A dating coach warns against recycled pick-up lines like "you seem spiritual, what's your sign?" Instead, make specific observations about the person in front of you. Use an icebreaker as a real conversation starter, not a script to escape from, and stay on the topic to learn about who they actually are.
I just went up to her and said, hey, you know, you seem more like the spiritual type to me. What is your sign? Okay, two things. Number one, I really like the fact that zodiac vibe is working out really well for you. I would say play around with different things instead of just always going with like, you seem like a spiritual vibe. A lot of the time you kind of like come off as scripted. This was like my problem when I was approaching back in the day. A couple of women told me, do this all the time? Because I'm just going with the script. And now obviously you're starting out, really come up with your own observation that's really unique instead of always going with the same thing. Number two, let's say like you open with the zodiacs and she's revealing a lot of herself, go deep instead of like jumping from topic this topic again because like the girl that you just explained, you were like already kind of saying that she's like revealing. Stay in the zodiac thing more. It's like personality. Learn more about these different things and then just like really go deep. You don't really have to learn that much. It's more about an icebreaker and then they tell you more and then go deep instead of, oh, what about your fashion? You're doing that because again, you're not really comfortable. You're a little bit nervous. Yeah. But this is great though because you're talking to a girl that you're not really attracted to. Use it as an opportunity to practice more. Yes.
