Use This Technique To BOOST Your Career | Manifest With IMK | Mitesh Khatri

In this live coaching session, Paridhi Dhingra guides a client (Speaker B) through uncovering and releasing deep‑seated money‑blocking emotions that arose from quitting a well‑paid banking job to start a life‑coaching practice. The conversation follows a structured framework: (1) identifying the client’s current financial concerns and the emotional reasons behind leaving a stable $8,500‑per‑month job; (2) labeling core feelings—lack of freedom, suppression, domination, vulnerability, and not feeling good enough—using the pain‑vs‑perceived‑pleasure model; (3) applying an Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) tapping script where the client repeatedly takes 100 % responsibility for each feeling; (4) linking unhealed emotional wounds to future financial blocks, referencing Dr. John Demartini’s theory of avoidance. Paridhi then sets concrete action steps: daily EFT practice, twice‑daily sessions with mentor Mitesh/Miteshi, teaching the same emotions to the Platinum community, and a 30‑day monetary goal of $12,000. The session ends with affirmations, visualization, and a call‑to‑action for viewers to join the “Hope Nope No” healing program.
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We are the ones who block our manifestation when it comes to making money. Nobody in the world stops us. I'm going to prove it to you right now. If you take a notepad and a pen right now and you start working with me as if I'm working with you, you will feel that the same money blocks that I'm removing for my Platinum members here, you might experience going through the same money blocks and removing them right now in this call. Okay, so let's get ready. So tell me, what's the money problem that we are going through?
My biggest money problem that is coming is I had a comfortable job, but I resigned it. Tomorrow is my last day. I'm starting my life coaching, but right now I do not have any paid clients. That fear has started to come in that how will I start getting those paid clients? I believe in everything that we are doing here, but sometimes that fear comes in, and I'm also struggling with my abundance mindset.
Correct.
So
yeah, okay, so let's first understand that. Why do you think you quit your job in the first place? What, what job was this, by the way?
It's a banking, uh, job. I was a senior manager in, uh, in a good bank over here in Canada. It was a very good job. I studied all for so many years. I'm a CA. I, I have so many qualifications as well, but when I was, uh, working, I was not feeling motivated anymore in the role. And even when I'm doing my job, yes, I understand everything we are doing intellectually. I understand my banking role, but I was just keep doing— I would keep coming back to either our own classes or our practices, and I was just feeling very attached to the healing that we are doing, and I feel this is where I want to go. Okay.
For how long you've had this job?
11 years, 11, 12 years.
12 years. Okay. And what was the last salary? Or rather, it is right now because you're saying today is still the last day,
right? Tomorrow is the last day.
Tomorrow is the last day. So what's the current salary like in hand every month?
In hand every month after taxes is around $8,500.
$8,500. Okay. Which in India is about ₹8.5 lakh a month.
Easy.
Okay. All right. Now let's understand that why would somebody who's making $8,500 a month Quit a job. The first reason, as per you, you said you gave me two reasons actually. Reason number one you gave me was I was not feeling motivated at my job.
Yeah,
correct. I want you to write this word down, and everybody who's attending here in Zoom with me and on YouTube Live, write this down: pain. The reason you are always running away from something in life because subconsciously we've got some level of pain associated to that. Correct? That's called moving away. So we are moving away from the job because there is some kind of pain associated to that. Now,
yeah,
a lot of us have pain, but not everybody takes action the way you took action. The reason you took action was because not only did you have pain, but you also had pleasure— perceived pleasure of the future. Write this down: perceived pleasure of the future. So you've got perceived pleasure that if I get into healing, if I become a life coach, Then it'll be a much better life than what I have right now. Correct?
Yeah. Yes.
So one, there is pain in the past related to the job, and there is perceived pleasure that if I get this healing job, I won't be able to— I won't have to go through this pain every day anymore. Correct? So when you said you are demotivated and then you sabotage this job, correct? The reason I'm using the word sabotage here, I'm not using the word decision and moved on, because this is not a decision taken from clarity. This is a decision taken from pain and pleasure.
