5 Steps to Create Your Dream Relationship

This is how to create your dream relationship without relying on dating apps, wealth, or social media. Who this video is for: This video is for you if you're an ambitious, growth-oriented entrepreneur or leader who's serious about creating a fulfilling, long-term relationship. You've had some success in dating but struggle to build lasting and healthy relationships. You've dated decent women, but deep down, you're searching for a better match and you fear pursuing someone you think is out of your league. You've succeeded in your career, but struggle to find success in love. You've tried everything in the book, but feel stuck in love and don't know how to move forward. You've been deeply hurt by past dating and relationship experiences, but you still see light at the end of the tunnel. You're looking for more than just casual dates and superficial encounters. And you want a relationship that enriches you long-term? You've achieved great things but feel hesitant to step into the dating world after years of focusing solely on your career? You're tired of endlessly swiping on dating apps, splurging on nightlife, looksmaxing, and growing a social media following? You're fed up with meeting societal expectations like attending top schools, excelling in your career, staying fit, and building a social circle, yet you're still unable to create your dream love life. Who this video is not for: people who believe they just need to be themselves and eventually they're going to find their dream relationship, people who want to learn how to manipulate women, people expecting quick fixes or instant results without commitment to personal growth and development, people who are not ready to challenge their existing beliefs about dating and relationships, people looking for superficial qualities or attributes in a partner rather than deep, meaningful connections, people who are unwilling to invest time or resources into developing skills that foster healthy and sustainable relationships, people who are only interested in casual dating, and those who prioritize quantity over quality in their dating experiences and are not focused on finding a truly compatible partner. Now, key distinction here. In this video, I'm here to guide you through the steps to create your dream relationship, not just find it. It's an important one. Many people focus on finding the right person, hoping for a perfect match, but the key to a fulfilling relationship lies in creating it. This means developing the skills, mindset, and behaviors necessary for a deep, meaningful connection. Finding suggests waiting for the right person to come along, while creating empowers you to actively shape your love life. It involves personal growth, powerful communication, and intentional actions to build a lasting partnership. It's passive versus active. So in this video, I'll show you the blueprint I've used to help clients of mine create the extraordinary relationships of their dreams. So who am I? Stephen, that's my name. I'm the founder of House Manifest, and I'm on a mission to help a million leaders around the world discover their soul's calling, create their dream relationships, and build extraordinary lives. Since I was born, I moved every 1 to 2 years across different cultures and continents, so I'm a bit of a lifelong nomad. Formerly, I was a digital growth consultant to different brands. I was a Daygame.com instructor, and I was also in investment banking. Now, my professional background gives you a glimpse to my journey, but I want to tell you my personal story to illustrate what makes me qualified to teach you how to create your dream relationship. If you've come across my content before, you've probably seen me approaching beautiful women, sharing dating tips, and hosting exciting residential experiences around the world. It might seem like I'm a natural, but that wasn't always the case. Years ago, a couple of bad breakups left me heartbroken and depressed. For 2 years, I avoided any social interaction, especially with women. Desperate to overcome my depression, I even went skydiving. You can see me in this photo. Thinking money and status were the answer, I took a job in investment banking. But when that didn't work, I felt like something was wrong with me. I thought I wasn't good-looking enough, big enough, or successful enough. I even believed that love wasn't in the cards for me. I wanted to solve this problem so badly, I went on a journey to learn from the best in dating and relationships. I attended countless workshops and boot camps all over the world, and over the next 15 years, I traveled to over 30 countries and approached thousands of women to put my lessons into practice. My dating life and confidence skyrocketed. I overcame my limiting beliefs about me not being enough I even started coaching men on how to quickly form romantic connections anywhere. And here's me, uh, back in the day, kind of putting everything into action. But something big was missing. Deep down, I was looking for a healthy relationship, not just flings. But anytime I had a chance to create a great relationship, I ran away. At the subconscious level, I was still hurting from past failures in dating. Even though I wanted a deep, meaningful connection, I pulled away from expressing my genuine desire, fearing rejection and deceit. To avoid this pain, I numb myself with new dates and opportunities. I mastered a confident facade and the challenging skill of effortlessly creating attraction and building connections