How We Saved Our Marriage From Infidelity, Fights & Breakups | Law Of Attraction | Mitesh Khatri

So today we are going to show you how we saved our marriage from multiple times when we were almost about to break up, including very recently. And how did we create a happy married life with Law of Attraction practices? Our entire life has been a result of practicing manifestation, and very few people understand that manifestation is not only about affirmations and visualization and visualization and hope. Nope, nope. It's much more than that, and that is why today we are going to show you how we not only attracted each other, but how we maintained this relationship in spite of so many problems that we've had in our life. And like any couple, I think we've also had our share of problems, our share

of challenges. Yes.

So this video is especially for those of you who are married or you're in a relationship. If you are not in a relationship, watch it immediately because then you don't have to repeat the mistakes that we have made. And when you do make those mistakes, You know that you can also do the same things that we did to save your marriage and to have a happy married life. Ready, Indu? Ready. So just for you to know, this is completely spontaneous, right? Like, yes, we've not prepared for this at all. And everything that you're going to see in this video in terms of something that comes on the screen and everything is— we're just done by the team later. हम बस यहाँ पे spontaneously going to remember everything.

Like, we're going to recap our life.

Yeah, we're going to recap our life and we're going to just share everything with you. Okay, so tell us in the comments how do you like this idea later. Now, so Indu, let's start with. Should I start with how I manifested you?

Okay.

Okay, so how I manifested Indu was I had broken up with multiple girlfriends by before I met you. और मैंने decide कर लिया था मेरे को कोई लड़की नहीं मिलने वाली। And then I read this law of attraction book called Silva Mind Control, and I realized that.

इसका मैं course करके है अभी recently.

हाँ correct. So I realized that's a limiting belief. So I changed that limiting belief. I used one of the Silva Mind techniques those days. And the day I used that manifestation technique, I remember one week after that I met you. And and I think in a week or so we were already in a relationship in just like a very short period of time, right? But this is just how we manifested each other. Let's remember that what was one of our initial fights that almost broke off our relationship. In fact, there was one एकदम beginning में when we were not even married, right? We were in that initial stage of the relationship when we spoke to Sahil. क्या था वो?

So the first time you took me to Sahil.

Sahil is my mentor.

Sahil is our mentor. So you took me to Sahil. You said, मेरे को उसको मिलवाना है। We went there. We spoke to him, and Mitesh said, "I'm in love with her." And he said, "Don't call love so loosely." He said, "You like her. You can say you like her." He said, "You don't

understand the meaning of love yet."

Yet. So obviously we did not understand then anyway, and he was right.

As per him, today also we don't understand.

That is true. So, but that day Sahil asked me a lot of questions. You all know that this is my second marriage.

During that conversation, we were going through a tough fight,

right? No, no. About my son and all. No, no. This was normal.

Ha!

This was normal conversation. This was normal. Absolute normal. So, so Sahil asked me about my past. ये वो. So I told him that I'm I had marriage and the marriage lasted for so many days and then we broke up. Then he asked me the reason of breaking up. So I told him that the reason of breaking up was that the guy was engineer by qualification, but he wasn't making any money. And he got frustrated, and then he felt whatever ego issues with me because I was making hell lot of money then.

Heaven lot of money then.

Heaven lot of money then.

Why hell?

And I was living in UK and at a good position and stuff. So he got ego issues, and he then immediately after marriage, he got physical with me by hitting me. So when he hit me, I obviously took care of myself. You know me, I'm a very strong lady.

They don't know you, I know you.

They know me now. I am independent, a very, very strong lady. So I got him out of my life in like one week's time because he hit me. And then after that, so all this story in brief nutshell, I said with Sahil. Then Sahil asked me a very good question. Which kind of stopped me then and there. He said, how is Mitesh different from what you— your ex-husband was? So just to tell you briefly, Mitesh then was not making any money. He was not even a graduate, as you all know, he's undergrad. And he was not making any money when I met him. And he was— so he said, how is this guy different from the guy you Left behind, and that kind of made me think.

That guy was financially struggling. I was financially struggling.

He was also.

He was not doing good in his career. I was not doing good in my career.

So then he asked me that what made you attract him? So I told him that his nature, his emotions is that. So then his question was super valid. He said that assume that for after you get married, अभी तो आप लोग date कर रहे हो, but थोड़े साल में जब भी शादी कर लोगे After you get married, and if this guy continues to be the way he is, and he will not change anything.

