The Real Reason People Don't Have A Successful Relationship!

22 Aug 2025 · 1 min

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In this short bilingual conversation, Paridhi Dhingra and Speaker B explore why many people struggle in romantic relationships. They argue that the root cause is a lack of a healthy relationship with oneself. Paridhi emphasizes that loving only the "good" parts of oneself creates an addiction to an incomplete self-image, which then hampers the ability to love another fully. She frames self‑love and self‑acceptance as a skill that must be cultivated over time by embracing both strengths and weaknesses, recognizing oneself as both perfect and imperfect. The dialogue suggests that developing a genuine, balanced relationship with oneself is the prerequisite for successful partnerships with others.

A lot of people are struggling in relationships right now. Not attracting the right friends, not attracting the right life partner. Partner है तो झगड़े हो रहे हैं। Not getting along, breaking up. क्यों हो रहा है? Why do you think it's happening?
Maybe they're not happy with themselves.
Can I say if I want to have a great relationship with you, I need to have a great relationship with myself?
Yes.
Don't you think that's also a
skill?
Hmm. Or you could say वो तो अपने आप ही हो जाएगा.
Right.
ठीक है तो फिर बैठे रहो चांस पे. Because we are addicted by the idea of liking only one part of ourselves, which is the good part of ourselves. So love comes from loving a person, whether it's you or somebody else, by accepting 2 parts of you. The strength and the weakness. Hmm. The good and the bad, the right and the wrong. By realizing that I am perfect as well as imperfect. Now that's a skill. You, over a period of time, learn to love yourself. Develop a relationship with yourself first.