Too Many Leads with Tarasa Hurley | Ep 054

A recorded conversation (YouTube episode) with Teresa Hurley about her transition from a high-performing solo real estate agent to team leader and co-owner of an independent brokerage. She describes rapid growth (35 homes first year, team nearly 100 homes last year), hiring sequence (transaction coordinator → buyer's agents → ISA), challenges with wrong hires and cultural reset, technology choices (Follow Up Boss, RealScout, in-house tools built by her husband/CTO), and her sales methodology rooted in clinical-counseling-informed feature→benefit selling. The episode also covers her decision to join/part-own Riverpoint Realty to gain speed, scale, and control over tech and recruiting for an internet-leads-focused team inside the brokerage.
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Over the past few years, Teresa Hurley got licensed and became a real estate agent, quite a successful one, with more opportunities than she could handle. The solution? Start a team and become a team leader. She looked around and realized that she needed more speed and flexibility than her situation was allowing her. It was stifling the growth of her team.
The solution?
She became a co owner in an independent brokerage and she shares lessons from all along that journey right here in this conversation.
One theme you'll hear throughout too many.
Opportunities and the need to keep growing and failing forward. You'll hear the story of tearing down the team's first iteration and completely rebuilding.
You'll learn how a need for more.
Control over marketing and tech stack drove that move toward an independent brokerage and how she's plugging her tech stack and her team into that brokerage.
You'll learn the sales methodology that she's.
Using to create closings and recruit agents.
Her first five hires as a new.
Team leader and in what order. The three core pieces of that tech stack. All that and so much more right now with Teresa Hurley on real estate Team os.
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Teresa, I'm so glad to be able to spend this time with you and I'm really glad we can do it in person here at Unlock.
Yeah, it's a really great event. I'm super excited to be here. Makes it slightly more nervous because when you had asked me to do this, like, oh, yeah, I've seen, I've watched them, they're so phenomenal. And I was like, oh, it's in person. It kind of has this, this new level of a little bit of nervous for me, but I'm excited to do this in person.
Cool. Yeah.
And it also, you know, we got.
John and crew and like, nice lights and set up a day. It does feel a little bit different than doing it in your own office, which is how we would do it otherwise. We've done a number that way, I guess, you know, I'm not being indulgent in this, but how did you find the show and what has been useful about it to you?
Oh, my gosh. When we get so many phenomenal people and they're telling their stories and what they've overcome and what they've learned from and how we're all in the industry and they have tips and tricks and things that they did wrong. That's so valuable. It's so amazing that we get to share that information and grow from each other instead of being so isolated in our industry and not having to reinvent the wheel every time. In fact, a lot of my growth has been probably watching one of your shows and I'm sure you're going to ask me about that at some point.
Yeah. Great. Well, I guess you already know this is coming. I would love to know from you what is a must have characteristic of a high performer.
One of the best characteristics would be coachable. And then tailed with that. Adaptable. So coachable. Because we're all entrepreneurs, we're learning as we go, we're taking risks and we need to be able to get feedback. And if it's negative, something's not working, we need to be able to shut it down and do something else and pivot very quickly in our industry.
Yeah. And take that feedback in a way that allows us to learn from it too, I think. In coachability. How has coaching gone for you throughout your career?
I love coaching. I think it's very, very important to grow in an industry, to have people that you're looking at that are at higher levels of you or have expertise in areas because you cannot be phenomenal at everything. And so listening to other people learning what they do is very, very important.
Cool. How did you find yourself in real estate? And at what point on your journey did you start thinking team so you can tell that story in whatever detail you want?
Like, so it was actually Covid, my Covid shut everything down and all three of my kids and my husband and myself were all at home. And I thought one day, if we're all going to be stuck in the house together, I'm going to leave and I'm going to go and get a job. And I was a stay at home mom for 10 years, but then I took my real estate classes during COVID and then I was able to get that little bit of time out of the house previous to the 10 years I was in new home construction. And so this was kind of a along the same trail.
Were you in sales?
