A man credits a dating coach for helping him overcome insecurity about his crooked left arm and approach women he'd previously avoided. The coach told him to be more assertive, even harsh, and he says it works.
I just didn't have that confidence in front of girls that you've instilled in me. Like, if I saw a girl like Anna on the street, I would never approach somebody. It wouldn't even be in my sphere of thinking. Like, there's no way a girl like that. Because I got my crooked left arm, and when I was telling her about it, it was really funny in the set. She didn't even realize it was crooked. You gave me permission to be mean, and it turns out mean is pretty fucking good. You're a fucking man. Deadly. With girls, specifically.