organically. Anywhere, anytime, but intimacy still scared the hell out of me. So I embarked on a personal journey of self-discovery. I faced my fears, learned how to accept and love, love myself, and rewired my mindset. I resolved past negative experiences and overcame limiting beliefs about myself and women. Starting self-acceptance and self-love has literally transformed my life. This transformation has allowed me to create my dream relationship, discover my soul's true calling, and gain the confidence to embark on an entrepreneurial journey. This journey has enabled me to serve clients and build communities aligned with my soul's mission around the world. So that's a bit about me, and here is how to create your dream relationship. Step number 1, define your dream relationship. This is by far the most important thing. The first step to creating your dream relationship is to know what your dream relationship is. What kind of dream relationship do you want to create? Be specific. It might not be super clear to you what kind of dream relationship you want to create if you've never thought about it. But motion creates emotion. Once you start thinking about it, it'll become clearer to you. So give yourself that clarity. Here's how. Write down all the qualities you look for in your dream partner. Here are some examples. She is ambitious yet grounded. She's caring. She's kind. She's loyal. She's growth-minded. She's joyful. She believes in a higher power. You get that idea, and you can be way more specific than these features and qualities. It's really important to tune into that deeply because what you intend, you manifest. It's not just about saying, I want her to be blonde, brunette, short, tall, slim, etc. It's about the energetics, it's the vibe behind everything. Now, once you've created a list, tune into what you feel when you're with her. In order to do that, imagine being with your perfect dream partner. I'm gonna give you a really powerful exercise. Picture yourself enjoying the most perfect day with your dream partner in your life. What does that look like? First, how do you wake up? What are you feeling when you're around her? What kind of conversations are you having with her? What kind of life are you building with her? Are you joking around with her? Are you hugging, touching each other? Are you smiling at each other? Are you having a deep conversation? What kind of conversation is it? What do you feel when you stare into her eyes? How are you wrapping up your day? Visualize the entire day of you being with her and be as detailed as possible. I was in Bali a few months ago and I went to this beautiful beach with my partner. And yeah, that was a beautiful day. And this is what I manifested. And you can do the same. So you get the idea. Write it out, record yourself reading it, put this in your notes and pin it so you can always see it. Listen to the recording over and over again until you can picture everything so vividly just like you know the lyrics of your favorite song perfectly. Now we shift the focus to you. Step number 2, the gift of blank canvas. Imagine someone asks you to create a beautiful painting and gives you a piece of paper, but instead of a blank piece of paper, they give you one with a drawing already on it. How would that make you feel? Sure, you can modify what's already on the paper, but you'd feel like there's limited room for creativity because you're not starting from scratch. This is what was happening in my life when I was learning all the essential skills in dating and meeting women. I had deep trust issues and limiting beliefs about myself and women, so the life I was creating in this domain was already heavily tainted. Because I was deeply hurt by a couple of early dating experiences, I formed a story in my mind that women could not be trusted. Even though on the surface I seemed to have a successful dating life, meeting many women, I was actually running away from what I really wanted— creating a healthy relationship instead of pursuing short-term flings. Invariably, we all have this. Something happens in our lives And instead of letting the event be, we interpret what it means. We give meaning to that event. We form a belief. We then reinforce this belief again and again when something similar happens, and we give similar meaning to it. This is how our subconscious gets wired, and this is how we form our operating system, which we use to see, interpret, and navigate the world. These foundational experiences we give meaning to not only affect our past but influence our present and future without even us knowing about it. Unless you clean up your operating system, you keep repeating the same cycle of painting on the canvas that's already colored. Then you wonder why you can't create something that's truly original. Get the idea? So what to do about it? You uninstall your existing operating system and install a new one. You do that by going deep into your past and reflecting deeply on every experience that leaves you feeling angry, frustrated, disappointed, resigned, tired, sad, or mad. Your residual negative experiences. It doesn't matter how, how big or small the actual experience is. It's our interpretation and how we gave meaning to that event that you want to pay attention to. Once, once you take stock of those events, you get present to the emotions. Then you forgive yourself and those who are part of all these experiences. This is how you complete an experience. And once you do that, you become whole and complete. And this is how you liberate yourself from the stories that