Why You’re NOT Motivated (The Real Reason Will Surprise You)

Stop everyone, stop and watch this complete video if you have a goal in your life which you've been trying to achieve but you don't have enough motivation to achieve that goal. Have you been wanting to lose weight or make more money or attract a new relationship and you find that you're not able to take action? Comment in the chat window what is that one goal which you've been wanting to achieve for a long time but somehow every day you You're not able to bring yourself to action. You're not consistent at it. That's what today's topic is about. Why are you not motivated to take action to achieve your goals? If you stay with me for the next 10 to 15 minutes, I'll show you exactly why you're not able to take action. And then I will invite you for a program where you will learn step by step with me. I will handhold you to create that motivation to achieve that goal and manifest what you desire in your life. Ready? Let's begin. First thing, what is that goal that you want to achieve? Is it something related to your health? Do you want to lose weight or gain weight? Is it relationships? Write it down in your notepad right now and also tell me in the comments section. Here is the biggest reason why you're not able to motivate yourself. The reason is you're completely focused on your results. Now you'll say, isn't that what I'm supposed to do? Actually, no, you're not supposed to only focus on your results. I'll tell you why. If you only focus on your results, what you don't understand is that your result is connected as a chain. Think of a chain. Everybody knows what's a chain. A chain is like links, right? One link connected to another. Your result is the last link of the chain. There are four links before that. If you don't know what those links are, and if you're not working on those links, that is why you're not motivated to achieve the last link of the chain, which is your result. Most people don't even work on that four links, and that is why we don't get motivated enough. That link I call as, or those four links I call as. F, T, B, A. All right, once again I'm repeating. F, T, B, A. What is that? Feelings, thoughts, beliefs, and actions. When you think of a result— example, you want to make a million dollars— you start suddenly visualizing it. You start doing affirmations. You do goal writing. You do 369 technique. You do some of those techniques of manifestation, of law of attraction, or motivation. But you're not able to motivate yourself because you're only thinking about the goal. What you haven't thought about is what is the feeling required to achieve that goal? What is the thought process required to achieve that goal? What is the belief required to achieve that goal? What is the action required to achieve that goal? And because you've not written that down, because you've not cultivated that within you, is why you're not able to create motivation for that goal. I'll give you an example of where today's topic came from. Yesterday I was doing an interview with Jack Canfield, the man himself who was in the movie The Secret. And during that, we asked him a question that, you know, why are people not able to take action to write a book like you and become a bestselling author? Like, Jack Canfield has become an author where he's sold more than 600 million books in the world. Can you imagine? 600 million books? That's too many. That's like more than half a billion books in the world. Now, I asked him, I said, why are people not able to get the motivation to write? Why are people not able to get the motivation to sell? And here is what he said. He said, most people focus on just copying the result that other people have. For an example, if Jack has become an author, we are focused on thinking, how do I also become an author like Jack, or a bestselling author like Jack, or a millionaire like Jack? And the problem is, it comes from a space of desperation. It comes from a space of Impatience. Think about it. If you're impatient about something, Jack said that's a negative emotion, and because it's a negative emotion, it doesn't help you take action. Listen, FTBA is a specific sequence, and it has to be done in a specific sequence. If you don't have the right feelings, you won't have the right thought process. If you don't have the right thought process, you won't convert it into a belief. If you don't have the right belief, You won't be able to take action. Think, a desire without the right FTBA equals zero motivation. Write that down. A desire without the right FTBA is zero motivation. Type in guilty in the chat, in the comment section, if you are guilty of this. You have never even written down what is my required feelings. When that is missing, motivation is missing. What is my required thought process? When that is missing, motivation is missing. What is my required belief system for achieving that goal, to take that action? Because that belief is missing, the action is missing. People want to exercise every day, people want to diet every day, but they don't have the right belief system to take action, to do the dieting, to do the exercising every day. Okay, think of it this way. A person who has already lost weight and maintains that weight even after losing weight, does that person have a completely different belief system which helped that person take action? Yes or no? A person who has already made a million dollars, does that person have a completely different belief system to that person who has not made a million dollars? Different belief system. But the problem is you've never asked yourself what is that belief. You've never written it down. You need to do three steps here. Step number one, identify