Why you are not attracting healthy relationships!

29 Jul 2025 · 1 min

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In this bilingual coaching session, Paridhi Dhingra explains that humans are fundamentally feeling beings and that chronic feelings of inadequacy are sensed by potential partners, causing them to withdraw. She guides the participant to first clarify the specific relationship outcome they desire (e.g., a long‑term, married partnership) and then identify the core emotions they would experience once that outcome is realized—love, satisfaction, companionship. Drawing on the law of attraction, Paridhi advises shifting focus from the lack (“the want”) to actively feeling the vibrations of those desired emotions. She demonstrates a technique: recalling past moments of love, visualizing the feeling, and affirming statements such as “I am happily married” to generate the emotional frequency that attracts the desired relationship. The conversation blends practical exercises with empathetic encouragement, emphasizing that feeling the desired emotions, not merely wishing for them, is key to drawing healthy relationships.

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We are not human beings, we are feeling beings. We transmit and receive feelings. So if I am with a girl and I'm constantly feeling inadequate, it impacts her.
She will sense it.
She will sense it. Yeah. And when she senses it, she doesn't want to be around somebody who's feeling inadequate all the time. So we say, okay, first decide what you want. So I wrote down, okay, I want a relationship, a long-term relationship, but I want to be married. I don't want to do time pass anymore. Okay, what would I feel after I have that relationship? Love, satisfaction, companionship.
Yeah.
Okay, good. So I wrote down these three emotions because I remember I wrote this down. And now one of the techniques of law of attraction is don't focus on the want anymore and just start feeling the vibrations of those emotions which are related to the want. अभी मेरा breakup हो रखा कहाँ से satisfaction feel करूँ?
अभी तो दुख है.
Possibly नहीं होता है फिर.
हाँ.
So don't try to create it, relive it from your past. And I close my eyes and just feel that love. And now I will say that affirmation. I am happily married. I have a wonderful companion in my life. And I'm feeling love and I'm feeling satisfied. How easy is it to feel love if I remember that memory first?