In this therapeutic coaching segment, Paridhi Dhingra leads participant Speaker A through a series of guided affirmations aimed at shifting from feelings of hate, disconnection, and anger toward unconditional love and self‑compassion. The dialogue repeatedly asks the participant to verbalize love toward key figures—mother, father, daughters, husband, and self—while probing the presence of negative emotions such as hate, loneliness, and suicidal thoughts. Paridhi challenges the participant to consider loving the husband despite his imperfections and infidelity, encouraging a re‑identification from a solely "strong" persona to a "loving" one. The session incorporates forgiveness exercises, repeated mantra‑like statements, and visualizations of how the participant’s love will affect her children. Throughout, the tone remains supportive, conversational, and hopeful, culminating in the participant affirming a desire to become a loving person.
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Hate is a very strong word.
Do you love your husband the way he is?
No.
If today is the last day of your life, is there hatred in this? Is there a disconnection in this? No. Is there loneliness in this? Is there lack in this?
No.
I know. Will you recover? Look in her eyes and just say, I love you.
You have to— she has to say.
Yeah, she has to say.
Yeah, I love you.
Now I want you to think that's your mom and say, I love you.
I love you.
I want you to think that's your father and say, I love you. I love you. I do. Now I want you to see your daughters in her, both your daughters in her eyes, and say, I love you.
I love you.
And now I want you to see there's one pinky in her too, which is you, and say, I love you. How come she doesn't leave at pinky?
I love you.
So you do want to feel love?
Yes.
That means you're capable of love?
Yes.
And if you felt it, how would life be?
Great.
But you don't think it's possible?
It is possible.
Possible? You sure?
Yes.
Can you start— what do you say? Can you start love here?
Yes.
Emotionally?
Yes.
And is it okay for people to be who they are?
Yes.
And can you still love them?
Yes.
Not because that's who they are, because that's how you are.
Yes.
Because you are loving.
Right.
And if you are loving— because you don't know how many people she's cheated, by the way. You want to check with her family? No. Suddenly you'll hate her.
Hate is a very strong word.
Exactly.
It's a very strong word.
Then you'll start— so hate is a strong word, but disconnected is okay. Interesting. So you want to feel disconnected with her?
No.
But she's not perfect.
Right. Nobody is perfect. I'm not perfect. Oh,
you're not? You're not perfect? No. Wow! So can you love you the way you are?
Yes.
So can you love her the way she is?
Yes.
Can you love your children the way they are?
Yes.
Can you love your parents the way they are?
Yes.
In spite of the decisions they made?
Yes.
Can you love your husband the way he is?
No.
Too soon! I know you don't want to, but forget about him. What if you were a loving person anyway, unconditionally, and anybody who came close to you just felt love because that's who you are? Has nothing to do with them, because he's your biggest test. If you fail with him, you fail everywhere, and you're trying to run away from there. If you pass there, Guess what? You pass everywhere. I remember when Sahil I went to first time and I said, Sahil, I want to let go of this girl. यार मेरे से नहीं संभल रही। My my mentor. He said, "Tell me you can't play the game. Don't tell me the game is wrong." So I was like, "Yeah, okay. She's a difficult game. That's for sure." But then I said, "Okay, I want to learn how to love." And when I started learning to love, I realized it was not that difficult. She's an amazing person. I was screwed in my mind, I couldn't see love. So would you like to declare that you are a loving person instead of just a strong person all the time?
Yes.
I mean, you can still be strong and loving.
Both.
Both, can't you?
Yes.
And you are already, aren't you?
Yes.
Just that you suppress the loving part and you only focus on the strong part. True. Check your breathing. Say it again. I am a loving person.
I am a loving person.
Easy for me to love people.
Easy for me to love people.
The way they are.
The way they are.
If you lived life like this, at least today, how will you live life?
Right.
And will you be able to give love to these people here?
Yes.
And to your children?
Yes.
And how do you feel about yourself? Do you think you're worth loving yourself? Yes. In that case, do you feel like committing suicide right now?
No.
Sure? I mean, we can arrange things. After all, this is a miracle day.
No.
You sure?
Yes.
So let's look at everyone and say, I love you.
I love you.
But the fact is, he can feel as much love as you want him to if you give him But it's not about him, it's about you giving and you feeling so that if today is the last day of your life, maybe you could die in love, not hate, disconnected.
I don't mean—
Or connected, I get it, disconnected.
Right, disconnected.
So maybe you could die in connection instead of disconnection if today was the last day of your life.
Right.
Nobody can control life and death. How many of you agree? So, do you want to live— leave this world with love, with connection or disconnection?
Connection.
