RBRalph BrewerFounder, Help For Men · Founder of Help For Men

When YOU want something, you are "selfish"

16 Feb 2026 · 0 min

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Men face a dynamic where they're expected to provide and lead without decision-making power. When a man expresses what he wants, it gets called selfish. This responsibility without authority creates relational imbalance.

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