In this YouTube testimonial, Kavita, a Platinum program member, recounts a 1.5‑year transformation sparked by the ALOA (All‑Level‑of‑Awareness) teachings she received from coach Paridhi Dhingra. She describes how shifting her internal "frequency" and adopting gratitude, priority‑setting, and boundary‑setting practices reshaped multiple life domains. Professionally, she moved from a small, toxic workplace to a major MNC (Warner Brothers) and, within two months, experienced the company’s acquisition by Netflix, positioning her for a role at the streaming giant. On the family front, she stopped reacting to her parents’ conflicts, offering calm support instead of emotional upheaval. Financially, she confronted a long‑standing pattern of lending money without safeguards, took a gold loan to recover a 50‑lakh debt, and now asserts legal and assertive measures to reclaim it. Throughout, Kavita emphasizes the role of mindset work—recognizing that she cannot change others, focusing on her own responses, and maintaining emotional frequency—as the catalyst for these concrete outcomes.
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About being a platinum member, it's been one and a half year. The biggest, biggest changes that ALOA learnings I implemented in my life, one biggest one being at work. I would always like complain and crib like, you know, the other person just said like, so the boss is toxic, work culture is toxic, or people are this, that. When I applied these triggers, then I stopped complaining. It's everything in my head, how I see it. Uh, so let me just focus what is priority. Then I just started putting the skills that I need to learn, why I'm doing this job. It is the passion, it is what I wanted to do in my life when I was struggling a lot during my education. So I started being more grateful about this is something I made a choice and I want to accept. When the world became very, very toxic as people, I started looking them— it's them, it's their insecurity. It is their behavior, they're controlling. That's not, you know, what shifted so much for me. And then when I realized that, you know, I cannot change the people, then I just upgraded my frequency and then I was able to quit that job and I was able to get into a big MNC. And just yesterday, a day before yesterday, news came. So the company I joined is Warner Brothers. And, uh, so it's been 2 months for me in the new company. I mentioned about my biggest result also, how I changed my frequency from a very small small company to, you know, getting into my dream company I wanted to.
Wow.
So for the last 2 months, everyone in the organization were just so much anxious that the company is put up for sale, who is going to acquire, whether people are going to have their job or not. A lot was going on. Everyone was just talking and I'm like, okay, if it gets acquired, if we lose job, we'll find another job. When it comes there, we will see it. And then 2 days ago, everyone feared except Netflix, anyone can get acquired. And the announcement came, Netflix is acquiring Warner Brothers. They were like so upset. And some of the friends who know me, they were messaging me, hey, is everything okay? So like, it's blissful. Great.
Yeah.
I'd be part of Netflix if it doesn't happen, at least then I'm partial time. I'll be part of Netflix.
Yes. Amazing.
And in fact, a week ago, somebody asking me which OTT that you work, is it Netflix? And I said like, yeah, soon. This was just 15-20 days ago.
Oh my God.
Now it just became like part, like, okay, I'm part of Netflix.
Awesome.
Awesome. So that's something. Another thing with parents, every time my mother, father did fight and my mother says something that how she was treated by my sister or my father, it used to trigger me all my childhood trauma of my father, you know, abusing my mother and then why she's tolerating, you know, I would become rebel and it used to boil my blood. So just yesterday, something that my mother spoke about, you know, a fight or some sort of things that he asked her to leave the house. And I was like, well, that's how he is, the person, right? What is new? He's 60 years and we have been seeing him for 40 years, the same behavior.
Wow.
I was just telling my mother, it didn't bother me at all. I just told my mother, okay, take a break, come to me and then we'll spend some time. That's the person he is, right? So don't, don't lose your peace. Just let him be.
Wow. What is the point of getting angry with the same traffic every day for 60 years, right?
Exactly. It's like for 40 years we have been seeing that man. We have in fact seen worse, he doing worse things. And you say like, I think he's still sober. I think let's just let him be. I just told her what you like. And if you want to, we'll just come over, you know, we'll talk to him and say, yeah, let's take some space. Congratulations!
That's a big one. That's a big one.
Platinum and you both as my gurus have changed a lot of emotional and mental baggage that I was carrying for many years, and the perspective that I have towards people, life, emotions, and triggers is is is is very very different.
I'm glad. Congratulations.
One more thing. Thank you. One more thing that I ended up losing yesterday over something. You know, I. I trusted a friend and I lend money, and the friends have requested me that you are working and in a good profile, you can borrow some loan as well. So I took a personal loan, gold loan, and then given them money. Uh, yeah, this is something I did 4 years ago before joining Platinum. And, uh, so they owe me 50 lakhs. It's big money. So in my entire life, I had one other pattern is that I would give money Without taking interest, without having any surety, without any assuring. And then I, I would just ask them. I'd feel very hesitant to ask repay money. And this money is something I'm extremely financially so disciplined all my life because I had seen the worst as struggle. So I always keep how much as a luxury or spending I need is for myself, not to show off other people, not to be in power. So that's how I have been, where people who borrow money from me, at some point I would see they're spending it for some luxury or some financial indiscipline that they did to, you know, overspend and credit card bill sort of things. Then I— and when I ask people money and they just feel bad, and then they'll just, you know, react and gaslight something and just make me guilty for asking money sort of a thing I had. And for a lot of people also, I let go of money.
So what did you do now? What's the bottom line for that?
So the bottom line of it is like, for last 2 years, I've been asking them to repay money. Neither they agreed that in case they cannot repay, they will register a land. That also they have not been doing it. They're not answering calls. So, and I felt like this time I am not letting these people know the version of me who would let go of it and sit and wait for it.
Very good.
And if you don't do it, I'll take a legal action if I have to, or I will try depositing a— very good. You gave, if let it bounce, I will go to any extent. They started gaslighting me saying I'm going through well, you know, emotional well-being. I said no problem. That is when you took money, you should have known consequences. You would have a backup. If you don't have, I am not responsible for how you misinterpret my, my statements. It is yours.
Correct.
I want my money. If you think I'm chasing money, behind money I'm saying things, let it be.
Yes,
that is my hard-earned money. I took loan. You chased brilliant follower up to take a loan and given to me, and I want my money in a land form, in a money form. But I'm not giving you extension. I'll come sit outside your home. Don't think that I'm that weak person.
It is my brilliant.
I and I didn't feel guilty even when this person called out. You are commenting. I am feeling suicidal, and my mental health is like ne do. Dude, when I trusted you, given you without surety, now it is your turn to return to my—
Good job.
All these emotions.
Awesome.
So that's one thing. I felt a bit that, you know, did it trigger me? Am I being too rude or too harsh on money? So that's when again, I joined the, you know, yesterday. I said, no, no, I just need some clarity. Let me leave it aside and let me just focus on my, you know, class.
Emotional frequency. Amazing. Congratulations. This is a very different Kavita compared to who had joined. And how long has it been since you joined Platinum now?
Uh, it's been a year and a half.
Wow, brilliant. A completely different personality now. Brilliant. Amazing. Congratulations. I'm sure not only will you get this money back, but the important part is because you're a new person, you'll not repeat these mistakes now.