I was okay. And so I decided to go into real estate, decided to take my classes and I really just wanted to sell six houses a year because that was the average in our area. And to have coffee with my girlfriends and not, not feel guilty about that, be able to leave the house, have coffee with my girlfriend, sell six houses a year. What happened is my first year I actually sold 35 houses.
That's a dramatic difference. And you don't like accident your way into that. I think you're overshooting how much you had to do to sell six homes.
I know. And so it was a real shock. I was like, oh well, I guess I'm really good at this. So 35. My first year we started really investing in the business. I realized it's not a part time job. This was now a full time job. I was going to do this, this was going to be great. And so we started introducing some technology. We started growing really, really fast. And now our team sold almost 100 homes last year. And then when I decided that we needed to go the team route is because we invest in online leads. That's how we get a lot of our business. And I was getting so many leads I couldn't possibly handle them all by myself anymore. And that's when I started to move some people onto our team so that I could leverage out some of my time back.
Cool. What was just, I mean as much detail as you can or want to like, step by step from I'm a solo agent, I just sold 35 homes in my first year to I'm going to keep investing and now I need to bring people alongside me. Like who were the first two, three, four people to come alongside you in this business?
My very first hire on to our team really was my transactional coordinator and she has been with me from the beginning and she is so phenomenal. I feel like I, my, my growth, a lot of it is attributed to her being able to take some of that paperwork and compliance off my plate so that I can be out on the road more selling more houses. So that was my first hire and she's phenomenal.
How did you find her?
She was another agent in my office. Ok. And she was not as busy as me, but she had a background doing things for a law office. So I knew she was really good at the law side of it, the compliance. I knew she'd be great with contracts and that's kind of how we started from there. And she's wonderful.
I love that. I've heard that story so many times from my seat in these conversations, which is there are real estate agents out there who understand the business, but they're not salespeople. They don't like that part of the job. And that's such an interesting thing about real estate in general is that you have to be, especially as a solo agent, you have to be all the different things. Right. And in this case, transaction coordination, operations, whatever. And so if you are a salesperson out there who doesn't feel like a salesperson, you're in a sales role, but you're not a salesperson. Like there is a job on a team for you.
Absolutely. And she's so valuable. I tell her all the time because.
I love her because of that sales background.
Yes, she's so valuable and I love her and she does such a great job. And I don't know how I would grow without her. But it's important to know as someone who runs a team that everybody has their different. Their different superpowers. And it's making sure your people are doing their best. Superpowers.
Who are the next couple folks? So you're humming along. Some of this work's come off your plate. You get to live your best self out in the market talking to people. Who else are you bringing alongside?
My next hires were all buyer's agents. So then I was trying to find, because we were getting so many buyer leads at a time, I needed buyer's agents to be able to show houses. So then after the transactional coordinator, it was buying agents. And then after, I think three buyer's agents, then I hired a inside sales agent to help with the inbound sales calls. Good.
So now we're at a tcu. Three buyer's agents. An inside sales agent to deal with the inbound opportunities and kind of probably vet them, qualify them, warm them up, hand them off to the buyer's agents. What did your marketing look like or your marketing spend? I guess, like where were you spending money and. And what kind of tech did you have in place at that point? Because you could do TC like a lot of different ways. You know, it starts with checklists maybe. Yeah. So I know I asked kind of two questions in one there, but like, what was the. What were the non human pieces in play at that stage?
So let's see. Of course, Follow up boss. Follow Up Boss was a huge component in our growth because we had so many leads when I started. When I started real estate, I had 30 names and they were all my mom's group from when I was a stay at home mom. That was it.
Yeah, you're starting somewhere. That's good.
And now we're over 10,000 people in follow up boss. Follow up boss is a big component to our growth. Another person that I didn't mention on our team is my husband Brian, who does our technology and our leads. And he's our cto and his job is to do the leads and the investments and to make sure that our return on what we're paying out for leads comes back and our numbers all are great. So he's also very important.
Cool. So where are you today in terms of staff and agents and if maybe we'll fill in, like the path from where we left off to there. But, like, where are you today?