have imprisoned you, limiting your freedom, love, and power. And this is how you start accepting yourself and loving yourself. And this is what happened in my life. I was deeply scared of being hurt again because I was a prisoner of my own limiting belief. An operating system. It was only after I truly completed these experiences that I was able to create the dream relationship I'd always wanted and help others do the same. Once completing an experience becomes a habit, you always know how to have a blank canvas. It becomes a habit. When you have a blank canvas, you can actually finally design your life any way you desire. This way, you give yourself an opportunity to attract and connect with people from a position of strength. It's the best thing. And you also give whoever you meet a chance to meet you without any baggage. It's really the biggest gift you can give to yourself and to your special person. So this is a crucial step. Step 3: Spread your vibe. Now that you know what kind of relationship you're looking to create, your dream relationship you're looking to create, and you've wired yourself with a brand new operating system, it's time to take action. How do you take action? You take the initiative in spreading your vibe. Start putting yourself out there. This is a very masculine approach. The best way to do that is to start saying hi to people you cross paths with using the Baby Frame. What is the Baby Frame? Well, think about babies. Babies are curious, playful, and shameless. Babies don't give a fuck. With this mindset, you are unstoppable. And here's how to spread your vibe. First, As you go about your day, you say hi to people you encounter in a cafe, at the supermarket, on the subway, at the gym, at a restaurant, everywhere. You go up to them and say hi and introduce yourself. For example, hi, I'm Steven. I feel a bit spontaneous today and I wanted to come meet you. How's the vibe? When you do this, instead of trying to take something from them, add value to their lives. It's a very subtle energetics nuance. Notice something unique about them and give them a genuine compliment about their outfit, vibe, smile, nationality, accessories, choice of food, etc. For example, hey, I was going about my day and you totally distracted me with your ninja outfit today. Strong ninja vibe. You get the idea. Let me play some example here so you get the idea even more powerfully. Hey, excuse me, sorry, do you speak English? A little bit. This is gonna sound very spontaneous. I just saw you, you look cute, so I wanted to come say hi. Hello. Hi. Thank you so much. I'm Steven, what's your name? Korean call this Anya. Anya, but that's not your real name. Om. That's not your real name, huh? Om. Om. Yeah. How do you spell om? O-O-M? O-U-M. O-U-M. It's like a meditation vibe, the om, you know? Yeah, what up? See what I did there? So yeah, just commenting on her vibe, her name, you know, you get the idea. Second example. Hey, excuse me, this is a really random question. Are you happen to be from like Southeast Asia? No, no, no, but I'm asked that a lot too. Yeah, okay, okay, let me, let me guess. Maybe not Asia, Latina, right? So in this example, like you can see that it's not about getting it right necessarily, it's about having a conversation and just using as a fodder to keep on going, you know. So you get the idea. And notice when you say these things, when you say hi, it's actually not necessarily about what you say but how you communicate it. It's all about the vibe. It's very nuanced. Um, so what's really important is your tonality, your pace, eye contact, and smile. At first, this might feel super robotic and not as free-flowing. Of course, just like learning any new skill. But don't worry, don't worry too much about getting it perfect. As you put yourself out there, you'll notice those who reciprocate your energy. And when they do, continue showing your curiosity and have an emotional conversation to understand them deeper. And the name of the game here is to create a moment of unforgettable listening. If they feel genuinely heard, you'll know about it, uh, they'll feel connected and they'll be curious about you. And when this happens, let them know about you in a movie trailer format so they're hooked to learn more about you. As you become comfortable with spreading your vibe, make sure you communicate your romantic intention with those you vibe with so it's clear it's not just a friendly chitchat. You can establish the romantic intention in many ways with your eye contact, voice, smile, and of course verbally. If you do this right throughout the whole interaction, you've displayed your communication leadership this whole time. And if you feel there's mutual vibes, invite her for an opportunity to get to know each other better. Guide her toward the exciting possibility of her being a part of your world. And this is how to spread your vibes, and this is how to create attraction organically. It's a super powerful skill to learn and integrate in your life. By actively spreading your vibes, being in communication, and creating love, you're not just waiting for someone to happen to you. You're not waiting for someone or something to happen to you. Actually, you're proactively going out there, connecting with people, and showing your love. It's a very subtle difference, but a super important one that'll compound over time the more you do it. Now, at this point, you might be wondering, that's pretty cool, but that doesn't sound efficient. Dating apps can help you meet the right people much faster. Yes, dating