Here are just a few of the amazing breakthroughs my client made out in the field 💯 #datingcoach

14 Oct 2024 · 1 min

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In this brief coaching debrief, the speaker recounts three key breakthroughs a client experienced during a day of field work. First, the client adopted a role‑playing mindset, treating interactions as a role to reduce pressure and create a win‑win mental frame. Second, after sensing a bad vibe, the client chose to persist, continuing to approach people despite discomfort. Third, the client achieved a personal record by speaking to the highest number of strangers ever, highlighting the impact of the previous mindset shifts. The speaker emphasizes how these mental strategies translated into tangible social action and confidence gains.

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So yeah, what happened today? Take me through your roller coaster. The first breakthrough is kind of like, give me that role. I enjoy just like, pressure's kind of off me. I am just doing stuff. Take it kind of off me. I'm gonna act this role. That works for me. That's a good frame of mind for me to get into. It made a difference because it felt like if I'm playing a part, win or lose, it just becomes more of a win-win mindset in my head actually. The other breakthrough today was after a bad vibe, I did continue. I approached a lot of people. You did a really good job actually. That's actually the most amount of strangers I spoke to. Amazing, yeah.