Where we are today is I am co owner of a brokerage, Riverpoint Realty, and really, really excited. That's new. I just bought into that brokerage about a month ago. It got to the point that I didn't have enough people on my team to handle the income of all the leads that we had. So I needed a lot more people. So I had kind of a choice to make. I had outgrown my brokerage, and I found that out by watching one of your. One of your episodes.
That's interesting. Tell me about that a little bit. Like, what was that dawning for you? What were you thinking about and worrying about at that time? What was the unlock to say, this is where I need to go?
It was one of your episodes where they were talking about how you know when you need to move on from a brokerage. It wasn't anything. I didn't have any ill, ill feelings about my brokerage. I really love them. They're great people. But I'd gotten to the point where I outgrew them and I needed to make a move. I was not able to grow the team fast enough because I had to recruit people to the brokerage first and then to my team. And I wanted more control over the technology that we use. So the technology we use, of course, follow up, boss, Real scout. We use our website, teresa.com, sierra, we use for that. So we use a lot of things. And I was having to use. I was having to kind of layer things in a way that made it more complicated because I had to use my brokerage tools, and I didn't like those. A lot of what Brian, my husband, builds for us is our own tools that are really, really phenomenal. So I wanted to be able to use all our own stuff. And I had a choice. I could either go get my broker's license and I could start independent brokerage. Independent brokerage all by myself. But I'm selling 100 houses and you're.
Like four years into the business. Yes. Yeah.
And I was like, I don't have time to go get my broker's license right now. It's on my to do list. But I don't have time right now. So I found I could partner with this independent brokerage. And the owner and broker of that is a phenomenal person.
How long have you known him? And, like, how did this conversation start?
I say we were like, almost business dating for a year. We had met at an event and I really liked him and what he had to offer. Of course, like any partnership, he's really good at things I'm not really good at. And so we were a great fit for each other and we could both see the potential of growing together and really just expanding. And so it's an independent brokerage, which I like to, because then I didn't have to use any technology that I didn't want to use. And I am slowly integrating all the brokerage into my technology stack. So we met, I think we met like six or seven times over a year. Just kind of feeling out. It's like, can this work? Can we work together? Do we like each other? What are our plans? What are our goals? And can we. Can we build something that is bigger than both of us together? That's going to be really incredible. And we decided, yeah, we could. And it was really great.
That is great. And I love the idea that, you know that the technology that you and Brian have put together is part of that vision as well.
It's a big part of it.
Yeah. So your team is inside the brokerage. Is anyone else. Is anyone. Any of the solo agents going to be coming into the team? Like, talk about this hybrid. I feel like it's a hybrid situation. Like, what is this situation?
And it's really confusing because we're kind of.
Because it's early, too. It just happened.
We are falling forward. It's like I like to say.
But how many. How many. How many agents do you have? How many agents are in the brokerage?
So we had a team of 10, and now we've joined the brokerage. And now we have about 40 agents.
Okay. And so 30 of them are independent agents or solo agents, I should say, inside the brokerage. So the episodes you reminded me of, I thought of Jenny Weimert telling her story of taking Wiemer Realty independent. And then also you made me think of Levi Rogers, who was in a franchise model, became part of Zillow's Flex program, a partner in it, and needed the speed and flexibility to kind of do the business he wanted to without having to kind of like double check or adhere to some extra sets of rules. That was. Those are the two that came to mind there. Here I'm thinking About Barry Jenkins, who built his own team inside the brokerage that he was in at a certain point, became a partner in that brokerage and they merged it all together and all became one super teamer. I'm sure there's no vision for that yet, necessarily. That's probably to be seen. But, you know, in your multiple discussions, do you expect additional teams inside the brokerage or is it more likely that it goes all into one teamerage?
So right now we're kind of focusing on creating a Internet leads team inside the brokerage, and then all the leads that we produce are going to go towards that team.
Cool. And so people can opt into it. It's just one option for how you can participate with us.
Exactly, yeah. And then I can do more mentoring and recruiting and everything kind of on the brokerage level instead of just a team level.
