You Are 21 Minute Away From Never Feeling Lack & Attract Abundance | Mitesh Khatri

In this 21‑minute coaching session, Paridhi Dhingra explains that the feeling of lack is a mental pattern distinct from actual shortage. She outlines the negative symptoms of lack—accepting less than one deserves, acting hastily, and devaluing achievements— and shows how they create restlessness, especially at night. Paridhi then presents a concrete three‑step method to convert lack into abundance: (1) pinpoint the specific area where lack is felt, (2) identify the positive feeling one would experience if the need were met, and (3) repeatedly affirm that feeling with statements like “I already feel ___.” She stresses daily, all‑day practice and demonstrates the technique with a live participant who struggles with client acquisition, guiding him to redefine success in smaller, tangible ways. The session ends with a call to join a free 30‑day “Daily Magic Practice” and encourages viewers to comment and share. The content blends instructional coaching, motivational storytelling, and interactive Q&A.
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Every night you will be restless. Whatever you're feeling lack for, you may get it and it may become completely useless. Sometimes people have surplus, still feel lack. We get into addictions— watching too much mobile, watching too many movies, overworking yourself. Just imagine in the next 10 to 15 minutes, if we could really identify the root cause of lack in your life, and if we could even give you an exercise using which in the next 7 days, You could convert that lack into abundance. Would that be a game changer for you? Type in game changer in the comments if you agree. Right? So let's learn how do you do that? But first, let's understand what is lack. Take a notepad and take a pen quickly and take a blank page. Make sure you take a blank page. Okay? Make a nice big circle quickly. In the center, write down lack. Now, because of the lack which is in the center, what happens around our life? Let's understand that first. What is lack? Lack, in very simple word, is less. Write down the word less. Frankly speaking, there are 2 parts of lack which most people look at it in a very confusing way, but it's actually very different. Let me clarify. Shortage is different. Lack is different. Write this down, please. When you say I have less money, it can mean 2 things. It can mean I have shortage of money, or you have the money but you feel lack of money. So you see, shortage is different. Lack is different. Now, I'm not saying that you don't have shortage in life. Sometimes you have shortage, sometimes you don't have shortage. The feeling of lack has nothing to do with that. Sometimes people have shortage and feel lack. Now, does that happen with you sometimes? Type an I in the comment section if you agree that sometimes you have surplus, nothing is wrong in life, you still feel lack. So that is why I said shortage is different, lack is different. Correct? Now, when you feel lack, What are the consequences of that in your manifestation? When you feel lack, what happens because of that in your life? Let's write down some symptoms that happen because of lack. Where do you feel lack in life? First, write that down. Do you feel lack in money? Some people feel lack in relationships. Like I was talking to some other Platinum member that day, and she said, my life partner stays in a different country. I stay in a different country, and I feel lack of Companionship. I feel lack of love. I'm not saying the problem is not there. The problem is there, but the feeling of lack is a feeling. And sometimes she has the husband with her, still feels lack. Do you think that's also possible? You're with your partner, but you don't feel the companionship. You don't feel the love. So you see, sometimes the person is there, but the lack is also there. So the feeling of lack has nothing to do with the situation. It is just an internal pattern. We're just going through that as a habit. It's a feeling. It's not a situation. Situation is different. Feeling is different. Where else do you feel lack in your life other than money and relationships? Career. Maybe you feel you've got less money because your career is not doing well. So you start feeling lack in your career that I'm not getting my promotion, my business is not growing at the speed at which it should grow. All that is thoughts of lack. I'll give you one last example, a very simple lack which everybody experiences in life once in a while. It's called lack of confidence. Do you feel that sometimes? If you ever feel that, lack of confidence is when you, let's say, going on the stage for the first time and you don't have the guts to do that. Lack of confidence. You're creating content and you're feeling lack of confidence in creating the content. Lack. Whenever we're feeling lack in life, it's in different areas of life, but the feeling is the same— having less of something. I'll show you how to convert this lack into abundance today in the next 10 minutes. But before I do that, would you like to know the consequences of that lack in your life? Because if you don't understand the consequences, your need, your motivation to come out of that lack will be very low. But when we know the consequences, then we are ready to transform that feeling. So let's understand the consequences. First consequence of lack— whenever we feeling lack in any area of life, We take less than we deserve, right? We take less than we deserve because we feel I have less, so whatever comes is okay. It's like if you feel lack of love and somebody offers you love and you know this person is not worth you, you'll be like, we accept love from anybody, right? Or you'll accept a job from any person or any type of job. This happens to us because we feel lack. The second symptom that happens to us is we accept things fast. We receive