In this motivational talk, Paridhi Dhingra challenges the audience’s habit of postponing happiness until future goals are achieved. She points out that planning holidays or milestones often leads to disappointment because the anticipated joy is missing when the event arrives. Instead, she advocates moving directly from happiness to happiness and from fun to fun, encouraging participants to adopt unlimited, daily fun. Paridhi proposes a concrete exercise: each person should commit with a partner (spouse, family member, or friend) to create playful, naughty interactions every day, sharing ideas on how to have fun at home. She illustrates the concept with anecdotes about being mischievous, teasing colleagues, and recalling childhood naughtiness, urging listeners to reconnect with that inner child. The talk blends Hindi and English, uses interactive questions, and provides examples of teasing, tickling, and spontaneous jokes as ways to inject fun into everyday life.
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We are too serious in our life. Yes or no? And all the seriousness is about coming from that condition, I will only be happy and have fun when I achieve my goals. So you have planned a holiday one year from now. Yes or no? And the day the holiday comes, guess what happens? Popad. How many of you have gone through that? Where you actually go for the holiday and that emotion is missing. Yes or no? Yes. Because you're going from zero to something, doesn't work. Would you go from happiness to happiness? Yes. Fun to fun? Yes. Works. Yes or no? Yes. Now I'll give you an amazing exercise. But before that, how many of you promise to have unlimited fun? Oh yes. For what purpose? On which occasion? When? Now. And every day? Every day. So I want you to commit to your partner that during the day, Whom will you have fun with and how? The way you've never done before today. Tomorrow when you go home, day after tomorrow when you go home, I want your family members to call me and say क्या किया इनका? पागल खाने लेके गए थे क्या? आया है जब से हंसना बंद नहीं हुआ है। गुदगुदी करे जा रहा है। Come up with some ideas and tell your partner how will you have fun when you go home? Not today. यहाँ तो मैं कराई लूँगा। घर जाके कैसे करोगे ये ideas दो एक दूसरे को। चलो one minute talk to each other. Go ideas how how will you have fun when you go home? Have you come up with some creative ideas to have fun? Look, I'll give you some examples. I want all of you to say this with me: I am very naughty. Weren't you like this once upon a time when you were a child? Yes or no? Let's have unlimited fun. Let's be naughty again. I'll give you examples. Yesterday morning, Indu was attending Imran's session in the morning for graphotherapy. How many of you attend graphotherapy in the morning? I don't know if anybody was there yesterday morning. She was like full attention, sir. And I just woke up. It was I think 7:30 in the morning. I came from there and I think, "Boo!" And she skipped a heartbeat. She said, "अबे वीडियो ऑन है।" मैंने कहा, "तो किस थोड़ी कर रहा हूँ? और कर भी रहा हूँ तो लोगों को इंस्पिरेशन ही मिलेगी।" Right? You'll observe. I am having fun during my day. Like I'm I'm being naughty. I'm teasing. Yesterday, Imran got a beautiful gift, and I we have I was supposed to get it from the room. And Indu said, "लेके आया?" मैंने कहा, "नहीं लेके आया।" So she's like, "अरे एक लाया क्यों नहीं?" मैं बोल गया, "बैग मेरे हाथ में था।" Have fun. Tease people. वो बात अलग है कि वो bag गलत थी। मेरा ही पोपट हो गया। But have fun, have fun. One or two more ideas exchange करो। डराना, गुदगुदी करना, having fun.