Oh, yeah. Okay. Yeah. So let's talk about that. Like, how has your focus or motivation or excitement or sets of activities in any given week, how has that changed from I'm going to go out and sell six houses a year to today?
There's a lot of growth there, a lot of movement, and not all of it has been great.
Yeah, that's why I asked.
It's learning. It's definitely learning. So when I first started the team, I did it from a place of I'm in pain and I need to fix it. I was like, I've got too many leads. I've got 17 appointments in the next two days. Like, I haven't seen my kids in four days. So it came from pain. And when you do anything based on pain, you usually make the wrong choice. So when I was first starting a team, I literally went to anybody with a pulse. I was like, hey, I want to be on your team. I was like, you come. Do you have a cell phone Here, you can be on our team. And so it made me realize that I hired some of the wrong people at first because I hired anybody with a pulse and that's not what I needed. But in my head I was like, this will help the business pain. I'll have more people. But what I found as I've developed the business and grown is that culture fits are very, very important to a team and being able to hire the right people, it's never a good idea to hire from pain and to hire someone with a pulse, you should make little more effort in making sure that these people coming on are right, fit. And not only now for the team, but for our brokerage now I make sure that the people that we hire are right. People that are going to work with us, that are going to grow with us, that are going to be excited. And I know from personality studies and things like that, because I do have my master's in clinical counseling, that I am really, really high on the optimism scale. So sometimes knowing that I will downplay, play red flags because I'll be like, it's okay, I can fix it. But when you're already over leveraged and you've got all these people coming at you, you don't have time to fix things. You have to have the right to.
Change a person's mindset or personality in, like, a fundamental way.
Yeah. What was I thinking?
Well, you were thinking, I need to alleviate this. This. This pain. Yeah, yeah. So, I mean, talk about that process a little bit. I mean, you know, I heard you say culture and I heard you say right Fit. How formal was your approach at that point as some of these things were occurring to you now? You had created this new pain of, now I've got some people alongside me and it doesn't work. I need to figure out, like, the exit situation here. How formal initially, when you started bringing people on, how formal were your thoughts about culture and Right. Fit. I mean, obviously they weren't. I mean, you just shared that they weren't like, top of mind. But from there, did you lay out things like, you know, some of the standard components are like, you know, a purpose statement or a mission statement or documented core values? Like, did you go through that exercise in an intentional way?
I tried to.
Okay.
I tried to. And I realized, do you follow a particular model?
I'm sorry to interrupt. No, I follow a particular model or you're like, I need to start writing down some of these things that are important.
So at the time I was at kw, so I followed a lot of Gary Keller's models for that, but it wasn't working at that time. I was trying to do, okay, these are our core values. These are our. This is what we're going to focus on. These are our mission statements. But what I found was if you have wrong people in wrong places, that there's no amount of bandage on it that can help. And we kind of got to the point where it was, I think it was Christmas. And I was like, I forget what the catalyst was. Probably that it was Christmas and it's stressful and trying to get stuff done. And I've got agents that are fighting and yelling at each other and nobody's doing what they're supposed to and the clients are suffering. And I kept having to.
And it's a hot market.
Yes. And I had clients coming back to me saying, I'm not going to work with your agent. I don't like them. It's like, why? I don't want to. I don't want to lose business. So I kept being.
Stepping in.
Yeah. So I kept having to step in and be like, I'll take them. Don't worry. I'll take this one. Don't worry. Oh, they gave you a better. That's fine. I'll take them. Take them back. So I was. I was realizing I was taking everybody's clients back because they were coming back to us upset. And then I finally kind of threw my hands in the air. I looked at Brian. I was like, we're done. It's like, I quit. I quit. I was like, probably in a frantic, crazy way.
20, 22. 20, 23, maybe.
20, 23.
Okay.
