Don't just base your assumptions on what you see, go deeper ‼️#shorts #datingadvice #datingcoach

22 Jan 2025 · 1 min

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In this brief coaching exchange, Speaker A demonstrates a typical opening line that focuses on a physical compliment (“I like your muscles”) and then urges the listener to make an assumption about the other person’s athleticism. Speaker B counters by suggesting a deeper, more emotionally resonant approach: ask where the person’s confidence comes from, effectively boosting their ego and probing their personality. Speaker A reflects on the interaction, emphasizing the lesson that successful dating conversations should move beyond surface observations, hit the emotional core, and guess the other person’s vibe or personality rather than relying solely on what is visible.

Make an assumption about me. I like your muscles a little bit bigger than most of the guys that I talk to. Something tells me you're athletic. Do you work out a lot? Okay. You make it more exciting, bro. Come on.
I would ask like, where do you get this confidence? Oh my goodness. This bulletproof confidence. Very good.
See, like, he's like— now she's like getting me, you know? See, she's like boosting my ego a little bit, right? I think there's a huge lesson here. You've been trying to go off of what you see. Really like hit them emotionally, you know? This is what she did a little bit. She's like, okay, like, where'd you get this confidence, you know? Try to almost guess their like personality on the vibe.