too fast. We accept too fast. Somebody offers us something without thinking, we take it. We say, yes, I want it. See, it's like when a person is hungry, when a person is like a beggar and you give them food, do they think, is this hygienic? Is this good for me? Is this going to be overweight for me? No, nobody thinks because you're hungry, right? So you're like, give it to me. So we take too fast. Have you experienced that? There's a sense of hurry inside you when there is lack. Totally. Correct. Now, third is the worst symptom of lack. Write this down. After achieving, it becomes useless. Let me explain. When you feel lack, you feel, let's say, lack for a person in your life. Okay? One day that person will come in your life, has come in your life. In 1 or 2 weeks maximum, that person will become useless for you, and you'll feel lack again. In fact, you have already gone through that. Type an I in the comments if you've gone through that experience where you got something, but there was no point of having it because it just became meaningless in some time. And then you wanted something more. Then you wanted something else because lack had become a habit, a pattern. So knowing these symptoms, I have a simple question for you. Would you like to break this pattern of lack and create a pattern of abundance? Type in abundance in the comment section if you're interested in that, because I'm definitely interested in abundance. Abundance in what? Abundance in health, relationships, career, money, everywhere in life. Correct? So here is the step one of creating abundance in life. Step one is identify the specific area where you're feeling lack first. Write it down. Like, let's do this exercise right now with me. Okay? Wherever you're feeling lack, don't keep it very generic. When we don't specify. It becomes impossible to handle that situation because you're just going through a vague emotional pattern. Correct? So step 1, write down where are you feeling lack and tell me in the comments right now, where are you feeling lack? Are you feeling lack in money? Are you feeling lack in a job that you want or a promotion that you want? Or are you feeling lack in love that you're not getting from your loved ones? Or are you feeling lack of support from your life partner? What are you feeling lack of? Are you feeling lack of opportunities? In spite of working hard in your business, what are you feeling lack of? Confidence. Again, whenever you say words like something happens, you can never work on it. You can never work on it because you have already told your mind, I don't know why I'm feeling lack of confidence. I don't know what happened. It's like some invisible virus came and caught me. It's not like that. You need to be aware. Whatever you are feeling lack of, step 1 is already done. You've identified that area. Correct. Now, step 2, ask yourself. Step 2 is identify the need. Everybody write this down. Identify the need, which is you ask yourself that if I got this, what would I feel? Example, some of you have written in the chat window, job and salary. Okay. After you got the job, after you got the salary, ask yourself the first day you got it and you've got the first salary in your account, what would you feel? Identify that feeling first and write it down. It's very important to identify what feeling would you like to experience from that goal which you have shortage of right now. See, along with the shortage, there's a lack of feeling.
So we
are not talking about preparation shortage right now. We are talking about feeling shortage right now. We're talking about the lack feeling.
Got it.
As far as the preparation is concerned, do you think any amount of preparation is ever enough? How much ever you study for school, is it ever enough? How much ever you study for exams, do you think it's ever enough? How much ever I prepare for this video, do you think it is enough? I still had new questions. It is never enough. So the shortage of preparation is not the problem here. The problem is how you feel. We want to identify what is that area. We did that step one. Step two, why am I feeling shortage in this area? What is the lack behind it? What is the feeling I want after achieving that goal? Let's take another example. Some of you said I want to be married. Okay, so if you want to be married. What would you feel after you are married? Would you feel loved? Would you feel being together with somebody? Whatever you want to feel, write it down. Why? Once you have identified the need in step number 2, in step number 3, practice the feeling that is missing. If you could practice that feeling which you want now, as if you already have it, now there is a very high chance that you start upgrading your what? Your vibrations, your frequency. And you're not feeling low anymore. You're feeling high. And because you start practicing that feeling, You start vibrating at that frequency. What is the chance of attracting what you want? Goes pretty high because your vibrations are higher. But let's practice this to feel this. Whatever you have written is the identification of your need in step 2 as a feeling. In step 3, I want you to write this down. I already feel, and then fill in the blanks has to be your word, your feeling which you've identified. Example, I already feel confident. I already feel loved. Now, I know what you're thinking. Isn't that fooling myself? Isn't that lying to myself? Any feeling you want, you have already experienced in your life. That is why you want more of it. How can you want a rasgulla when you have not experienced a rasgulla? How can you want a chocolate when you don't know what is a chocolate? So if you want a feeling, it means you've already experienced the feeling. So all you have to do is identify 5 examples where you have already experienced that feeling and then say, I already feel this becomes easy because now you have the proof. Okay, listen. Sometimes