what's your current negative FTBA right now. Example, take your notepads right now and write down in your feelings anything that you want to be motivated for. If you're not motivated for it, ask this question: What's the negative emotion right now I'm feeling towards that goal, towards that action? And you'll realize, I guarantee you, without even talking to you right now. Those emotions are negative emotions like desperation, and if you can already think of it, write it down: impatience, hopeless, feeling frustrated, right? Feeling angry, disappointed with yourself, feeling lack towards money. These are the emotions that we need to identify and remove them because if you don't remove the negative blocks within you, you won't be able to build the required blocks. Within you, what are the required blocks? The positive FTBA links. So step one, recognize the negative FTBA. Second, recognize the required FTBA. What is the required thought process? What is the required belief? What is the required action? And then once you've written it down, step number three, read it loudly every single day. Forget about reading your goals affirmations every day. Read this every day. Read the required feelings every day. Read the required thought process every day. Read the required belief system every day. Read the required action frequency every day that this is how I act every single day. And when you visualize that every day, when you repeat that every day, give it 10 to 15 days. Your subconscious will get reprogrammed. Let me give you a good example here. By the way, is this making sense so far? Making sense right now? If you want me to walk you through this whole process step by step with me in detail, there's a link in the description below this video for my Advanced Law of Attraction course. The lesson one I'm giving you to you completely free. Click on it, register for it. When you join the Advanced Law of Attraction course, this is one of the lessons in Advanced LOA. It's called FTBA Alignment. When you go through it, I will personally in that video walk you through this complete process from start till end. But I want to help you understand this process a little better right now. Okay, so here we go. On your notepad, step number one, always write down what is my negative FTBA right now? What's my negative feeling towards this goal? Yesterday, Jack was saying something amazing. He said when people are not attracting a goal, it's because unconsciously they feel unsafe having that goal. Example, somebody is not getting married. Somewhere in their unconscious, they've got this feeling of unsafe, like Something will go wrong if I achieve that goal, and that is unconscious. You need to bring it in your conscious and write it down. Be aware of it. Thought process. What's the thought process? Thought process is what is the negative thinking I have every time I think about that goal. Example, there was this one platinum member I was talking to, and I said, "Why don't you simply take this business and make it a franchisee system?" And he said, "But if I make a franchisee system, there are so many complications, and then there are." I will have to hire so many employees. You see this thought process? Thought process. What thoughts come to you when you think about that goal? It's negative thinking already. And because it's negative thinking, it's blocking our manifestation. It's blocking our goal ability to take action, our ability to take action. Making sense? What's the belief required? Write it down right now. What is the negative belief going on? What is a belief and a thought difference? Thoughts are too many. Beliefs are something, 4 or 5 statements which are powerful statements that you believe in, in relation to that goal. Example, I'm not good enough. There are no opportunities out there. Nobody loves me. When we say these kind of heavy statements with a lot of feeling as if you believe in it 100%, that's a limiting belief. And because you have this limiting belief right now, you're not able to do the next link in the chain, which is the action. So what's the current negative action that you're doing? If you want to lose weight right now, what are the negative actions that you're taking right now which is going against that goal? Right? Forget about moving towards your goal. Many of you are taking actions which is taking you away from that goal. Right? Like, if you want to lose weight, you're overeating right now. Write that down. If you want to write a book right now, you're not writing a book. That itself is an action which is an inaction, a negative action. Write it down. That's your step number one. That's called awareness. Step number two, think about what is my required feelings now. Replace it from negative, make it positive. If you can replace the negative feelings into required positive feelings for that particular goal, then you can do the step three. You can repeat those feelings every day as affirmations that you already feel that. Here is an example of that. If I want to do selling and I want to make $1 million by selling something, anything— you want to sell a book, you want to sell some products, you want to sell some courses, anything— or you want to make videos on YouTube to have million subscribers, anything— what do you need to feel for it? Feeling excited to make videos, feeling excited to go and do cold calls and to talk to customers, correct? This should be your affirmation: I feel excited to talk to my customers every day. I feel excited to do cold calling. I feel excited to make YouTube videos. And now don't take that action immediately. Repeat these feelings every day for the next 10 days. And when you do that for 10 days, you're reprogramming