Ruth L. Schwartz shares what she learned from coaching thousands of women and studying attachment theory, psychology, and neuroscience to help single lesbians over 40 find lasting relationships. She presents the Conscious Girlfriend Academy as a roadmap and support community, with success stories from women who found love at 50, 60, and beyond.
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So if you're a woman who loves women, a lesbian, a queer woman over 40, maybe over 50, over 60, even over 70, and you know that you want a beautiful, lasting, loving, fulfilling partnership in which to spend the rest of your life, but you are having trouble even knowing how to get started dating— how are you going to find that person? Or maybe you're dating but nothing is clicking. Maybe you're spending time with somebody you're not sure. Are you dating? Are you not dating? Does she want what you want? Is it the right fit? Are you going to settle again? Or worse, maybe you felt like you found that person and then things fell apart. If any of that matches your experience, I know what you're going through because I've had those experiences. Experiences too, over and over again. And for a long time, I felt like I was stumbling in the wilderness trying to figure out what I needed to know to be able to have the kind of lasting, loving lesbian relationship I wanted. I had the passion, I had the desire, I had the willingness, but I didn't have the roadmap. And when I started trying to study, get more dating and relationship education, the information I got didn't fit for me as a lesbian. It was designed for women with men, and a lot of it was just plain wrong. Eventually I realized if there was going to be a roadmap, I was going to have to put it together myself. And it took many years and a lot of study of attachment and psychology, neuroscience, a lot of work with hundreds and then thousands of other lesbians and queer women around the world But eventually I put together what is now known as the Conscious Girlfriend Academy, which provides that roadmap for you, for all of us, for our community. So you don't have to struggle and stumble through the wilderness. If you know that you want a beautiful, lasting, healthy, passionate, loving relationship, you should get to have one. And you need to have the right preparation. that you can find that person, recognize that person, date in a healthy way to lay a strong foundation for the love you want. It's happening for women in the Conscious Girlfriend Academy. We've got some amazing success stories that I'd love to have you check out on our website, and it can happen to you too. You just need the right tools. You need the right training. You need the right community. You need the right support. And And you can have the love you want. We're helping that become possible for more women every day. I look forward to seeing you in the Conscious Girlfriend Academy.