Yeah. I was like, I quit. I was like, we're done. We don't have a team anymore. I'll go back independent. I don't know what I'll do. But I was like, we're going to. We're gonna let everybody go. I was like, I can't. I can't be. I can't be everything to everybody anymore and just be upset and sad and feeling like every time I talked to the agents, it got to the point where every time we had a team meeting, I felt so sad afterwards. I was like, they're just upset and they're sad and they're complaining, and nobody's. Nobody's getting any sales, and they're having to send their clients back to me, and I'll close them out, and they'll be fine. But then I'm still having to pay those agents because I feel bad that they lost a client, and it just wasn't working. And every team meeting came back, and I was just so sad. It wasn't invigorating me. It wasn't making me happy. I was like, what am I doing? I was, like, almost banging my head against the wall. It's like, what am I doing wrong? How am I feeling? It has to be me. I have to be failing at something. And what I realized I was failing at is I had the wrong people in the wrong places, and I could not make them into the people they needed to be. And because I had hired from pain, I didn't. Those. Those were just not the right fits. So we reset, and we did. We reset. And I took, like, a Couple days and cried and stuck my head in a pillow and cried. And I was like, okay, enough wallowing. I was like, we reset. I was like, okay, I know I have something to offer. I sell a lot of houses. I know I'm a good leader. I know I can get people up and running and selling houses.
And you have the best CTO in town.
And I have the best CTO in town. And I was like, I know I can do this. I was like, we reset now. And so I let everyone from the team go. And two of the agents that were on the team, one we had just hired and one that we had hired just a couple months previously, they were like, hey, we're not. They contacted me. They're like, we're not with the other agents. We want to stay. And I was like, okay, you guys can stay. We're going to rebuild from here, though. And I was like, and we're going to have very, very strict things in place. That negativity of the toxicity, like, we cannot have that in our group. I won't allow it. And I had to be stronger of being a person that was like, I can't fix everything. Let's restart. And these are our new core values, and these are our operations that we're going to keep in place. And this is what I expect from you. We built a much stronger, happier team. And we built very quickly. I had those two agents, transactional coordinator Brian, for the tech lead. We had an isa. So then we hired three more agents very quickly. And I was very, yeah.
How did you find them? What was that process? You said, like, I know I have something to offer. Like, what was your. How did your process change at that point in light of, like, core values and some of that reflection? And what was your value prop to them at that point?
My value prop to then them was that I can ramp you up and get you to be a producing agent. So what I kind of targeted were agents that had been in the industry a while but weren't having the success and the levels that they were looking for. Maybe they sold a couple properties. But, like, we know if you don't stay consistent, like, it. It doesn't feel like you're growing, because you can never learn from each situation. You almost have to reset every time because there's too much time in between sales. So I was like, I can make you more consistent. I can ramp you up. I can give you all this technology that's amazing. I can show you exactly what to do to convert people faster. And so we Hired three more agents after that, very quickly. And I focused on people that were hungry, that had a positive attitude, were willing to learn and grow. That's why I said the coachable was one of my favorite things. Because for all of us, for me, it's being coachable too. Like, I have to be able to see something and be like, oh, I didn't do that well. How can I fix it? How can I learn from that? How can I make myself better? And so we look at that in agents, too. Want someone that's going to be able to adapt with us and be like, hey, I really love how you did this and this, this thing over here, let's tweak that a little bit. And I want the agent to be like, yeah, let's do it together. And they're excited about learning and getting out there. So we hired three more agents very quickly, and all three of those agents are great. I am very excited. And then we hired another one just recently, and she's been phenomenal. So I.
Where do you. Where have you found them?
I reached out to all my. To, like, my lenders and my title company. I was like, who's good out there? Who's really nice? Who's hustling, who has a great personality, but they're just not able to produce the. They don't have the sphere to be able to sell from, and they don't have the technology to be able to get leads, and they don't have the money to buy leads. Like, who are those people? Who are those people that I can help? And my lenders and my brokers and my friends and my title company, they started giving me names to interview. And those are the people that we started with. And usually people start with. I try to do like a call first or coffee first. And then we kind of do. If that, that appointment goes well, then we do another one. And then if that goes well, then we. We talk about contracts and we sign an onboard them.
How formal is that process?
So I'm trying to make it formal.
