Here's why the perfect approach matters 💯 #shorts #datingadvice #datingcoach #dating

12 Sept 2024 · 1 min

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In this short, a dating coach with 15 years of experience explains that perfecting the approach to women is crucial for successful connections. He likens a good approach to a compelling YouTube thumbnail, emphasizing that without the right nonverbal cues—vibe, body language, facial expressions, and tonality—people won’t engage. He describes a client, Chin, who spent three hours fine‑tuning his approach, citing studies that over 90% of communication is nonverbal. After this focused training, Chin approaches a woman, and the interaction flows naturally, leading to an invitation for a drink. The dialogue showcases the coach’s point that a well‑crafted approach can change lives.

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I've invested the last 15 years approaching women all around the world and teaching men how to do the same. And the thing is, perfecting your approach changes your life, as it has mine. You can have the best intention, but if you don't have the right approach, you're making it incredibly difficult for them to get to know the real you. It's like having the best YouTube video, but without the right thumbnail and title, you don't hook anyone to watch it. This is my client Chin. To get this perfect approach, he spent 3 hours with me fine-tuning. You might be wondering why I spent a good amount of time getting this right for him. Studies say that over 90% of communication is nonverbal. So when a woman gets approached by you, before even processing what comes out of your mouth, she'll notice your vibe, your body language, facial expressions, and tonality. That's a bit random. Oh, okay, no worries. After all the focused training and tweaking, when he approached this girl, everything just fell into place.
I just saw you walking by and I want to say like, you're looking amazing, man.
Yeah, I'm on my way to go get a drink. Do you want to join me?
Yeah, of course.