when somebody has not come home on time and you're already worried for them, when they come home, don't you realize your worry was pointless? Don't you realize that sometimes that we exaggerate our worries? So if you can worry for the future, why can't we feel good about the future? It's not fooling yourself. It's taking control of your emotions. It's channeling your emotions. Okay, so let's practice this. I already feel. Take that feeling and say it five times. Example, I'm going to say, "I already feel I have everything." I love this one, by the way. I already feel I have everything. I already feel I have everything. If you can continue feeling this every day, you're not practicing lack anymore. You're practicing having that feeling that you want. Is that making sense now? Okay. Now it is important that every single day you practice this the whole day. Now I'll tell you why the whole day practice is important. When we feel lack, there is a symptom that I did not tell you, which I want to tell you now. Type in restless if you have experienced being restless at night. You will not sleep on time and you will keep stressing out because of that lack. Now during the day, people are kind of fine, but at night it gets worst. I'll tell you why it gets worse at night. What happens at night is multiplication of what you did during the day. Let me explain. Because you're restless the whole day, but you've just been sedated. Sedated means what? Unconscious. You're working during the day, you're talking to your parents, you're doing the work in the office, you're probably attending some of these courses. Whole day, more or less, we are busy. Would you agree with that? Yes. So unconsciously, the restlessness of lack is there. But you're not feeling it. Now, the moment night happens, I don't have work to do, office work is done. Now all those emotions come out and you start feeling lack even more. You remember, crisis and opportunities don't make you feel anything. It only multiplies your existing emotional pattern by how many times? So whenever we are feeling lack, we are restless. So what do we need to do? Do we need to take care of the restlessness at night, the lack at night, or the whole day? The whole day. So now your exercise is the whole day, every time you feel lack, quickly identify what is the shortage where I'm feeling lack. 2, what is the feeling I want because of which I'm feeling lack? But what feeling am I lacking because of the shortage? Write that down. That if I got the job, what would I feel? If I got the confidence, what would I feel? What would I feel? After you've written that, step 3, start practicing it every day. Start saying it during that time. I already feel. The more you say I already feel, the more you start feeling it. Because you start feeling it, you start creating it. And that is how you go from lack to abundance, but specifically in the area that you want. The question is, if you really want to practice this with me every single day, but if you would love to be part of our daily magic practice where every day you would like to practice with us, link is in the description Below this video. Quickly click on it and subscribe. But I want you to give me a promise, a promise that you will practice this converting lack into abundance technique for 7 days and then report back in this video that did you practice? Did you write down the feeling you want? And I guarantee you, the biggest symptom you will experience is if you do this the whole day, at night you'll be very peaceful. You will not be restless. The reason is you've dealt with your day. So the night becomes easy. All right, so with your promise in the comment section, type it in the comments, everybody who's watching on YouTube right now. I promise I will practice and come back in 7 days and respond here. Yes. Now, as promised, here are some question answers with the Platinum members to understand this technique better. And nobody wants to work with a coach who feels not enough.
I feel this lack of clients in my life. So no matter how much I try to reach out to the people, post in the groups, Taking live sessions and everything, but still I I just do not know. I am not getting the clients. I'm attached to a forum also as a senior coach and counselor, and there also all the leads that I am getting, they are either unable to pay.
There is shortage and there is lack.
Yes, yes.
Shortage is there, but the problem is not the shortage. The problem is the way you're feeling about it does not give you the ability to keep generating more because now while you're generating leads, your subconscious is still remembering. I don't have enough. And then your action becomes inaction, or it becomes less active. There is no energy in your actions, and people can sense it. The energy goes across to your new leads. When somebody is talking to you, they can feel that lack of confidence. They can feel that lack that she doesn't have enough. And nobody wants to work with a coach who feels not enough. Does that make sense to
you? Yes, sir.
Okay, so step 1, you feel shortage of leads. Step 2, how would you feel when you would have enough leads?
I'll feel successful.
Okay, so if that's what you want to feel, then that's what you should practice. Step 3, practice feeling successful first, getting leads later. If I repeat, I am successful, is that enough? Okay, remember 5 examples when you're already successful and then repeat it. So can you give me 5 examples where you're already successful quickly? One.
So, so I like the healings that I have done in the past. They were very successful. Right now I'm coaching a client for life coaching. I'm getting amazing results with her.
Okay. Step 3. And your success doesn't have to be only in the coaching industry. It can be anywhere. Just gimme 5 success experiences. 3.
I'm successful in waking up early in the morning.
Good. 4.
At my desired time.
Good.
