A dating coach explains the difference between a simp and a high-value man. A simp validates you and blends in. A high-value man flips the dynamic and makes you question whether you've been playing small.
Simp versus high-value man. So what kind of guys do you usually date?
I usually date successful, confident guys.
Wow, that's amazing. You must have great taste in men. So what kind of guys do you usually date?
I usually date successful, confident guys.
Interesting. When you say interesting with that calm, grounded tonality, it flips the script. Now she starts to second-guess her answer.
Wait, were they really confident? If they were so great, why didn't it work out? Am I settling without even realizing it?
A simp validates her past, making himself just another guy in line. A high-value man flips the dynamic, making her question if she's the one who's been playing small and if he's the one she should be stepping up for. And that's the difference between
