In this self‑help video, Paridhi Dhingra (speaking as Mitesh Khatri) explains why people repeatedly attract undesirable outcomes—health issues, toxic relationships, career setbacks, and financial crises. She argues that the root cause is not a lack of effort but the attempt to "solve" the problem, which reinforces the same pattern. A pattern is defined as a recurring internal conflict that causes the same external results. To break the cycle, she introduces the FTBA framework—Feelings, Thoughts, Beliefs, and Actions—asserting that misalignment among these four internal states creates internal conflict, which manifests as unwanted outcomes. Using a weight‑loss scenario, she illustrates how desperation (feeling), contradictory thoughts, limiting beliefs, and inconsistent actions keep the goal out of reach. She then provides a concrete alignment exercise: list the positive FTBA elements that support the goal and the negative FTBA elements that hinder it, and work to replace the latter with the former. The video concludes with a call to join a free 30‑day Daily Magic Practice Course, where participants practice the alignment method live each evening.
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Why do you manifest what you don't want in your life? You don't want to attract health problems, still health problems are happening. You don't want to attract people who cheat you, and yet in relationships you're attracting people that you don't want. In your career, you don't want to fail, but you're attracting the same problems again, correct? Financially, attracting crisis in money which you don't want to attract, but then why is it happening again in your life? Even though you don't want it. Today, I'm not only going to tell you the solution, but first I will tell you why it's happening and how you can go beyond that problem. Ready? Let's begin. The reason you're attracting what you don't want in your life is because you're trying to solve it. Sounds confusing? Now you'll say, but Mitesh, am I not supposed to solve it? No, you're not supposed to solve solve it. Think, for so many years in your life you've tried to solve the problem. What happens? Same problem comes back in your life in a different form, in a different fashion, in a different direction, in a different size. So what is the point of solving the same problem if it comes back in your life again and again and again? Yeah, this is what you call patterns. A pattern is when we are stuck in life and we repeat the same things in our life. And I'm telling you, once you're stuck in a pattern, you are going to attract the same things in your life again and again and again. A friend of mine once told me, my boss is troubling me a lot, I want to leave this organization. And I told him, I said, don't try to solve this situation by leaving the job and going to another job. First evolve as a person. He didn't listen to me, he left his job. And I told him, I said, listen, The problem will come back to you in a different form. So he joined his new organization. For the first few days, everything was fine. In fact, he called me and said, Mitesh, you were wrong. My new boss is very good. I said, awesome, man. I'm so happy for you. And in another few days after that, he calls me and says, you know what, Mitesh? Suddenly my boss was changed, and now the new boss is worse than my previous job. Why did this happen? Now you tell me. And I told him again, if you try to solve that problem, you will remain stuck at that level. Only solving will not help. You have to evolve from that point. Today I'll tell you the solution of what you can do to evolve as a person so that you stop repeating those problems in your life. Only the solution will not help. You will also need to practice that solution with me. So to give you support, I'm also giving you access to 30 days of my Daily Magic Practice Course completely free. Link is in the description below this video. Click on it, see if it is still free. If it is free, go register and make sure that you see me 9 PM live every day where with 2,000 people we will manifest together and we will make sure that you stop attracting the same problems in your life and you start evolving as a person. For now, let me give you one quick solution on how to evolve as a person. Write down 4 letters: FTBA. Feelings, thoughts, beliefs, and actions. The reason you are stuck in a pattern and the reason you are repeating the same problems in your life is because your FTBA is in a conflict with each other. It is internally fighting with each other. Let me give you an example of this. A person who wants to lose weight is stuck with the same weight loss problem for 10, 10 years. If you are one of those people, can you do me a small favor? In the comment section, tell me for how many years you're trying to lose weight and it's not happening. And you will observe that in the comments, people will answer things like, I'm trying to lose weight for the last 5 years, I'm trying to lose weight for the last 1 year, I'm trying to lose weight for the last 20 years. It's not like you're trying to lose 200 kilos. Why is it taking 10 years? Why is it taking 5 years? The reason is, for so long, the reason you're stuck in that pattern is your FTBA is in internal conflict in that particular weight loss goal. Now, what is that FTBA? Feelings. You think about the weight loss, your feeling is desperation. Yeah, I really want to lose weight. When will I lose weight? Why am I not losing weight? Desperation, frustration. Thinking is, I really want to lose weight. That's the thought going on, right? Belief is, no matter what I do, I am not able to lose weight. So watch frustration going in a different direction, the thought going in a positive direction, I want to lose weight, belief going in another negative direction, no matter what I do, I'm not able to lose weight. I've heard people saying things like Even if I breathe, I gain weight. If you want to lose weight and if you have these beliefs, how will you lose weight? Because it's going in a different direction. It's taking you in a different direction. Action. You eat something healthy and you say, yeah, I don't like eating salad. I love pizza. No, it's all your actions are in a conflict of the goal. So how would alignment look? Very simple. If this is your goal, weight loss, 5 kilos, correct? From here to here, your feelings have to be in perfect alignment with this goal. Feelings like excited, feeling like hope, feeling like comfortable to lose weight. Thoughts like weight loss is very easy. Belief like I love exercising. You see, people are trying to work out, do exercise, but their belief is saying, yeah, I don't like exercising, it's too much effort, I don't like going to the gym. Now that's against the action frequency. But if the feelings, the thoughts, the beliefs, and the actions all are aligned, weight loss has to happen. Ask any person in the world who has lost weight, they lose it in 2 to 3 months and they're done. 2 months, 3 months, 5 months, depending on the time. Depending on their weight, but they do it in one go. Why? Because FTBA is aligned. I know this may seem a little confusing, but I promise you, right now your brain is making it confusing because there are internal conflicts going on, and those conflicts are not allowing you to look at this as an alignment. But I know part of you is listening to me. I know that you're interested in doing this. So there are 2 things you're going to do today. One, I want you to write down that if my goal is this, what are my exact feelings that I can feel every day that can support this goal? What are my thoughts that are there right now that I, I need to think in order to achieve this goal? What are my beliefs that will support this goal? And what are my actions that will support this goal? And then make one more list. What are my current negative emotions which are not supporting this goal? What are my current negative thoughts which are not supporting this goal? What are my current beliefs that are not supporting this goal? And what are my current actions which are not supporting this goal? Stop taking those negative FTBAs and work on the aligned FTBA, and I'm telling you, you will achieve that goal. You will manifest what you want. When your FTBA is 100% aligned with what you want, the reason you are manifesting what you don't want because your internal FTBA is fully in conflict with it. Making sense? So I hope that you will practice this, and I hope you will align your FTBA, achieve your goal, and when you achieve your goal, which I know you will, मिठाई भेज देना। Congratulations in advance for achieving your goal and aligning your FTBA. and for evolving in your life. And if you think you would love to do it with me, you're welcome. Come and join with me in Daily Magic Practice Course. Link in the description. See you soon. Bye. Bye.
