In this short video, Speaker A explains that most men, especially young men, suffer from "invisibility" – they are treated like wallpaper because they offer nothing that others want. Relationship opportunities, whether romantic, professional, or social, are not granted to the virtuous but to those who possess something others desire. Papa Choi reinforces this problem, arguing that men who do not create value are ignored and cannot attract opportunities. He urges viewers to become valuable by learning what others want, actively engaging with many women to discover the kind of relationship they truly desire, and taking concrete action to understand themselves. He also promotes his coaching services as a way to obtain blueprints and guidance for building an extraordinary, personalized dream relationship.
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The problem for the vast majority of men, especially young men, is their invisibility. Most men are wallpaper. The world does not treat men very well when they want nothing from them. I talk about that in the very first pages of the book. To understand why some people are rich in relationship opportunities, whether they're romantic, professional, friendship, etc., and other people are not, it's not correct to say that it's the good people who have relationship opportunities or the virtuous people. It's the people that other people want things from that have relationship opportunities. If you have more of what other people want more, you are going to have relationship opportunities throughout your lifespan.
This is a major problem for the vast majority of men. When you're invisible, when you're like not there to really like take advantage of opportunities out there in the real world, when you're not creating value for others in the world, they don't know what they want from you. Like, what am I doing right now? I'm putting myself out there because I've got all these different experiences connecting with women, creating my dream relationship, helping other people create their dream relationships. Because I've done that, this is what Papa Choi has to offer. So what's the lesson for you watching this video? Figure out how you can be valuable to other people. In terms of relationships, talk to as many women as possible because you wanna find out like what kind of relationship you want to actually create. Not someone else's, but your uniquely extraordinary dream relationship. In order for you to answer, well, you gotta take action. You gotta learn more about yourself. Go out there, have conversations with women. If you want to have like proper blueprints, if you want guidance, hit up Papa Choi. Let's chat.