Okay, I, I feel I'm very clear. I, I feel, uh, in my bones, I know I've taken the right decision, and I'm very clear about this. Yes, for the short term, there will be pain, there will be missing, and all of that will happen in the short term, but in the long term, I know I took a chance on me, and it is going to pay off.
It will definitely pay off, but not if you continue avoiding everything that you're running away from in your previous job.
Okay.
You remember Dr. John Demartini?
Yeah.
He says if you keep running away from the wounds of your past relationships, they're going to keep haunting you in your future relationships because you'll keep avoiding them in the future. And the more you keep avoiding them in the future, you will only keep manifesting them in the future. So everything that you're running away from in your previous job, if you've not healed that, they become your money blocks in the future.
Right. Okay.
You can make money anywhere. You can make money in a job, you can make money in a business. The point is not that. The point is making money requires your energy.
Right. Yeah.
And your energy is nothing but your emotions.
Yes.
So if you are operating from pain, In the new business also. How do I know you're operating from pain? You're avoiding that.
Okay, yes.
And if you are avoiding it, you're like, I will do whatever it takes, but I'm not going to do the same thing again. I'm not going to feel the same thing again.
Yeah.
But now here is my question. Do you think in the healing business, sometimes you'll have to do things which will give you the same feeling that you got in your banking job? Yeah. Example?
Uh, sometimes one of the things was even when you are right, you have to listen to your boss and do what she or he or she is saying, and you have to do that. That's one of the things that was happening.
Okay, what do you call this feeling? What feeling were you avoiding here when your boss was giving you instructions?
Not able to express myself fully.
Is it not able to express myself, or is it suppressing yourself that you didn't want to do?
Yeah, suppressing.
Yeah, you were suppressing yourself because your boss asked you to do something you didn't want to do that, but you had to do that. So can I say you were feeling lack of freedom?
Yes, lack of freedom. Yeah, yeah.
And were you also feeling suppressed? in that experience?
Somewhat, yes.
Suppressed self-expression, suppressed creativity, not able to do what you like to do?
Yes, yes. Correct? Yes, these were main motivating— yeah, main.
So write these feelings down, because if you don't recognize and heal these feelings, these feelings which are from the past, these wounds, they become your money blocks, and then you're not able to manifest money. Okay, so it's very important that whenever we get into a new business, new job, new situation, always heal the past and then move on in life, which we will do right now with you. Is that making sense?
Yes.
So first word that we want to heal is what?
Uh, lack of freedom.
Lack of freedom, that means suppression also. So I don't like being suppressed. There's another feeling that the boss gives you that you don't want to feel anymore. What is that?
That I'm controlled by her.
I was waiting for that. Dominated.
Yeah, controlled. Correct. Yeah.
So that means you don't like feeling vulnerable.
I don't like it.
You don't like feeling weak, correct?
Yeah, I don't like that.
You will see the impact of this in your relationship also. You'll avoid dominating people. And then when you avoid dominating people, you have sabotaging relationships because sometimes dominating people come with their own strengths. For an example, dominating people are very aggressive, but then they are also very sincere. They're very hardworking. They help you focus on your career.
Yes.
That's who your boss was.
Yeah.
But then when we avoid the dominating people, we also avoid the benefits that come with dominating people. Now, does that mean being dominating is good? No, I'm not saying that. But being dominating is 100% bad? Is that also true?
No, it's not.
That's also not true.
Not true.
So the question is not that I don't want to be dominated. The question is, can I handle domination? Can I go through it where I need to? And can I handle it where I don't want to? When a child is a child, there is no option but to be dominated by the parents.
Right.
But when the child grows up, the child at one point of time, when becomes an adult, when becomes matured, decides it's okay to be dominated by my father, but sometimes doesn't let the father dominate when he doesn't want to do something. Now that's maturity, isn't it?
Yes.
But if the child says, I never want to be dominated by my father again, the child leaves the house at the age of 16, immature, thinking leaving domination is the best way to live life. He may run away from his father, but then who else will he have to run away from? Any person like his father.
Any person like his father, yeah.
My question is, will you need to experience domination in the future, in your future business?
I will.
Clients will dominate you.
Clients will dominate me. My sister will dominate
me. They will pay you and they'll ask for a refund.
Yeah.
