The video records a live in‑field dating coaching session. Charles, a practitioner, approaches a woman (Speaker B) at a residential event, engages in small‑talk about travel, matcha, and cultural background, and attempts to move the interaction forward by suggesting a spontaneous drink. Throughout the exchange, both participants display fatigue, and the conversation fluctuates between light banter and attempts at deeper connection. After the interaction, Coach C provides a debrief, analyzing Charles’s body‑language reading, the woman’s signals (eye contact, lingering looks, verbal cues), and the missed opportunities for escalation. Charles reflects on his learning, noting past blind spots in interpreting women’s communication and emphasizing the importance of leading, reading non‑verbal cues, and not waiting for explicit verbal confirmation. The session ends with a brief promotion of a consultation service.
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Just like had a lot of fun. Yeah, this is like back in college.
Yeah, uh, is my lips green? My lips green because of matcha.
All right, day 2 of our residential today. How do you feel?
Tired.
Tired.
Exhausted.
I mean, to be fair, this guy had a massive day yesterday. On day 1, like literally creating 2 dates, you know. And that goes to show the power of taking a lot of action and spreading the vibe, right? Just one day, just a few hours of vibing, expressing yourself, and you create all these results already. But hey, we're here not to be results-oriented, outcome-dependent. We're here to just express our vibes and have a lot of fun.
Excuse me. Hi, do you speak English?
Yes.
I saw you from over there. Yeah, I thought you're cute, so I want to say hi. Yeah, you look like a— huh? You want to talk and walk? Walk and talk? Really? Where are you going? Oh, going home. Did you have a long day?
Yeah.
What's that? Long day walking.
Oh. Thailand.
Oh wow, you work in Thailand? That's really cool.
No, I'm not working in Thailand. I just recently come. I was out of Thailand all the time.
Oh, you haven't been in Thailand the whole time? You're traveling?
Yeah, I love Bangkok.
Are you local? I'm not local. Yeah, can you guess where I'm from?
Um, I don't know, no idea, but I, uh, of course I understand that you're not local. Yeah, yeah, because of your appearance.
Yeah, I can guess you're not local too from your appearance.
That's logic. Yeah.
Are you from Russia? Is that— I can tell with the way that you dress.
Why? How Russian dress get? Like, what kind of—
Very modest. Elegance.
Maybe where you was born?
Oh, can you guess? Do you know the different ethnicities of— No, I don't know. Thai is part of it, the word.
But you from Southeast Asia?
I'm from Taiwan.
Oh, Taiwan.
You know Taiwan? Yeah.
I meet people— I met people from Taiwan. Say advice to me? Oh, come to Taiwan.
We've got great food, great night food.
Wait, I've never been in that country before.
You seem like you would like food if you just came from India. Like, did you like the food there in India? It's so-so.
Yeah, how's it? It's from India.
You picked that up in India. I'm Charles.
Charles. Yeah, I should go. It was nice to talk.
Yeah, it's nice talking to you.
Bye.
Let's exchange Instagram. What are your plans for the next 2 weeks?
I'm not sure. I can choose by myself what I want.
Oh, you're very spontaneous. Yes. Do you want to do something spontaneous now?
No, for now I think enough because like early days.
There's a matcha place right here, it's really good. Buy you a drink.
I also like matcha.
Yeah, me too. Yeah, you like matcha, right? Yes. Yeah, it's just Actually, right up there. Right up, right up here. Yeah, yeah, you're spontaneous, right?
Yeah. Okay, this reminds me a little of Khanh Tinh Diagoa.
Right here.
Tough for you to, uh, yeah, when you see it, it's like, oh, makes sense.
Yeah, you seem like you have a good heart. Yeah, what would you like to drink? Hot drink?
Hot matcha? You call me for matcha but you take water?
Yeah, I'm very sensitive to caffeine. If I drink that right now, I'm gonna be like, really? Yeah, like I can run like 10 miles. Yeah, yeah, I get a lot of energy. Yeah, I'm trying to keep it chill, you know. Yeah, cheers! Yeah, wish I could drink with you. I love matcha. This is the morning.