Because whatever you're doing with your husband right now, your daughters are learning. And they're learning that if a man is imperfect, I'm supposed to be angry with him all my life? Are men perfect?
No.
So will your daughters find the perfect man?
No.
But anyways, she's taken care of it because she's told them not to get married anyway. So they're never going to get hurt, right?
They will. They will.
But will they recover?
I want them to recover.
How will they learn?
From me.
Will you recover? Yes. Will you show recovery is love again? Not the perfect love, but just love.
Yes.
And if they learn that from you, in future will they be able to handle their marriage?
Yes.
Do you think it's worth their love to be loving? Yes. When would you like to start?
Now.
How? By loving and forgiving who? How did I allow that? Huh? Can you forgive yourself for allowing that, for manifesting that?
Yes.
So say it. I forgive myself.
I forgive myself.
I love myself.
I love myself.
And if you love and forgive yourself, who can you forgive? The person you manifested in your life. Right. Can you love him and forgive him? बोल के देखो क्या होता है, भूकंप आता है क्या होता है, पता करते हैं। बोल के देखो क्या होता है। Let's see how you feel. Forget about the right and wrong. Let's check the heart. Say I forgive him. Say I'll suffer all my life. But I'll not say it.
No, I will not suffer.
Okay, so then take an attempt and say it. I'll I forgive him for me, not for him.
I forgive him.
I love him, not for him, for me, for my daughters. करके देखो क्या होता है? Forgive तो बोल दिया उससे तो कुछ नहीं हुआ.
But that will not be truth.
Say it. Let's find out. The truth is not what is. The truth is what we say it is. And what we say repeatedly, it is— say it again.
I love my daughters.
Yep. And I love him the way he is.
No.
I know you don't. I'm not asking you to love the man to be with him as a wife again, but can you show compassion to someone who was imperfect?
Different ways, but
Okay, what way? Compassion?
Compassion, like caring or something.
Okay, so say it, I'm compassionate towards him. You see, even that's not possible. So who has a pattern of being angry? Do you see how much anger is there?
Yes.
It has nothing to do with him, it's everything to do with you. You can melt it like this by just start saying it. Say it. I'm compassionate for him.
I'm compassionate.
No, just what happened by the way? आ गया वो यहाँ पे कुछ हो गया? नहीं। नहीं। कुछ
हुआ? नहीं, nothing.
But how did you feel? Forget about everything else. About yourself. Calm or stressed?
Calm.
Calm. Now say I love him the way he is.
It's okay to be the way he is.
I'm not saying it's okay. I said I love him the way he is. बोल के देखो क्या आता है?
Sorry, it's not coming out.
You know coming out क्या आता है? आवाज़ है. Imagine it's gas coming out of your mouth. Love.
It will be just saying I love.
Just say it for the sake of it.
Okay, I love the way he is.
No, not the way he is. I love him the way he is.
I love him the way he is.
Because that's who he is.
Because that's what he is.
Say it 5 times.
I love the way he is. I love him. That's the way he is. I love him because that's the way he is. I love him because that's the way he is.
Now this doesn't have to become true, but check how you're feeling.
My heart is beating faster.
Yeah, beating faster. But there's something different about this one. Is there hatred in this? Is there disconnection in this? Is there loneliness in this? Is there lack in this? No. Isn't it worth living something which is not lack, not loneliness? Yes. You tried it five times; it felt good. Be honest. Yes or no? So say it one more time.
I love the way because the way, that's the way he is.
Okay, so imagine all of these people are those cheaters. Look at them and say, I love you the way you are.
I love the way you are because that's—
The way you are.
The way you are.
Again.
I love you all because that's the way you are.
Look at her and say that. Don't worry, I'm not calling her a cheater.
I love you because that's the way you are.
That's it. Is it that hard? In this moment, do you feel more stressed about yourself or relaxed? Relaxed. From here starts a new life, either of being a loving person or being an angry person. Who do you want to be?
Loving person.
Feel the gentleness in the voice now? Yes. Is something melted? Yes. What will this manifest into? Love. And guarantee you this, Take it on stamp paper. We'll meet her again in the one-day miracle meet next time. I will check with her her daughter's behavior, and I guarantee you the reserved will will start talking. There's a link below in the video description right now. Click on that link. Register now, where you will go through more details on what advanced law of attraction is. You will learn the secret of releasing your negative emotions and going through tears of joy experience during that 90 minutes. You will feel something that you have never felt before. I promise you that. Try me out. Click on the link, register now, go through more such lessons in advance so that you know that you're moving towards the right direction and learning advanced Law of Attraction that can truly help you achieve your goals, right? See you soon in the next video. Bye.