The question he asked was if he never makes money in his life.

Then that means he will never make money anytime.

And in career he will always be a failure.

In career he'll always be a failure, which was your reason for leaving that guy. What will happen? So उनके सामने तो मैंने बोल दिया कि नहीं नहीं मैं ठीक रहूँगी वगैरह वगैरह. But then I did come back. See, I'm a logical person completely. I did come back and I thought about it. But he gave me a lesson that day. He said that when you get challenges in life, that's a lesson in that. And if you don't complete that lesson, that lesson comes back to you in multifold. So if you see in him, that has come in extra multifold because at least that guy was an engineer.

This guy—

undergraduate. He was undergraduate.

Worst lesson.

So I understood that. So I realized that if I want to move ahead in my life, I have to complete this lesson here. Correct. So I then asked him later again. I connected back with him, and I asked him that, okay, now I yes, I am ready to commit to this relationship, and I am ready to accept him the way he is completely. And even if he doesn't make any money after that also, I will never ask him to make money. And I never followed up with him. Yeah. कि पैसा बनाओ. I just he did it.

And I was happy to live on our money. Good problem.

I just supported him in his life and in his career and stuff. But मैंने कभी इसकी जाननी कहीं कि तूने इंटरव्यू क्यों नहीं दिया कि जॉब क्यों नहीं किया कि ये इसके ही खुद के ही सपने थे जो I helped him fulfill.

That was one and I think another time when we almost broke off in our relationship was because of me. When I remember I used to come to

stories are

because actually that's true most of the times I only wanted to break up she never wanted to break up except recently वो भी आएगा अभी हाँ that was the time she wanted to leave हाँ that that was the only time okay so but that was So the next incident was when I used to— and we were still not married, but we were kind of in a live-in relationship. I was living in her house, and every day I would go home and come back the next day. And I used to always come late, being kind of— I'm a spontaneous guy, so time was not— I'm not a disciplined kind of a person. And mostly I would be late whenever I— if I said I'll come back 10 o'clock, I used to come at 10:30. And by the time I used to come back 10:30, she was already crying. I was angry. Yeah, but your tears and your anger used to be together. Combination hotata. Mirch masala. And as a result of that, I used to be like, what happened? Why are you crying? She's like, how can you be? How can you be late? Like, how can you treat me like that? I'm like, I'm just late. I went too late to my school all my life. For her, it was a big deal. But long story short, we fought about it so many times, and that was one.

I was returned from UK. See, late doesn't. Fit in my agenda.

ये UK का time से कोई लेने-देना है। हमारी India के भी time पर discipline बहुत सारे लोग हैं। Amitabh Bachchan India से है, सुना है आज तक वो time पे ही जाता है, right? See? So at that time I remember that I used to come late and we used to fight a lot about these things. These small rules of why you late, why you keeping things here and there. And I remember one day I went to Sahil and I said I want to break off in this relationship. भाई ये लड़की मेरे से नहीं settle होना है। And I remember Sahil gave me a beautiful example. He said cricket खेला है कभी? I said गली cricket खेला है। So he said tell me that you are not a good player, don't tell me the game is wrong. कि ये मत बोल कि game गलत है, ये बोल कि हाँ तू अच्छा player नहीं।

लड़की गलत नहीं है,

तू

handle नहीं कर रहा जा रहा

है। Fair. So he finally said कि bowler इतना strong है, तो तू batting कमजोरी कर रही है, तो तेरी problem है। I said वो भी ठीक है। And then he made me realize the same lesson he gave her, that if you don't pass this lesson here, what gives you the guarantee that you will not meet someone like this again in your life? Not only as a girlfriend, but maybe as a boss, maybe as a friend, maybe as a client. Somebody who dominates you to do things their way, and you don't know how to handle that. And I realized that I had to evolve instead of running away from this relationship. With the help of Sahil, I learned to change my belief patterns. And this is where Law of Attraction is a practice internally, not only to do affirmations like, I'm happily married, but also upgrading my belief patterns and getting ready for a better relationship.

Completing your lessons.

