Why people don't like you| How to be Likable | Mitesh Khatri

2 Oct 2024 · 1 min

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In this short monologue, Paridhi Dhingra explains that people may dislike you because you aren't making them feel comfortable or likable. She introduces a simple technique called the LOCK method—Listen, Observe, Copy, and Be Kind—as a way to increase likability. The method involves actively listening to what others say, observing their body language, mirroring both their words and gestures, and doing so with kindness. By mirroring and showing kindness, the speaker claims you can "lock" people into a more comfortable relationship, leading them to like you more. She encourages viewers to try the method and report their feelings afterward.

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Why people don't like you the way you are sometimes? Probably because we are not making ourselves likable or we are not making people comfortable with us. Here is a simple LOCK method that can lock people with you, which means it can make people comfortable with you, it can make people like you. It's called Listen, Observe, Copy, and Be Kind. L-O-C-K. All you need to do is listen to people, what they say, observe their body language, copy what you heard, and copy what you saw. If you copy their body language and if you repeat their words back to them, and while being kind to them, that lock method locks them into their relationship with you, and they are more comfortable with you. They will like you more. Try this simple lock method and tell me how you feel after that. Bye.