And then you'll feel controlled by them. And if you've not healed that capacity, you will feel it's always bad. It's not always bad. Sometimes it's okay to have domination. Sometimes it's okay to be controlled. Is that making sense to you?
Yes, yes.
So what are the earlier feelings we've written down?
We've written down suppression, lack of clarity, control, lack of freedom, lack of freedom, vulnerability, and domination.
And domination is the same as I don't want to be vulnerable. I don't want to be dominated by you.
Yeah.
Now, if you don't heal this, not only will it operate in relation— in career, but also in relationship. Where are you married right now?
No, I'm not.
No. So if you attract a rela— are you in a relationship?
No.
No. When you do attract a relationship, you will observe that you'll always avoid dominating men.
Yeah, I do.
But here is the problem. You want a successful man, don't you?
Yes.
You think successful men are going to be submissive? No. They're going to be yes men? You're okay to have a poor man to get married to?
I'm not.
You're okay to compromise with somebody who's not good in his career?
No, I'm not okay to compromise.
But then if you're going to find somebody who's not good in his career, that person's going to be submissive and sweet and polite.
Yeah.
So what do you want? You want a successful man or you don't?
I want to handle domination because I still want a successful man.
Do you now understand that that success comes with its own domination?
Yeah.
There is one more emotion that is remaining yet.
Not good enough.
Not good enough. Okay, so write that down. Feeling not good enough. Now, every time you feel not good enough, it's going to always sabotage because you will try to run away from that feeling. Now, in the healing business, do you think that's going to happen with you?
Yeah, it will happen.
Where you'll try to heal somebody and not— they will not be healed, or you'll try to coach somebody and they will not be coached. Now, if we heal these emotions, you know what will happen? You'll be able to handle any situation that gives you these emotions,
right? Yeah.
And then as a result of that, you will not try to run away from that challenge in the future. And as a result of that, you have to succeed.
Correct.
Correct. So what is the first emotion again?
First is freedom, a lack of freedom, domination, suppression, vulnerable, vulnerable, and not good enough.
Okay, perfect. So let's start doing it right now. Tap like this with me, and everybody on YouTube and on Zoom with me, Platinum members, start tapping with me. Say, I take 100% responsibility.
I take 100% responsibility.
For feeling I don't have freedom.
For feeling I don't have freedom,
I take 100% responsibility.
I take 100% responsibility
for blaming my job.
For blaming my job,
for feeling suppressed.
For feeling suppressed,
I take 100% responsibility.
I take 100% responsibility
for believing.
For believing
being in a job is lack of freedom.
Being in a job is lack of freedom.
Feeling lack of freedom.
Feeling lack of freedom
is not because of the job.
Is not because of the job.
It's just my habit.
It's just my habit.
I just avoid people who control me.
I just avoid people who control me.
That is why I avoid domination.
That is why I avoid domination.
That's why I don't like being weak.
That's why I don't like being weak.
Because I know I'm not strong.
Because I know I'm not strong.
And if I go weak,
And if I go weak,
I'll go too weak.
I'll go too weak. Yeah.
I doubt myself.
I doubt myself.
That's why I don't fall in love.
That's why I don't fall in love.
I know I'm so weak.
I know I'm so weak.
I'll get attached.
I'll get attached.
And if the other person hurts me,
and if the other person hurts
me, I know I won't be able to handle it.
I know I won't be able to handle it.
So the best thing I do
So the best thing I do,
I run away from the game.
I run away from the game.
Hence I left the job.
Hence I left the job.
So now I take 100% responsibility.
So now I take 100% responsibility for the way
I feel instead of blame.
For the way I feel instead of blame
and complain.
And complain
about people and job.
About people and job.
Take your hands like this. Take a deep breath. Okay, now tap with me. Tap over here and say all this lack of freedom drama.
All this lack of freedom drama.
Release.
Release.
Feeling suppressed.
Feeling suppressed.
Release.
Release.
All these thoughts that I Don't have freedom.
All these thoughts that I don't have freedom.
Release.
Release.
All this beliefs that I can't handle domination.
All this belief that I can't handle domination.
Release.
Release.
Thinking I can't handle people who hurt me.
Thinking I can't handle people who hurt me.
Release.