Completing my lessons. And I think that really helped us sustain that period. And from then till now, every time I feel that I'm losing in this game and the bowler is getting too difficult in bowling, I always remember that, get better at batting. Don't complain about the baller, right? And every time I learn to get better, and that is how we've had an amazing relationship till now, where we keep learning, I keep upgrading my beliefs. So one of the next things that I think almost broke our relationship was where she was very aggressive by nature and I was very submissive by nature. And she— every time she would get angry, she had the right reasons to be angry. She would get angry at the maids, or she would get angry at the waiter, I would disrespect her by saying के तू लोगों से ऐसे क्यों बात कर रही है? And then she would say तू मुझसे ऐसे बात कर सकता है मैं लोगों से ऐसे बात क्यों नहीं कर सकती? And that used to just get into a crazy fight between each other.

Can you see the reflection here? Yeah, exactly right. Now

and as a result of that things were getting so difficult for me to handle that I thought यार I cannot be with her anymore. I used to start judging her and I thought that I was a better person कि मैं लोगों को judge नहीं करता and she is not a good person. And she's constantly being angry with people, ill-treating people. And because of that, I thought, ये relationship नहीं चलेगा। And that is where first time again Sahil made me realize that I needed to accept that that quality is required in life. Yeah. Or her quality का advantage और disadvantage होता है कि her aggression has an advantage that she helps me get disciplined. She helped me improve in my job. She helped me grow in my business. When we

started, she's making money.

She herself is making money. She's successful.

And supporting the family.

Supporting the family. That is because of her aggression. The disadvantage of that is कुस्सा तो आएगा। The disadvantage of that is कि जहाँ ज़रूरत नहीं है, वहाँ पे domination भी आएगा। But that is going to be part and parcel of the game. And he made me realize this by my nature that you think that you are a very sweet person, which is an advantage. उसका अपना advantage भी है। पर उसका disadvantage ये है कि I am very lazy। उसका disadvantage ये है कि that I was not disciplined in my career. I was not focused on work. I was not taking responsibility. ये मेरे disadvantages थे।

Yeah.

And I realized that she's not completely wrong. I'm not completely wrong. We're just two different people who need to learn something from each other, and that is why we got together. And relationship, I remember that day Sahil said, is not the ultimate purpose of relationship is not just marriage. It's to learn something from each other.

Complement each other.

Complement each other's behaviors. I realized I needed to learn aggression from her. She realized she needed to learn being submissive from me sometimes. And both are not wrong qualities. Both are not perfect qualities, but both are just required qualities in certain times of life. And I think that learning definitely helped us sustain our relationship till now. I think, yeah, like if I would have continued judging you, I think things wouldn't have.

No, no, we wouldn't have sustained.

Yeah, we wouldn't have sustained. So that really saved our marriage. And if manifestation का practice यहाँ पे मैं बताऊँ, I started saying that I appreciate her the way she is, and I started saying that. I accept those qualities that she has. I also have. So this is where we saved our marriage with practice of love traction. The next one was a big one, which I think I'll let her tell you.

No, I think that everyone knows.

बता दें.

That in 2007, he got attracted to a girl—not one girl—but in that one one year, I think three affairs. Three four affairs in that three. Okay.

Okay four.

मुझे

याद नहीं है हम मान लेते

हैं। Three four affairs he had, so then I caught him and then I really thought that this is not working out. But again, Saeed said the same thing. We again went back to Saeed. So Saeed, can you see that you saved our marriage now?

So many times.

That's the reason on my marriage anniversary I send you a message saying thank you because you are the one who saved my marriage. So I reached to Saeed. I told him that this is what happened and I am going to Now get out of this relationship. I don't want to continue. He said, "तुझे जाना है तो जा मैं तुझे रोकूँगा नहीं but सीख के जा फिर से वही बात है बाद में फिर किसी को attract करेगी वो भी यही करेगा तो then I thought okay बोलिए क्या करना है तो then he's like मैं तीन महीना जैसे मैं बोलता हूँ तू कर अगर उसके बाद में तुझे मन करा तो चले जा वहाँ I said okay fine that's when he taught me EFT and hope knock knock and now you all know that I practice that Like every single day.

Yeah, hope nope no has become our landmark practice every day in our life and the course.