You want to try, Lisa? Um, it's okay. Yeah, it's tasty. Um, I like also matcha in Malaysia. They make it also tasty very well in Malaysia.
In Malaysia?
Yeah, yeah, nice matcha.
Yeah, got apartment with my friends and like just like had a lot of fun. Yeah. This is like back in college.
Is my lips green? My lips green because of matcha?
It's not green. I was just looking at your lips. I just want to look a little longer.
No, not a little. Just you're a little green.
Oh, okay. Yeah, so I like to do yoga like before meditating. It's like— no, but I can do a yoga pose right now if you want to see me do yoga.
This is— uh, this, this one, like No, I'm gonna stay out.
I just want to see if you want to come out. Yeah, sick.
Yeah, how was that?
It was good. Yeah, it was good, isn't it? How did it go? Um, there were moments where it was just like eye contact and we're just like having like kind of flirty eye contact vibes. Um, I think the conversation was like very— it felt very low energy to me because she was just really tired.
She's like, I'm tired, to me.
Really?
No, she actually looked just very—
she looked— yeah, very interesting. Oh really?
Yeah, she was very drawn. Yeah, she was super— she was super drawn and down.
Yeah.
Yeah, she gave me like multiple looks like when she left, and I was like, what does that mean? She kept looking back and like, it's like, bye.
Because she wants, she wants you to like lead her.
Yeah, I came in pretty late, right?
Yeah, I look at her face and I'm like, oh wow, she's so down.
Yeah, really?
Yeah, body language, right?
Yeah, yeah, yeah. I don't know. Yeah, where we go next? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, to like continue to escalate, maybe like just bring it to a different space for like a reset.
Exactly.
More energy.
It's like, yo, like, okay, grab some— we grab some tea, right? Grab some matcha. Okay, it's like 7 PM, 8 PM, you're hungry, I'm hungry, right? Let's get some food. Girls gotta eat, right?
I guess I asked her, I was like, oh, where, like, what's the next spontaneous thing? You know, I could have, you know, suggested—
like, you're like, you're almost like, uh, waiting for the confirmation. Yeah, that verbal confirmation. That's so— she's like, you're, you're waiting for her to tell you, hey, take me somewhere. Like, she's never gonna do that, right? And just like, read her body signals. She's there with you, she's like leaning in, right? Yeah, eye contact is there. Yeah, she kept on looking back. You couldn't be like, hey, actually, come here. All right, yeah, here I'm telling you, we both saw it. The signals are all there.
And so that's a big lesson for me. Yeah, learning this new language and the signaling. Yeah, that's how women communicate, right? But great job.
Great job.
Thank you. Thank you.
But great job, Pashich. So what happened today, brother?
Um, a little like nervous in the beginning, but yeah, once I got my, uh, got a little win from the— forgot that— accounting girl. Um, yeah, and then just one long insta date where I learned a lot. I learned a lot about body language and leading as a man. And now I'm like flashing back to like all my 38 years of life where women were like communicating interest to me and I've been just like blind to it. It's like words were saying something different and yeah, I didn't know the language, but I'm learning it. So yeah, really good day.
Shout out to my boy Charlie for taking massive action. Now, without taking this massive action, talking to these beautiful women and going on these instant dates and having his footage analyzed, he would have never known that he's got these blind spots in his game, especially body language. Now, chances are you also have your own blind spots. Maybe your self-expression, maybe the way you interpret their vibes. Well, I've had my own blind spots as well, and the only way I was able to really, really improve, completely transform my game to a crazy level, was actually understanding what my blind spots are and actually really working on them. If this vibe resonates with you, if you want to completely transform your way of being, your self-expression, your dating life, your love life, hit the link in the description below. I'll give you a free cheeky free consultation vibe, and let's see if you'll be a good fit for a Papa Club. Peace.