your entire subconscious on what you feel for making videos or for losing weight or for making that million dollars or doing that sales. Correct? Thought process. What's the thought process required? Every time you think about that goal now, some positive thought has to come to you. What is that positive thought? Write it down. Like right now, one of the Platinum members is going through a tough time. And I said, every time you think about this problem of your life, some positive thought has to come to your mind instead of a negative thought. And then write down those positive thoughts and start practicing them. Start reading them again and again and again. Instead of taking your goal, the result, and writing that down 300 times in a day, write down the required thought process and write that down 100 times. Take a belief, 4 or 5 beliefs that is required for that particular goal. Example, I love making videos. What if you could believe that? I am an amazing coach. What if you could believe that? I love writing books. What if you could believe that? Then wouldn't you be able to take action? The problem is you're making beliefs only related to I am a bestselling author. That's a result-based affirmation. But where is the action-based belief affirmation? I love writing books. Yesterday again, when I was talking to you about Jack Canfield, he sold 600 million books. But he said something beautiful. He said, Mitesh, it took me 23 years to be where I am. I have not become who I am in one month. But people are desperate to become me or 600 million bookseller in one year. He did this with new beliefs for the last 23 years. That is why he is where he is. My mentor Tony Robbins said something amazing. He said, We underestimate what we can do in 10 years, but we overestimate what we can do in one month. Think about it. Write it down. We underestimate what we can do in 10 years. Just think about this. I am where I am today as Mitesh Khatri. I've trained one million people all over the world today. I've got two national best-selling books. People join me from 110 countries for my platinum program, for my advanced law of attraction courses. But listen, I have not started doing this now. I've been doing manifestation workshops for the last 6 years consistently. I do every day, Monday to Friday, 9 PM, Daily Magic Practice. 6 years I've been doing every day. Action. What is the action that you're willing to do for the next 10 years? Irrelevant of whether you get the goal today, whether you get the goal tomorrow, because the action that is required to achieve the goal is probably the— also is probably the same action required to maintain the goal. Write that down, please. The action that is required to achieve the goal, more or less the same action is required to maintain the goal. Example, I need to exercise regularly to lose weight, but I also need to exercise regularly to maintain that weight loss. Otherwise, I will gain weight again. If I need to do my DMP every day to one day have 1,000 people in DMP, which I have today, every day 1,000 people join in Daily Magic Practice, correct? But then I need to do DMP every day to maintain having 1,000 people and even have more people in DMP. The problem is people are not writing what is that action frequency required, and then they don't do affirmations for that. Step number 3, condition yourself with the new FTBA— new feelings, new thoughts, new beliefs, new action frequency. Repeat it every day. Only when you condition that will you be able to really Believe in it, and then you'll be able to take action in that area every single day. Like I said, if you want to do this process with me, join the Advanced Law of Attraction course, or even better, come for Platinum membership. Right now I am live with the Platinum members after this conversation with you on YouTube. Right now I'm going to talk to Platinum members and do question answers with them and help them build this FTBA for them right now, one-to-one. You want to be part of these live conversations? Come be part of Platinum as well. But first, work on your new FTBA link. The link for the free Advanced Law of Attraction course is within the description below this video. I hope, I hope, I sincerely hope you recognize the negative FTBA within you. I sincerely hope you do the second step of writing down the required new FTBA. And I more importantly hope that you will do the step number 3, condition yourself, repeat it every single day, and then manifest that goal by creating it. See, manifestors are not people who close their eyes, imagine there is a Ferrari in front of you all the time, and then they don't do anything about it. Manifestors are creators. Write this down: manifestors are creators. When we visualize what we want in our life, we also visualize the required feelings, thoughts, beliefs, and actions. That's how we create, and that's how we manifest. In my next video, I'm going to show you How you can steal the motivation of someone you want to become like. Example, do you want to become like Jack Canfield and sell 600 million books? Then how to be as consistent as Jack? How to get his motivation? I'm going to show you that secret in my next YouTube video. Type in the comments, who do you want to role model in your life? Do you want to role model Tony Robbins? Do you want to role model Elon Musk? Do you want to role model Bill Gates? Do you want to role model— who do you want to role model? Whoever you want to role model, I promise you, In my next YouTube video, I will show you how to copy their FTBA. And once you understand that, nothing in the world can stop you after that. I hope to see you soon in my next YouTube video. 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