Here's how you break the ice 🧊 #shorts #datingcoach #datingadvice #coldapproach

When I say like make statements and mix statements and questions, it's like in the beginning, right? In the beginning when you're breaking the ice, right? When you just got matched with them online or when you just met them in person offline, when you just approach them, whatever. If you just go up to them and then you just ask a series of questions, it just— the vibe is a little too intense, too eager. The context is almost like, hey, I'm trying to take something from you. But then in the beginning, if you mix statements and questions, then like that makes the conversation more normal because that's how all of us have our conversations with our friends, family, loved ones. Later stage, let's say you guys are already kind of getting to know each other and obviously you're ask a lot of questions. And then as long as your questions come from your genuine curiosity and empathy, this is how you make them feel seen and heard.