Release.
All this drama I do.
All this drama I do,
as if I don't have freedom.
As if I don't have freedom.
Release.
Release.
Fact is,
fact is,
I have always had freedom.
I've always had freedom.
I even left the job for freedom.
I even left the job for freedom.
I don't even fall in love for freedom.
I don't even fall in love for freedom.
So I have freedom.
So I have freedom.
The problem is I choose not to feel it.
The problem is I choose not to feel it,
and then I blame it on people and jobs.
Then I blame it on people and jobs.
And then I choose new profession.
And then I choose new profession
to feel freedom.
To feel freedom.
To feel powerful.
To feel powerful.
That's why I chose the job of a coach.
That's why I chose the job of a coach.
So nobody can dominate me now.
So nobody can dominate me now.
But I can't avoid it.
But I can't avoid it.
So I choose to heal it.
So I choose to heal it.
Because I know domination is not bad.
So I know because I know domination is not bad.
Just part of life.
Just part of life.
I can handle it.
I can handle it.
I know feeling not good enough is not bad.
I know feeling not good enough is not bad.
It's required.
It is required.
Only then I learn.
Only then I learn.
Otherwise, I'll keep fooling myself.
Otherwise, I'll keep fooling myself.
That I can fly.
That I can fly.
And I can jump off the window.
Jump off the window. But
the fact is, I'm not good enough to fly.
But the fact is, I'm not good enough to fly.
I'm not a bird.
I'm not a bird.
I'm not a pilot.
I'm not a pilot.
It's okay to not be good enough.
It's okay to not be good enough.
And that time,
and at that time,
it's okay to be guided.
It's okay to be guided.
It's okay to be dominated.
It's okay to be dominated.
And when I allow domination,
and when I allow domination,
I also have the freedom.
I also have the freedom
to dominate back.
To dominate back.
Freedom goes both ways.
Freedom goes both ways.
When I give others the freedom to dominate me,
when I give others the freedom to dominate me,
I give myself the freedom to dominate others.
I give myself the freedom to dominate others.
Because now I don't see domination as bad.
Because now I don't see domination as bad.
It's just required.
It's just required.
And sometimes it's not required.
And sometimes it's not required.
So I don't have to avoid it all the time.
So I don't have to avoid it all the time.
I now heal it.
I now heal it.
There's nothing wrong with domination.
There is nothing wrong with domination.
True healing means.
True healing means.
I allow it.
I allow it.
I can handle it.
I can handle it.
But if I'm wounded.
But if I'm wounded.
And not healed.
And not healed.
It means I keep avoiding it.
It means I keep avoiding it. Yeah.
But now I choose.
But now I choose.
To heal this part.
To heal this part.
And allow domination in the future.
And allow domination in the future.
I know I'm grown up. I know where to handle it.
I know I'm grown up. I know where to handle it.
I'm also willing to feel not good enough.
I'm also willing to feel not good enough.
I'm also willing to feel bounded sometimes.
I'm also willing to feel bounded sometimes.
Because freedom and bound both come together.
Because freedom and bound both come together.
Only then.
Only then.
I'll be happy in a relationship.
I'll be happy. I'll be happy in a relationship.
The reason I don't have a relationship till now.
The reason I don't have a relationship till now.
I want love without boundaries.
I want love without boundaries.
It doesn't happen.
Doesn't happen.
Every relationship comes with boundaries.
Every relationship comes with boundaries.
And that's a new kind of freedom.
And that's a new kind of freedom.
It's a new kind of boundary.
It's a new kind of boundary.
So now,
so now
I allow it.
I allow it.
I allow myself to grow.
I allow myself to grow
financially,
financially,
in my career also,
in my career also,
and in my love life also,
and in my love life also.
I allow people who can dominate.
I allow people who can dominate,
control.
Control
and bind me,
and bind me,
and give me boundaries,
and give me boundaries.
I allow myself to do that to other people.
I allow myself to do that to other people.
I also allow myself to refuse it when I need to.
I also allow myself to refuse it when I need to.
I also give myself freedom.
I also give myself freedom
to take other people's refusal when they don't want to.
To take other people's refusal when they don't want to.
I now allow.