And the course. And I do EFT. I do hope nope no. So he taught me. He taught me reflection. He taught me EFT. He taught me hope nope no. And I used to talk to him every single day. And then, of course, within a month, I settled with that. And then I accepted that. ये तो ऐसे ही

है। Guys, we are not promoting that the man is right by having an affair. We're also not promoting that I was right, and we are also not saying that you should do what Indu did in your relationship. We're just sharing about our life the way we would like to share Law of Attraction practices. We are sharing what happened in our life

and how we took our life to next—

how we took our life to the next level. We're not giving any advice right now. This is just about helping you understand that no matter how difficult a situation comes in a marriage, one can save them. How we saved, which is sharing that.

We are just sharing.

Okay?

Okay. We are not promoting. Thank you.

That was good. पता चला लड़का दो-तीन affair कर लेगा बोलेगा मेरे videos से सुनके किया।

नहीं और लड़के मेरी जानकारी आएगी नहीं नहीं।

हाँ कि तुमने accept कर लिया हम भी करेंगे। नहीं कोई जरूरी नहीं accept करना। That was the first month where Indu said she's willing to accept me the way I am. So first she had decided she'll break off with me that she spoke to Sahil and she said okay I'm gonna be I'm gonna learn to accept it with you. And be in this marriage happily. Having said that, बोलना बहुत आसान था। Every day there was a lot of crying. Every day there was a lot of guilt from my side for what I did. I thought I was wrong. In that process, things were not like we were not really happy those days. And that's when Dr. D. Martini's book came in.

Yeah.

And what was the biggest lesson from that?

So that book actually, I honestly, I don't remember the entire book completely. I just remember two things in that. One is Every जो मितेश हमेशा बोलते रहते हैं कि nothing is curse, everything is blessing. So he basically made me realize that write down the positives of मितेश and write down the negatives of मितेश. And he also made us realize that every situation has a positive. Yeah.

And a negative.

And a negative, of course. Negative तो है ही। So every situation has a positive and it has a balanced perspective. So we we got went through that book completely मतलब honestly.

I used to read it.

हाँ, we have. So every

day I would read two three pages and I would share it with

We would share and then we discuss, discuss. We'll write down, do the exercise. So we did that entire book like that, and we did a complete balanced perspective in that. And we, after that book, we have actually accepted each other completely because उस बुक ने पूरे negatives list down कर दिए मेरे मितेश के लिए और मितेश के मेरे लिए. And then I wrote down that what are the positives of his negatives. For example, अभी दो मिनट पहले मितेश ने share किया कि मैं aggressive But that aggression of mine has helped us grow our business big time because I'm aggressive in selling, I'm aggressive in collecting money, and a lot of other things, putting systems in place or whatever. Like this, he's submissive. I have learned that from him because that helps me build the relationships properly, manage things properly, treat people properly. So we both wrote down the positives and negatives of each other, and for every negative, what is the positive, we wrote down. As a result of that At the end of that book, maybe after a week, I think we both have accepted each other fully.

So the lesson in that book was acceptance is not about simply feeling good about a person. Acceptance is truly about.

वो तो होगा भी नहीं वित्ते पांच

मिनट में

फिजल डाउन हो

जाएगा। Feeling good factor तो गायब हो जाती right कुछ time पे। But true acceptance is about logically and consciously writing down the advantages and the disadvantages of the person and with an open mind saying. I accept both of this. Like, I accept the good and I accept the bad, and it's worth it. And also realizing that there is always going to be an imbalance in life. And I think this was the biggest principle of manifestation that we learned from Dr. John Demartini.

Biggest.

That only affirmations is not going to help you grow, because sometimes people use affirmations for unrealistic expectations. That I will have a husband like Shah Rukh Khan who looks like Salman Khan, or Or I will have a wife like Sridevi who looks like Madhuri Dixit, right? And who feels like Aishwarya Rai. And we have these unrealistic expectations of life, and that's why manifestation doesn't work. Evolution is really about understanding. I remember Dr. John Demartini said the speed at which you evolve is the speed at which you see balance in life higher and higher, faster and faster. So I think that book really saved our marriage during that time, and Not only that time, from then till now, it has been our guiding principle. Yes, whenever we go through difficulties in life, even in business today, we still learn from Dr. John Demartini. And that is why we had made ourselves a promise that one day we will learn from him personally, remember? And the good news is, many years later, when we were successful, we invited Dr. John Demartini for that entire 2-day workshop for our Platinum Community. And as a result of that Not just we learned personally from him, the whole platinum community learned with him personally. And the good news is, you want to tell them the good news?

