In this YouTube short, two speakers discuss why a man’s attempt to engage a woman during a weekend festival falls flat. Speaker A points out that the conversation stays at a factual, service‑level, using the Songkran festival as a superficial opener, which prevents emotional connection. The energy the woman perceives is that the man is merely asking questions without genuine intent. The advice is to quickly acknowledge the contextual topic (e.g., Songkran) then pivot to deeper, personal questions that explore the woman’s world, habits, and preferences—essentially getting to know her as a person rather than focusing on the event. By probing her individuality and showing authentic interest, the interaction can become more intimate and flow better.
It's not building emotional connection, it's just very service level, factual level stuff.
The energy that she's getting from you is like, oh, he's just like trying to ask something. I think like the vibes today, much less the types of people I'd say that we want to talk to, because I think they're out going to S2O, the music festival. So everyone else here is kind of like just doing their own thing or in between, moving between. But even though it's a weekend, I've been trying to hook with like Songkran. Any suggestions? Like, what should I do? She's like, oh, I don't really do that. I was like, oh, why not? She's like, you know, I like being at home. And they say, oh, I'm sorry, I couldn't be of more help.
Here's why it's not really flowing, because you're trying to work with the Songkran stuff, which is kind of like the contextual information, you know, like the background stuff, which might work well as an opener. It's not building emotional connection, it's just very surface-level, factual-level stuff. The energy that she's getting from you is like, oh, he's just like trying to ask something, I don't know if he's interested in me. Like, there's none of that intention, right? Yeah. As soon as you talk about Songkhram, for example, if you want to talk about that, talk about it real quick. She's like, okay, homebody. Oh, so you're like an alternative person. It's like, while everyone else is doing this, you have your own independent stuff, you know? Like, have you always been like this? What are some of the things that you do that actually go with the mainstream, you know? Yeah. Like, really get inside her world. Just like, get her as a person first and just forget the whole Songkran stuff a little bit. Yeah, I agree. Yeah, so that's the vibe.