I now allow
domination.
Domination.
Not good enough.
Not good enough.
Feeling suppressed.
Feeling suppressed.
Boundaries.
Boundaries.
Lack of freedom.
Lack of freedom.
Everything is allowed.
Everything is allowed.
I am allowed.
I am allowed.
People are allowed.
People are allowed.
Now take your hands like this and take a deep breath. Okay, keep your hands on your heart, quickly close your eyes. And the proof is, go back to your memory in your job. Think about your boss and think about a particular day when she was dominating you and check, was it really that bad? So is it okay for your boss to dominate you?
It's okay.
And now close your eyes and think of a guy who could dominate you in the future, in a relationship with you, but you could dominate him back because freedom goes both ways. And can you allow that?
Yeah.
Perfect. Now think about your coaching business. And check how confident do you feel that you'll be able to put in all your energy without wasting energy and avoiding the past emotions of desperation to find freedom so that you're not suppressed, desperation to avoid control so that you avoid dominating people. If you didn't have all of this now and you started working on your business with a completely different emotion where you're allowing all this, how does it feel? Imagine it. Like, imagine yourself working for the next 24 hours. What actions would you take? Close your eyes. Just imagine yourself taking action for your healing business. And don't avoid the feeling of not being good enough because you are not good enough right now. You're starting something new.
Yeah, I will reach out to people I know who will benefit, who will pay. But I'm just— I was earlier scared of being vulnerable in front of them. I will reach out to them. I'm ready to take on the difficult cases. If I'm not able to heal them properly, I'm just not.
And if required, give them a refund. No big deal.
Yeah, give them a refund if needed.
Yeah. Interesting deep breath there.
Yeah.
Okay, open your eyes and tell me how you're feeling.
To be honest, it's a very different kind of freedom accepting Non-freedom is it's very different. Accepting domination is also yeah, it's it's a very different feeling.
There's really nothing wrong in life with having some boundaries.
Yeah, yeah.
Right. And when you allow that, you can allow new relationships. You can allow new clients, new people in your life.
Yes.
Now important part here is to practice this EFT every day. Practice this hope nope no every day. And there are two ways in which you're going to do it. The first is you're going to talk to Miteshi specifically with these emotions and say, "Tell Miteshi that these are the emotions that I have identified are my patterns. I want you to work on healing this with me every day twice." So that's the first thing you will do. Two, I want you to go into Platinum Community and help other people heal the same emotions. And I'll tell you why. We heal the best what we teach the best. Yeah. Correct. It's like one of the reasons you are becoming a coach— my mentor told me once, the most stubborn people in the world become coaches because they don't listen from other people's voice, they listen from their own voice. So while teaching other people, actually they're learning.
Okay,
so it's important that you go into Platinum Community and teach other people to heal exactly these emotions. Ask people who needs healing in these emotions, go and work with them in Platinum Community. Make sense?
Yeah, done. Yes. Okay,
perfect. So done. Now, 30 days from now— what is the date today? 25th of June.
25th June. Yes.
Manifest every day. Work with the Platinum Community. Make sure that you're going through the EFT again and again with Mitesh. Go through Ho'oponopono again and again with Mitesh. Heal these emotions. And now the next conversation you need to have with Mitesh about is what are the higher emotions of these emotions, and then work on those patterns. 30 days, 25th of June now, 25th of July, report back in the community while working with each other and with me in the community. And you should be able to start making money by then. And your goal is $8,500.
Actually, it's $12,000. And I will—
Okay, so there you go. So $12,000 is your goal then?
Yeah.
Yeah. Okay.
Yes.
Awesome. Congratulations in advance for making that $12,000 in advance. And those of you who are watching this right now and would love to be healed and coached like me, with me like this, then There's a link in the chat window below this video, in the description also for you. Click on that link right now and be part of our Hope Nope No healing sessions where we teach you how to heal yourself and how to use EFT to remove all these kind of money blocks. Ready, Hila?
Yes, fully ready. Thank you so much.
Perfect.
Congratulations again. You identified these emotions and yes, now I will work on them. Thank you so much.
Thank you. See you on 25th of July and make sure that you've made $12,000 by then.
I will. I will.
Done.
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