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12 Jan 2025 · 1 min

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In this YouTube short, the speaker recounts a live cold‑approach encounter on his second day of field practice as a dating coach. He initiates conversation by guessing the woman's ethnicity, discovers she is Korean, and greets her in Korean. She notices his phone displaying anime content, which becomes a shared interest hook. He quickly moves to ask about her plans, proposes a 15‑minute coffee meet‑up, and when she declines, secures a future evening plan and exchanges Instagram handles. The speaker then reflects on feedback from his coach, emphasizing the core principle of "volume"—repeated practice—to refine his approach skills.

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So I approached her, I looked at her and I was like, are you like Chinese? And then she was like, I'm Korean. And then I went, annyeonghaseyo. And then she went like this. And my phone was out like this. Then she looks at my screen, she's like, oh, you like anime? I was like, and then I just asked, hey, what are you doing next? And she's like, I'm going to see a friend. I was like, cool, hey, you got 15 minutes? Let's grab coffee right now. She said like, oh, I can't because I have plans now, but hey, after I'm done, let's do something tonight. And I was like, cool, pop out your Instagram. Bro, listen to this, this is my second day out on field. As a coach, you fucking killed it, bro. You decided as a coach to do the harder thing, to refine me. For me, it just comes It comes back to the keyword: volume, volume, volume, volume.