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17 Sept 2024 · 1 min

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In this short interview, Speaker A asks Steven why he appears so outgoing and whether he has always been that way. Steven explains that he was not naturally extroverted; a severe heartbreak left him depressed, socially withdrawn, and feeling like a hermit. Determined to avoid repeating that pain, he aggressively pursued personal development by working with various coaches worldwide, attending seminars and boot camps, and consuming books and courses. He describes his current confident, sociable self as the result of a cumulative process of learning from multiple heartbreaks and failures, turning those experiences into a deliberate skill set for making friends and thriving socially.

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You have this vibe that you're super outgoing. It's really easy for you to make new friends. Were you always like this? And if no, how you develop this skill?
It'd be easy to say that I was always like this. When I was learning this skill set, I always wished that I was like natural, but obviously not. All of this started from the very big pain point I had a long time ago. I experienced a very severe heartbreak after the relationship I had with a girl, thinking that, okay, like, she is the one. When it didn't work out, I was like super depressed to the point where I was avoiding any social interaction. I was breaking down a lot. I was just like in a cave. I was like a hermit. And then by the end of that depression, I was so fed up with being tired all the time, being down all the time. I need to do whatever it takes to not repeat the same. And then I ended up working with a lot of different coaches around the world, taking a lot of seminars, boot camps, reading a lot of books, courses, whatever I could. I like really soaked up. The version of Steven you see today is almost like a culmination of all the heartbreaks and failures.