apps can help you find potential dates, but there are a couple of problems with the apps. First of all, who you can meet is limited by who the algorithm shows you. And even if you know how to take the right photos and have won the genetic lottery, your options are limited. And this is, this is even a more ominous problem: the more you use the apps the more you become reliant on them. This breeds a scarcity mindset naturally because you start to feel dependent on the app to meet people. Conversely, when you say hi in the real world, you can display your confidence way more powerfully. Consider saying hi as a foundation for your dream relationship creation journey, not an alternative. This practice can compound results in transformative ways, creating a ripple effect across all aspects of life. Quick story time. Once I had a client who was already meeting a lot of great women off the dating apps. After learning how to say hi and incorporating that practice into his daily routine, his results skyrocketed. Because he unlocked his organic confidence by constantly generating new possibilities in his daily life. He developed a genuine abundance mindset. He no longer felt like he could only meet women on the apps, and it's no coincidence that all aspects of his life transformed. Eventually, he met his wife during the day. If he didn't learn how to say hi, he wouldn't have been able to. So There you go. Fearlessly spreading your vibe with a baby frame is one of the most foundational skills to develop as a man looking to create a dream relationship. It's a powerful skill that'll impact other areas of your life, helping you create all kinds of connections and opportunities. This action in and of itself is confidence by definition. In addition to creating my dream relationship, the skill of rapidly creating deep meaningful connections helped me create friendships and social circles everywhere I traveled, build a business of my dreams, and live the life I've always envisioned. Also, as a man, one of the most powerful things to achieve in the woman's mind is being in the category of one. When you create connections on the fly like this, you'll be remembered as someone super unique, bold, and confident. And naturally, you're not just one of those guys in her mind. You're the only one. And that's really powerful. Now, step 4, qualify for magic. Once you put yourself out there and authentically express yourself with the baby frame, Your life is going to change. It'll transform in ways you can't even begin to fathom. Now your social circle will expand. You'll encounter opportunities you've never imagined. You'll meet attractive women on a regular basis. Now is the time to go one step deeper and choose who deserves your time and energy towards your dream relationship creation. You want to screen out— you want to screen out and filter people who don't meet your standards. This might sound a bit egotistical, but it's actually a crucial step in creating your dream relationship. If you don't do this well, you risk wasting your precious energy, time, and money on connections that don't serve you. So how do you qualify for Magic? First, remember that list you created in step 1? Use it to qualify them. Then After you go on a date with someone, ask yourself the following questions to evaluate how you two vibe: Do I feel more energized or de-energized than I did before the date? What side of me did she bring out? Do I like this side? Do I feel like I want to learn more about her? Did I feel heard? Did she make me laugh? Did I feel attractive in her presence? Did I feel captivated, bored, or somewhere in between? Does she complement my energy? Do we have a yin and yang vibe? Honor your standards no matter what. For every person you meet, evaluate whether you two have something special together. Remember, if this is not a fuck yes, it's likely a no. So when that happens, communicate where you stand, see what happens. And if it stays the same, move on. Important, this is a subtle energetics nuance. You're the one qualifying them, not the other way around. So important to set the frame from the get-go, from very early on. A lot of people who are stuck in this scarcity mindset often have problems qualifying for magic because they're waiting for others to choose them. Not the other way around. And we're flipping the script here, get it? It's very, very subtle. You are the creator of your own reality, so choose your own adventure. Step 5: Enroll her in your world. Now you've qualified for magic, you found someone who's special, You like spending time with her, feel special, you feel like you can be your 100%, and she's excited to see more of that. Now it's time to enroll her in your world, and this is the final step. So what do you do? Communicate your why, what kind of inspiring and exciting world you're creating. Express why you've chosen her to create this possibility with you, and ask her whether she'd be willing to join you. Communicating your why clearly is important for many reasons. You want to align your life around your higher purpose, purpose giving your life more power. This is essential for creating a unit with someone you feel the magic with. It's actually a requirement. And with your clear why, it's easier for her to join you in creating your dream relationship together. When your why is clear, it becomes easier to move people. The most powerful way to create your dream relationship is demonstrating your higher purpose and action and making a compelling case through your communication and behavior that your world is