Approaching a curly-haired cutie at the Bali market 💯 #shorts #coldapproach #dating #datingcoach

10 Jul 2025 · 2 min

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In this short YouTube clip, Speaker A approaches Speaker B in a Bali market, initiating a casual English conversation. A asks if B speaks English, compliments B's fluency, and playfully references being treated like a "whitey." A probes how B learned English, learning that B practices with strangers while traveling solo, staying in hotels, and meeting foreigners. A then comments on B's unique vibe, guesses B's origin based on accent—identifying Taiwan/China, specifically southern China (Guangzhou). The interaction moves to exchanging Instagram handles and suggesting meeting for a beverage during B's ten‑day stay. The tone is informal, flirtatious, and friendly, showcasing a typical cold‑approach strategy that blends language assessment, cultural curiosity, and social‑media follow‑up.

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Hey, excuse me. Sorry, do you speak English?
Yeah, a little bit. Not very like fluent. Fluent?
Yeah, I think you do speak English very well because you're telling me that, oh, I don't speak English that well, but you do speak very well. Treat me like whitey.
Oh yeah, because like I never study in other countries. Oh really? Yeah.
How come you speak this language?
Oh, like I just like after touring, I talk with the foreigners like, protect my oral English. So just this.
Okay, you just practice with like random strangers and that's how you learn English?
Yeah, like, because like, uh, when I'm traveling, right, because I'm solo trip, solo travel. Yeah, you want to find yourself. Yeah, I used to like stay in hotel, so it's very easy to meet some people.
I see, I see. Got it, got it, got it. I was going to say, cuz like when I saw you, you like, you have a very unique vibe about you, you know. So like, you stood out to me. I was like, hmm, where is she from? Don't tell me where you're from. Let me guess. I think now I got your accent. You must be somewhere, somewhere in like Taiwan or China.
Yeah, yeah, Taiwan, China. Yeah, China.
Like southern part of China? Yes, like, like Guangzhou or something like that?
Yes, exactly. I got it.
I like your vibe. You have Instagram?
Yeah, yeah, we should connect.
Amazing. Well, you're here for the next 10 days, right? Yes. You can have some beverage sometimes.