In this coaching session, Paridhi Dhingra guides a housewife who feels financially dependent on her husband. She challenges the belief that her husband's earnings are not her own by highlighting the housewife’s contributions to the household and introducing the concept of "money frequency"—the combined effect of emotions, thoughts, beliefs, and actions on attracting wealth. Paridhi helps the client recognize feelings of helplessness and comparison with others as limiting patterns, and reframes her mindset to view the husband's income as shared wealth. She emphasizes that feeling rich, independent, and deserving can shift one's frequency, leading to new ideas for earning—such as finding a job, freelancing, or tutoring. The session concludes with a practical affirmation: "I am attracting this money because I deserve it," encouraging the client to adopt a grateful, abundant mindset to attract more financial opportunities.
Sir, I want to be financially independent. I don't want to depend on my husband's money. What should I do? I feel my husband's money is not my money.
A lot of people in our community ask us this question, especially women, that I want to be financially independent. My husband's money is there, but I don't want to be dependent on him. So while yes, there are answers on how you can be financially independent, but here is a very important answer for you. First question to you. So are you working with him or are you doing a job or are you a housewife right now?
I'm a housewife.
You're a housewife right now. Okay. Can you tell me that if you don't do things that you do in your house right now, if you don't take care of the cooking, if you don't care of take care of the children, if you don't take care of him when he comes home, and if you leave him completely alone right now, can you check if your husband can be as successful as he is today and financially as good he is today without all this support?
No.
नहीं ना। So that means who is also responsible for making that money? Me. But the problem is you're not owning that.
Right.
You strongly believe that that money is not your money.
Correct.
By the way, maybe your husband doesn't believe it's not your money. He believes that money belongs to him and you both. Has he even said it to you many times?
Yes.
कि अपना ही पैसा है, right? But in spite of that, you feel that strong disconnection with him that नहीं मुझे अपना पैसा कमाना है।
Correct.
That is where your money frequency is not there. What do I mean by money frequency? Emotions, thoughts, beliefs, and actions are frequencies. Correct?
Yes.
So emotionally, how do you feel when your husband is making money and you're not making money?
I feel he's earning and I am just wasting his money.
So this is your belief that I am just earning, or rather he's just earning and I'm just wasting money. And what are you feeling? ये तो belief है. स्टेटमेंट है, थॉट है। फीलिंग क्या आता है?
हेल्पलेस एंड पोर।
हाँ, यूअर फीलिंग हेल्पलेस, यूअर फीलिंग पोर। सो अब नोटिस करो, यूनिवर्स हैज़ ऑलरेडी गिवन यू मनी। योर हस्बैंड इज़ वेल टू डू। यूव गोट, हीज़ गोट गुड जॉब, गुड सैलरी। यू आर कंफर्टेबल फाइनेंशियली। बट No. So is it possible that you're starting to do a job, and in the job you may compare yourself with somebody who's doing a better job than you are in that company, a girl or a guy who's doing better than you, making more money than you, and now you're comparing yourself with that person and again feeling small and poor? Is that possible?
Yes.
In fact, have you realized this might be a pattern with you in the past, that you compare yourself with others?
Yes, I always do.
So now, is it important first To get a job opportunity, to get a business opportunity, or is it first important to be happy with what you have and realizing that your husband's money is actually even your money?
Correct. To realizing.
So think about it now. Is your husband's money your money or not?
Yes, it is.
If your contribution wouldn't be there, would he be able to make as much money as he is today?
No.
So question is, are you rich or poor right now?
I am rich.
Are you independent or dependent right now?
Independent.
Yeah, your mind was about to say dependent, but now you realize that his money is your money. So then you are financially independent, correct?
Yes.
So think about it now. If she starts feeling emotionally independent, if she believes that she's rich, and if she believes that she— her husband's money is her money, which it is. Now with this frequency, what are the chances that when you start a new opportunity, she will make more money? What are the chances?
I can find a job, I can freelance, I can take tuitions.
Now you see, ideas are coming.
Yes.
But the reason these ideas are coming, because you're vibrating at the frequency of feeling independent, feeling rich, right? You're not feeling small anymore about yourself, because now you realize that the money is there in your house is whose money?
My money.
So all of you who are listening to me, and if you are women out there going through the similar situation, please remember this. Your husband's money is your money. Your parents' money is your money. If you're living with somebody in your family right now who's supporting you financially and you're living in that house, believe it or not, you are being part of that energy of that money. That is why it got attracted to you. How can anything get attracted to you if that's not your frequency? You deserve it because you got it, and you got it, that means you deserve it. So the universe has given it to you in the form of your father, husband, brother, friend. Boss, somebody is supporting you right now. But instead of feeling grateful about it and realizing that you it is part of your energy, you're feeling no no no this is not my money. And that is called bad money frequency. So the first thing I want some of you to do who's listening to me right now is this: start saying this. I am attracting this money because I deserve it. Say it. I am attracting this money because
I deserve it.
Now the moment you say I deserve it, how do you feel?
I feel good.
And if you feel good about attracting money and deserving money, is there a chance you'll make more money?
Yes.
See, like attracts like. Deserving people attract deserving things, and non-deserving people attract non-deserving things. Which means if you keep feeling that you don't deserve it, you'll attract problems rather than opportunities, right? Would you love to go more in detail about relationships? Would you love to understand how relationships work? Would you love to know how you can take your relationship frequency to the next level? We have a wonderful program called Relationship Mastery where we give you the skills to create the kind of love and happiness that you want in your relationship, emotionally and physically, and balance that in your life. How do you do that? The first lesson of that course is my gift to you. Yes, I always give the first lesson of my program to people as a gift so that you know that when you're joining a program like this which is going to change your life, you've experienced it first, then made the decision. Ready? I promise you, lesson number 1 is going to be a game changer in your life. It's going to be a life changer. In the description below, there's a link. Click on the link right now. Register quickly. I hope the video is still free. We've kept it free for a limited period of time. Quickly click on it, register, and when you come to the 90 Minutes Relationship Mastery first lesson, I am waiting to see what kind of results you create after that. So please spread this message to more of your friends who need to hear this. Do you know some people who are struggling like this in their life right now where they're not realizing that what they have, they need to be grateful about it instead of feeling it's not my money? They need to own that. If you know some people like that, please share this video right now with minimum 3 such friends and tell me in the comment section below, how did you feel after this video and what did your friends feel after watching that video? So thank you so much. Click on the subscribe button and hey, don't just click on the subscribe button, hit the bell icon so that next time we are creating content like this, you definitely get a notification. Thank you very much. See you soon in the next video. Bye.
