This content was created by Ruth L. Schwartz. This content was uploaded by Ruth L. Schwartz. This is a YouTube video titled "The #1 Cause of Lesbian/Queer Fights & Breakups, And How To PREVENT and HEAL Attachment Wounds" (created 2026-04-15T21:55:21Z). It contains a single-speaker promotional/educational monologue presenting an Attachment and Communication Healing Intensive aimed at lesbians and women who love women. The speaker explains that attachment wounds are the main cause of fights, breakups, and disconnection, gives several relationship examples, and pitches the updated class as a way to prevent and heal those wounds and improve relationships.
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So why is the Attachment and Communication Healing Intensive a game changer for lesbians and all women who love women? Basically because the number one cause of fights and breakups and pain and disconnection in our relationships comes from attachment wounding, and often we don't even understand that that's the source. For instance, somebody that I know recently went on a romantic vacation in the Caribbean That her girlfriend had suggested. As soon as they got there, her girlfriend said, I don't have feelings for you anymore. It was devastating. I also know people who have been in relationships where their girlfriend breaks up with them and then says, okay, we can continue seeing each other and sleeping together as long as you understand we're not girlfriends now. I know other people who have been on the brink of looking at rings, planning a wedding, and the other person says, wait a minute, I don't think I want A relationship. Wait a minute, I have fallen out of love. And I've known other situations where tragically there is somebody who you can see on paper is a good fit for you, who really likes you, who's available, who you have fun with, and yet you can't stop thinking about that other person who is not ready to be in a relationship, who does not want to be with you, who is not available. And yet she's the one you want. We all know these kinds of situations, right? And the common denominator of all of them is that they relate to our attachment wounds. So unless you take a class like this, basically you end up being at the mercy of your attachment wounds and the other person's attachment wounds and the way that your attachment wounds and hers Ping off of each other and not up against each other, collide. Um, it can be so frustrating and confusing to start out a relationship where you're both totally into it, and then at a certain point she starts backing away and you're left feeling like, where did you go? How can I get you back? Or maybe you've been on the other side of it, where at a certain point You start just shutting down and feeling pressured, and you don't understand why or what to do about it. And your girlfriend is putting more pressure on, and the two of you get locked. You know, it's it's the ultimate head-on collision. Most relationships don't survive, and if they do, they sustain a lot of damage. We stop having sex. We stop. Stop feel having fun. So this attachment and communication intensive is really going to help you understand how and why this happens, and most importantly, how you can prevent it, how you can heal it. Whether you're healing going forward, picking the right partner for you in the future, whether you're healing it in a current relationship, or whether you're healing your heart from the past because so many of us have sustained. So much pain as a result of these kinds of attachment wound collisions. So check out the class. This is really going to be a game changer. The last time I offered this class was two years ago. This is going to be updated, new, different. But even two years ago, people said it was the single most important class they had ever taken in the academy. Really changed how they could move forward in relationships. So I want that for you too. So I hope to see you there.
