A man strikes up a conversation with a French woman in a sauna and switches to French mid-chat. Her interest shifts noticeably. He credits cold approach practice for giving him the confidence to try in the first place.
You could really do game everywhere. We were in the sauna. There was this really cute French girl who kind of just came in, literally just sat next to me and started talking to me. I wasn't even talking to her that much. And when she realized that I started speaking French, like her eyes like widened. This is a real high-pressure game. I'm in the sauna. She's listening. I'm having a great conversation. I'm like, you're sweaty. I just gotta go. But because I was an introvert, I didn't push it beyond that. Cold approach unlocks everything. And that was a powerful reminder. Never even would have thought to even try that if I hadn't done cold approach first.