an exciting and inspiring one to join. Once you've discovered your why and live your life in accordance with it, you're living a big magnetizing life, and she has an opportunity to join you. And this is the vibe, and this is how to create your dream relationship in 5 steps. Now you know how to create your dream relationship and the key steps you need to take to make it happen, but you may be wondering, how do I cultivate self-love and become whole and complete if I don't even like where I'm at in life. How do I overcome my approach anxiety? How do I overcome the friend zone? How do I master killer first impressions? How do I create that masculine-feminine vibe? How do I build intimacy on dates? How do I— what do I say after saying hi and giving a compliment? How do I get them to like me for who I really am? How do I keep the conversation flowing naturally and avoid awkward silences? How do I maintain her interest over time? How do I handle rejection and stay motivated? How do I identify and attract high-quality women consistently? How do I build a deep emotional connection that lasts? And many more. And this is exactly why I created the 180 Degree Authentic Relationship Transformation program. It's designed to help ambitious and growth-oriented men just like you to achieve true abundance in dating and build dream relationships with women of your dreams. Now imagine a scene from the movie The Matrix where Neo learns judo. You can see it in the photo here. Just like Neo plugs the back of his head into the source to learn all the skills, my clients learn from my experiences. So that's the analogy here. They benefit from my years of experimentation, trial and error, and discovering what works best. I've applied these skills to create my own dream relationship and have used them to help my clients achieve their dream relationships as well. So in a nutshell, you get trained like Neo. I give you clarity on how to dismantle your deeply rooted blocks standing between your current challenges and your dream relationship, a custom tailored game plan that suits your unique lifestyle and personality, designed to improve your organic confidence and take action, and radical accountability to achieve your dream relationship in less than a year. And here's what my clients achieved with the program, and their results have blown me away. One client found his dream partner and got married after divorce, and I was the best man at his, at his wedding. So here's a photo. Another overcame his limiting beliefs and past trauma to find abundance in dating. Yet another created his dream, dream relationship, career, and lifestyle. Now, if you've watched this video until now, clearly achieving your dream relationship and creating one is something you deeply care about. And here's what I invite you to do. There are two options. Option number 1, you don't do anything. You consider this nice information, you go back to where you are, nothing changes in your life, and you go back to the feeling of wasting your life, being frustrated, confused, and lost, feeling lonely and unfulfilled in your relationships, comparing yourself unfavorably to others who seem to have successful relationships, continuously questioning your self-worth and desirability, and Experiencing anxiety and stress over your romantic life. Being stuck in a cycle of short-term flings with no real emotional connection. Missing out on opportunities to connect with amazing women because of fear or self-doubt. Wasting time and energy on people who don't appreciate or reciprocate your efforts. Being stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns. Getting friendzoned. Being stuck in the cycle of no dates or mediocre dates that go nowhere. Hours of swiping with no real results you're proud of. Spending a lot of money on alcohol, going to clubs and bars to numb everything, but seeing no improvement in your life. Buying expensive things to remedy the lack of confidence. And being stuck in a scarcity mindset, obsessing over a girl who doesn't meet your standards deep down. Now You've always wanted to become the man you've dreamed of, but you're scared of taking action. So if option 1 doesn't appeal to you, here's option 2. And now that you've understand there's something you can do about achieving your dream relationship in a way that you probably never heard about, you can take action. And here's option 2. If you care about creating your dream relationship and achieving the following, such as find your soulmate and build a love that lasts, live a uniquely extraordinary life you're excited about, develop lasting confidence and charisma, cultivate a deeper, more loving connection with yourself, experience true abundance and love and amazing relationships, gain social freedom, attract souls who resonate with your true self, master the art of creating soulful connections anywhere, anytime, achieve a deeper understanding of your identity, values, and desires, and how to actually communicate them, I invite you to book a call. I invite you to book a quick 20-minute game plan call with me. On this call, we'll uncover the biggest challenges you're facing right now in your romantic life, and if you're the right fit And if I believe there's magic between us, we'll explore the possibility of working together to create your dream relationship. Don't let another day go by without taking a step towards your dream relationship. You can schedule your free game plan call below. The link is in the description. Hope you have an amazing rest of your day. Keep calm and vibe on, and peace.