You're not doing, like, massive volume, but it's enough. And you have aspirations for growth and the foundation for growth, especially now that you know you're a partner in the. In the brokerage, you have, like, room to really start running. What does that process look like now? And kind of. What's that in the year ahead? Like, what do you feel like you need to harden about?
The.
Okay, this person's agreed to come here. How do I actually deliver? And I know I have a lot to Teach them and I can help them become much more productive. But how formal is that system and process to get that going now? And where do you want to take that in the year ahead?
We need. Even with the, even with the acquiring the brokerage and partnering, I still don't have enough agents. At 40 agents I have way more leads than that. I need even more honestly. I need 100 agents. I need a brokerage of 100 agents. I can support it. So that's what I'm looking for. And the systems we have in place are non existent right now because the brokerage that I bought really didn't have any formal systems. So I'm creating the systems as we go.
Like onboarding and training systems. Yeah.
So I lean a lot on my follow up boss Mod Squad that I'm a part of because those are some phenomenal people and they have all these things. So we trade a lot of things, things back and forth for growth. Like they're just such amazing people. And I remember reading a book a long time ago, it was a business book. I love business books. But this one, a long time ago when I was first starting it said that at some point you're going to get to a level where you're going to have to get on a plane to see your friends. And I was like, that's my first year in real estate. I was like, that's silly. I have friends that live right here. I'm not going to do that. But it's totally true with the Mod Squad. When we get together and see each other, it's so exciting. We stay connected all year long and then we see each other in person at our masterminds and events like this. And it is, it's like getting on a plane to see your friend. We help each other all the time. If I have ideas, we bounce them off each other, we're giving each other. It's like, oh, you don't have a system and procedure for this thing. It's like, I've got that, here's mine. It's like, oh, someone else is like, oh, I've got a question about Google Ads and an ad copy. Can, can I ask Brian that? It's like, yeah, of course. So we're, we just trade things back and forth and that's why our community is so impactful is because we're generally here to help each other. That is hard to see in other industries, especially in real estate where people tend to be a little bit more, I'd say catty or coming from a coming from an idea of scarcity, where they're like, I can't. I can't give you my good ideas. Like, I need to keep those. For me, we're not like that at all. Like, the growth that I felt, the growth that I've had is hugely attributed to the Follow Up Boss community.
Cool. So for anyone who's not familiar, what Therese is talking about is the Follow Up Boss Success community, which is open to all customers. I think there are 25,000 ish in there as we record this. And the mod squad is the moderating, the moderator group, like members of the Follow Up Boss community who voluntarily spend their time and energy answering questions in that community. But then you're also talking about extending that offline into real relationships.
Oh, yeah, we're friends.
Yeah.
Like, it's awesome. That's. That's what we've built. I can say that that is one of the most important things that I found in business is that it's important to align yourself with great people who just want to all grow together. And that's part of our community, is when we all succeed, we all grow together. And that's really important. That's. Not everybody has that, but we have that here, which is phenomenal.
Yeah. A little bit of a pivot here in the conversation. Talk a little bit more about your background in. Did you say clinical psychology?
Yep. Yeah, yeah.
Talk a little bit more about that. And I'm sure it comes to life a bit in all the work that you do. I mean, playfully, people will toss off the language that, you know, a real estate agent is a therapist for their clients or that a team leader is a therapist for their agents. That is true. But not everyone has any background in that direction, so.
Yes. So I have a bachelor's in psychology, master's in clinical counseling. What I focused in on that is for, you know, everybody has their superpower. My superpower is, is talking to people. So. And we dig in really deep when we're talking to clients. And the, It's. I'm sure you've heard the. The pen situation where.
Sell me this pen.
Exactly. Sell me this pen. Well, the fact is, I can't sell you you anything unless I know how you use that pen. What do you love about that pen? What's your favorite color on that pen? What are you going to use your pen for? I can't sell someone a house unless I know what motivates them, why they need it, why they don't like their current house, what's missing, you know, what their Dreams are what their holidays look like, what pets do they have? Like, we go really deep. And the reason why is because when I'm in a house with them, it makes it easier for me to present the house in a way that best suits their needs. And I don't know that unless I know those very, very deep down things. For example, we call it feature benefit sales. And I learned a lot how to do that from actually Ryan Holmes, because as a new construction sales rep, I had to sell a ground with nothing on it. I had to sell the vision.