Ha! Now the good news

is, I don't know when you're watching this video.

I ha! I really don't know when you're watching this video. But if you're watching this video in the month of June or July, then the good news is that we are recreating that program and we are re-inviting Dr. John DiMartini for a two

days workshop,

two days long breakthrough experience. Last time. He had 777 people attending Breakthrough Experience, and he says that was the largest batch he ever had. Correct. So this time I I really intend to create at least thousand member batch for him.

I possibly can because three thousand तो हमारे platinum members ही होंगे। हाँ। And this time what are we planning?

This time I'm planning to give it only to platinum. Last time we had

hundred percent sponsored by us.

This time it's going to be hundred percent sponsored by us, and it's going to be only and only for Paid platinum members. It's not going to be available for non-platinum. Last time we had made it available.

Like for ticket sale also last time.

Ticket sale also non-platinum members के लिए. This time we are not going to do that. We will keep it completely for.

So that's one good news. And this is how Dr. John D. Marty became one of those mentors who helped us grow in our life. That was the time. I think a fair time he saved our marriage.

2008. 2008.

After that, was there anything else that

नहीं

छोटे-मोटे

झगड़े तो होते ही रहते

हैं। For us to have a happy married life, we need to have easier rules in our life, where rules are not only about this is not acceptable. Some rules are about this is acceptable. So I started saying that Indu is allowed to disagree with all my ideas, and she started saying I am allowed to

raise a voice,

raise my voice, right? And as a result of that, those small small fights I think they just disappeared.

Small fights, I think it's okay. I don't have a problem.

You don't have to conflict कभी भी फर्क नहीं पड़ता। But over a period of time now, even if I shout, she says, I say like, if she gets angry with me, I'm like, I'm allowed. If I tell her an idea and she disagrees with me, and if I get angry with her about that idea disagreement, she says,

I'm allowed.

I'm allowed. And as a result of that, we both relax about it. That one lesson I think has made a big impact on our daily life.

So now that you know that I'm bringing Dr. Demartini again by paying almost ₹70-80 lakh to him.

It's a huge amount.

It's a huge amount. I'm going to pay from my pocket only for Platinum members. If you are interested and if you want to transform your life using Breakthrough Experience and other teachings of Dr.

Demartini, learn from our mentors with us.

Learn from the legend. Actually, I always say that he's the most learned man I've ever met. So if you want to learn from the legend, come join, join our Platinum Membership. I'm giving you link in the description where you get to attend free masterclass on Platinum Membership. Do attend. If you find it interesting, please join.

And looking forward to learn with you in Dr. John Demartini's program, full 2 days live, the Breakthrough Experience.

And that too in India time zone. If you attend with him live, he conducts in any time zone— UK, US, Australia. But when he comes for us, it's going to be India time zone.

India time zone. So this is how Dr. John Demartini saved us, and most importantly, this is how we saved our marriage with multiple learnings of manifestation on a daily basis.

These were just 3, 3, 4.

These were just 3 or 4 incidents, and even today we keep using all manifestation principles. And in our Relationship Mastery Workshop, one of the biggest results that people get is in just a one month— I, I don't even think it takes one month nowadays. It just takes one or 2 weeks where people go through the relationship mastery part of Platinum. And as a result of that, the fights that people used to have in 10, 10 years are dissolved in just a couple of weeks. Why? Because then people become better human beings.

Yeah.

See, Platinum is not only about goals and affirmations. It's about becoming a better human being who lives life Platinum standards. And relationship is One of that. So be part of our platinum membership. Link is in the description below. And I hope our story has helped some of you get this hope that no matter how difficult your life gets, no matter how difficult your relationships get, you are always ready to take it to the next level by evolving in your life based on some of the lessons that we shared with you. And in case you're not married yet, hope it helps you get ready for a better married life in the future.

डरना मत It's— these are just, uh, we are 20— we are married for what, 21 years? We are married 22,

23,

21 years, 23 years togetherness. And in 23 years,

I count from the day one only married, so 23 years.

In 23 years, 3, 4 fights are allowed. Normal. It's normal.

Even the breakup situations are normal, and you can evolve with that if you work on yourself as a person.

Perfect.

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