Two dating coaches debate strategy: one says cold approach wastes time and you should optimize your appearance and social media instead. The other argues cold approach is the highest-ROI skill because it builds real confidence and independence from external factors.
Cold approach is a low, low, super low return on investment. So instead, what I like to do is attract women into my life by being the most attractive version of myself. Whenever I go out, I'm fashionable, I'm social, I put myself out there on dating apps and Instagram, and through that alone, I don't have to cold approach because the women come to me.
My experience, cold approach has been the most valuable skill set I've developed in terms of ROI. He was talking about becoming the most attractive version of yourself. Well, how do you become the most attractive version of yourself? Well, you have to develop your authentic charisma and confidence, the kind of charisma and confidence that does not depend on anything or any particular situation. And that's what cold approach gives you. You become someone who can not rely on anything and create these magical opportunities with anyone, anytime, anywhere. If you want to learn how to do this properly, hit up Papa Choi.