Yeah, imagine this. Look at this pencil drawing.
Exactly. So we had to build a picture. So a lot of what I do for feature benefit sales is I have to know what motivates them. And then we have to turn that around to, to match how the features of the home will benefit them. Because everybody is looking from any situation, any interaction you ever have is how do you benefit me? And it's not because people are selfish. It's because that, that's the way we're programmed to be. How does this benefit me? Like when I call someone and someone just looked at our website and they looked at a house and I call them, it's going to be their first thing. Why is this person calling me? Was this benefit me? So we have to show value very, very quickly. So feature benefit sales is a good way to do that inside a house. And that's what I teach a lot of my agents is that feature benefit sales. And it's really digging down deep. Knowing your client, presenting that back in a house. For example, if I know because of communication that my client is, you know, family of four with a dog, they're moving because their house is too small, two of their kids share rooms, and that creates fighting. I'm gonna bring that up in the house that we're in. It's like, okay, so we were kids are fighting too many. We need more bedrooms. Like, okay, this house has this many bedrooms. Jason can go here. I thought Elliot could use this one because I know Elliot likes to read and he could put his reading chair there because that's something that you told me you like about your house. I'm painting a picture. The faster I can paint a picture, the faster a client falls in love. But they only do that if you really, really make it personal to them. Gone are the days or they never were the days where you just opened a door, you stood in the corner and you're like, walk around, tell me what you think. It's like you could do that forever. But the fact is I show very little houses before I get a house under contract. And that is better time wise for me. And it's because I know my clients.
It'S better for them too. It, you know, hear these stories of, you know, they looked at 61 houses before they, you know, wrote a contract that like, that's really bad for everyone. I mean, I think some people enjoy the, maybe there are like rare buyers who enjoy that process. But like, as a, I bought a handful of properties over the years. I don't want to look at 61 homes. I want someone to have a process to guide me through it and show me the right stuff.
Yeah. I mean, people get excited first, like, oh, we're gonna go see houses. After the fifth or sixth house. They're like, oh, this is tedious. Yes. But if, you know, and they start.
Getting blurry in your mind and I'm like, how different were these?
After all, they start losing their excitement. So anytime I want to psychologically, I want to push a client forward or I want them to stay put, I either elicit an emotional response or I pull back the emotion and show numbers. So, for example, when I'm showing a house, I'm going to elicit the emotional responses based on what I know that they need and want in their house. So if we're doing inspections and they're starting to get afraid, I'm going to pull back the emotion from that and we're going to push the numbers because I want them to focus and remove the emotion from the situation. But emotion is what guides everyone and moves anyone forward. Just like in sales and homes and everything else, you have to make that the pain of staying put is worse than the pain of moving forward.
Yeah. And the chronic pain of staying put versus the acute pain of going forward, it looks like a lot more pain, but you're not appreciating the chronic pain that you're in now in a home or not even having a home that's ideal for your living situation or family situation. Exactly.
It's like in that case, it's like the family, four kids were fighting now to have bedrooms. It's like, what happens if we don't move forward? Well, they're going to keep fighting. Well, of course they are. They're kids. It's like, do you think it's going to get better as they get older or going to get worse? Oh, it's going to get way worse. And I can't actually do this. So it's again a listening emotional response to get them to move forward in the best case scenario.
Cool. So what I think I've heard is that 2025 is going to be a really interesting and fun and challenging and different year from the years that you've had in the business so far in that you're going to be doing onboarding, training, coaching, not just for your own team, but also for the brokerage at large. It sounds like you're going to be growing your team in the year ahead. What are you looking forward to in 2025 yourself? And did I, did I capture some of it right there?
No. Yes, you did. I know. I feel like we went on a bunch of tangents. I'm really sorry.
No, no. Just.
No.
That's what we're doing. That's why we don't do these.
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