A number without an emotional connection is meaningless 🤷‍♂️ #shorts #datingcoach #coldapproach

14 Nov 2024 · 0 min

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In this short monologue, the speaker identifies his current weakness as failing to build emotional connection (EC) quickly when approaching women. He references his mentor, Choi, who teaches that obtaining a phone number is meaningless unless an emotional bond is formed first. The speaker criticizes online “posers” who focus on clever tactics to get numbers, arguing that numbers are cheap and unlikely to lead to a call back without genuine connection. He reinforces this point with a recent field lesson experience, noting that on his first day of practice he learned firsthand that numbers alone hold little value.

You know what my big weakness point is right now? It's not building EC fast enough. So Choi, obviously the master, teaches us an approach that if you get the number, but if you don't build an emotional connection with the girl, it doesn't matter. It's meaningless. Everyone on the internet is a bunch of posers. Like, it doesn't matter if you get the girl's number through some cheeky strategy. She won't call you back. Number is cheap, baby. They're cheap, baby. I learned that on the field this week. On day one, actually. Day one. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's crazy.