A dating coach argues that over 85% of communication is non-verbal, so posture, eye contact, and how you carry yourself determine whether someone sees you as high-value before you speak. He recommends confident stance, strong eye contact, and a projected voice.
Important is your posture or like how you walk. More than 85% of communication is nonverbal, meaning before you even speak to someone, they actually immediately clock out like what kind of vibe you have just by the way you smile, just by the way you walk, just by the way you make eye contact. They can already see, are you a high-value guy, are you a low-value guy, like where do you stand? Well, let's make it easy for them, right? Let's make it easy for them to understand that like you're a high-value man, you're here to spread the vibe, you're here to really spread your gift, offer your gift. So you go out there and when you say hi, but let's say if your energy, if your vibration is like, "Oh hey, excuse me, I wanted to come say hello." Version 2, "Hey, this is gonna sound a little spontaneous, but I wanted to come say hi." Completely different, right? Slow down, strong eye contact, cheeky smile, project your voice. High-value men, they're not really concerned about what others around them think of them, you know? They're just there to create their reality. They're just there to create their world. So it's like, okay, don't even think about, "Okay, I need to lower my voice." No, like, project your voice, communicate, express yourself, and most importantly, have fun.