4 is like today itself, so that I started successfully.
Very good. 5.
5 is I'm successful in organizing the things at home.
Okay,
so,
so 5 things. Now repeat with me, I'm already successful.
I'm already successful.
Say it 5 times. I'm already successful.
I am already successful.
Now close your eyes, take a deep breath, feel that. And now I want you to think about an action that you need to take to generate leads and check how you're feeling.
So I feel that Feeling is not coming because—
Because you're focusing on what?
Lack.
Exactly. And what is lack? Feeling of less.
Yes.
Correct. So that means you've not yet practiced properly the feeling of I am successful. One more time.
Right, sir.
So this is a great example of just because you've tried once and you did not feel it doesn't mean the technique doesn't work. It just means that you have to use the technique again.
Right, sir.
When you take one medicine and it doesn't work, what do you do? Stop eating medicine for the rest of your life? No, no, no. You take the same medicine again, right? So do it with me again. Tell me 5 places where you are already successful. Do it again.
Okay, so I am successful as a healer.
Okay, no, tell me some other 5 things. Don't, don't go back to the same 5 points.
So I can't relate to success with any other thing, sir, actually. So there comes a problem. Yes, I cannot relate success to any other thing though. I gave you the examples of related to home or waking up early, but my mind does not relate success to anything other than career success.
So that means for you, the definition of success as a conditional button is what? Only when I'm successful as a healer, only when I have clients. Like you've done good healing, but you're still not feeling successful.
No.
Because for you, the, the success of healing would be when you would be making what, ₹1 lakh a month as an example?
Yeah.
How much?
Yes, sir. Maybe ₹10 lakh a month.
Okay. So now you've made your success easy or difficult?
Very difficult, sir.
So that is why you're not making the money because you're not feeling successful because you've made your success feelings difficult. That's your unconscious condition and you're convinced that success is only when I make ten lakhs a month otherwise I'm not successful.
Right.
But my question is, is that true or is that your belief?
That's my belief, sir.
So now you want to keep that belief or you want to change that belief?
I want to change that belief.
Are you hundred percent sure?
Yes, sir.
Or you can keep that belief for the next five years and continue believing that success is only when I make ten lakhs a month. मेरा क्या जाने वाला है?
It's not serving me, sir. I'm really very puzzled because of this, because I lost a client who was ready to pay me 1.5 lakhs and he postponed. Correct. Because probably he got this energy that I'm not ready to coach him.
Correct. So if you really want to let go of this feeling, then you need to change your definition of success from difficult to easy. So what can you define as success from today? Make a new definition. You're not born with this definition of I'm successful when I make 10 lakhs a month. It is just some definition you picked up somewhere. And you started imbibing that in your life, and then that became your reality. But it is not actually reality. It is just a belief. So if it is picked up that way, you can pick up a new one. Pick up an easy one.
Right.
Can you create another one? I'm successful when—
I am attending these sessions.
Okay. What else?
I'm successful when I'm breathing.
Okay.
I'm successful when I'm— I go for my morning walks.
Very good. What else?
I am successful when I talk with patience to my daughter.
Very good. That is also success.
Yes. I am successful when I keep on trying, when I keep on taking actions.
Okay. So I want you to repeat with me. I decide what is success.
I decide what is success.
And I have decided.
And I have decided.
Every small thing I do is successful.
Every small thing I do is successful.
When I talk to my daughter patiently, that is also success.
When I talk to my daughter patiently, that is also success.
When I even do one healing, that is also success.
When I do even one healing, that is also a success.
When I pitch one and a half lakh for coaching and that person does not sign up, that is also success.
When I pitch one point five lakhs for coaching and that person does not sign up, that is also success.
So isn't that success? Isn't that tuning the frequency to the song that you wanted? Okay, the song hasn't played for a long time, but the tuning is happening.
Yes, sir.
So then that's success.
Yes.
So repeat with me again. Success is what I call success.
Success is what I call success.
And I have decided to make success easy.
And I have decided to make success easy.
From now on, I'm already successful.
From now on, I'm already successful.
I'm already successful.
I'm already successful.
I don't need anything.
I don't need anything.
Okay, now close your eyes and imagine yourself doing lead generation of any type of work for your coaching business and check how you feel.
I'm feeling a lot better, sir.
Yeah, of course you are. The reason is because we have changed the definition of success for you. I am successful because I'm doing all these small, small, small, small things, and because I'm already successful. And now when I close my eyes and visualize doing the task, It's easy because you're not doing it to become successful. A successful coach is doing the work. Does that make sense?
Yes, sir.
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