top. Hope no, no is four simple statements. Think of your partner twice in a day and 108 times. Yes, 108. 108 times say this four statements for your partner. I'm sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. I love you. Get a mala. Get a bit which has 108 bits mala because it's easier to then count. If you find it difficult to count that way and you can't focus, go to YouTube and look for my video. 108 times hope no no with Mitesh Khatri. Read with me, say those hope no no statements with me, and chant with me 108 times. You don't even have to count. Say it with me and we'll finish 108 times together in that particular video. But do this twice in a day. I'm sorry, please forgive me, thank you, I love you. Why? If the person has cheated on you, that means there is some negative frequency between you and your partner. Now we can release that negative frequency, we can heal that negative frequency Simply by doing hope knock knock 108 times twice in a day, and then during the day whenever you feel sad, whenever you feel like crying, whenever you feel hatred, whenever you feel jealousy, whenever you feel frustration, whenever you feel helpless, whenever you feel lack of love, once at least immediately say I'm sorry, please forgive me, thank you, I love you, and if possible keep saying it until that feeling subsides. Why? Like I said, we may not be able to solve this situation. Then let's evolve from the situation, at least emotionally, so that if we emotionally evolve, hopefully the situation won't happen with us again. Even if it doesn't work out in this relationship, we'll attract more committed people in our life when we evolve our frequency. So take care of yourself. And hey, I don't like to say all the best, so I'm going to say congratulations to you for your relationship being committed. and full of love and harmony once again. Tell me in the comment section below if these points helped you. Tell me in the comment section below that you promise to do these things for the next 30 days, these 6 things that I told you, including hope. No problem. And when you will have magical results in your relationships, come and give me that good news in the comment section below. I would love to read about your good news. And if you want to practice with me emotionally, if you're not feeling stable, and if you really need my hand holding a little bit, Come and join my session called as Daily Magic Practice. Daily Magic Practice is where we don't focus on solving problems. We don't have conversations. There are no question answers. There's just practice, practice, and practice. Imagine this, Monday to Friday, every day 9 PM, practicing magic with me and with more than 1,000 magicians who say affirmations for 4 areas of life: health, relationships, career, and money. The more You are focused on all 4 areas of life, the better your life grows. So here's the 7th step. Start focusing on all 4 areas of life instead of only one area of life. Instead of only being obsessed in that relationship area where anyways right now some negativity is going on, start focusing on other areas of life as well. Start focusing on your health. Start exercising. Start losing or gaining weight, whatever is your goal. Start taking care of your other relationships in your life, which is your parents, your friends. Spend time with them. Be grateful that you have them, because otherwise, when we lose those people also, we feel, I wish I would have taken care of that relationship when it was there, right? So start focusing on the relationships that you have. Start focusing on your career. 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