In this YouTube video, Steven demonstrates his method for meeting women in any public setting—streets, parks, supermarkets, restaurants, even bathrooms—through spontaneous cold‑approaches. He opens each interaction with a casual, curiosity‑driven line, observes the person’s vibe, and uses genuine interest as a bridge. The video interleaves real‑time conversations with strangers from diverse backgrounds (Swedish, Mexican, Thai‑British, etc.), showcasing how he adapts his script, asks about origins, comments on style, and builds rapport. Between the clips, Steven narrates his underlying philosophy: be present, notice surroundings, treat curiosity as a form of love, and integrate approaching into everyday life rather than reserving it for parties. He stresses that the skill is a lifestyle habit that can generate social circles, business connections, and dating opportunities. The video concludes with a promotional pitch for his paid coaching, urging viewers to contact him to “level up” their dating life.
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Alright, how's the vibe? Today I'm gonna show you how I meet women pretty much anywhere. Saying hi spontaneously, cold approaching, and just spreading my vibe. Street, park, supermarket, restaurant, and even bathroom.
Let's go! Hey, excuse me. Sorry, this is gonna sound super random. Um, I just saw you and then you look like one of my— you look like one of my friends. Yeah. Are you happen to be from like California? No, Sweden. Whereabouts in Sweden?
Gothenburg.
Gothenburg. I spent some time in Malmö, actually. Yeah. And Gothenburg vibe is just like people drink a lot there, a lot of bohemians.
We drink?
Yeah, I know.
I think everyone drinks these days.
That's true. What do you think? What do you think I'm from? Take a wild guess.
You sound American.
Yeah.
US and Korea. So what are you doing in London from Gothenburg?
I just always like fashion and then I wanted to work with it.
Yeah.
Damn. Do you know someone who does that already? Yeah. You got to find someone, you know, so you can like learn the path, you know, along the way.
What about you?
What do you think? What do you think I do? But it's just like, guess, take a wild guess.
You work here?
I work here.
You work or you're not I don't know, maybe not work here. Sorry, my English is like not so good.
Yeah, like Swedish people are all amazing at English. What happened to you?
I didn't listen in the English Essence.
English Essence, you said?
No, Lessons.
Lessons. Yeah.
So you work here, or what do you do?
Take a guess. You got to take at least one guess.
Yeah, I said you work in property.
Property? Yeah, yeah, just add me. You thought I was gonna steal it for sure. Literally, it's like, I don't trust this guy. There is so like Okay, that's me. All right, have a lovely day. All right, see you. Bye.
Hey guys, quick question.
Is there like a black and white party going on today? No, because you're like so coordinated, you know. I was just like, yeah, you know. Yeah, yeah, coincidence, right?
Yes, coincidence.
I'm like, how much investment? You know, like, you like very carefully thought through.
Seen each other in like 10 months, so it's definitely not coordinated.
No, you haven't even communicated?
No, you just like, it just happens too?
No, we got on the train and I went, besides the length, wearing the same outfit. Yeah, like the exact same outfit. It was just, it's just celebrity. Too much time around each other.
Love it.
Brainwaves.
Yeah.
Are you guys all from the same area as well?
Like same neighborhood?
No, no, no, no, she's just, um, arrived yesterday from Venezuela.
Wow.
Today, like, well, today, yeah, 3 hours ago actually, like, landed.
She left yesterday.
Yeah, but with 5 of us, 4 years ago, before COVID Okay. And, um, obviously during COVID nothing happened. We ended up leaving, um, the other— our label that put us together.
Yeah.
And then, um, we continued because we didn't want to quit. We didn't want to quit, basically. We loved it. But obviously only 3 of us actually stayed on.
Oh, what happened to the—
So, yeah, one of the other girls, she was a lot older. So when it kind of went apart, Gen Z versus baby boomers. She was talking about settling down, having babies.
Oh, okay.
Okay.
Not that old.
It's like 20 years down the west coast.
I was like 17 at the time and she was like 26.
Oh, damn.
That's a big gap.
Yeah, that's a big gap. So she was just on a different vibe, I think. So she just wasn't feeling it. And then one of the other girls, she's an air hostess, so she's moved now to Dubai to go and work for Emirates. So it was also— it's just like, you know, the industry is not for the weak.
It's not for the weak.
No, you have to be so patient.
Okay.
This is a voice note. Yeah, yeah, because obviously she wasn't here to record vocals. Get that done soon.
Wait, who is this?
Hey, excuse me.
Sorry, this is gonna sound super random. Um, I noticed your, your whole vibe, you know, very like, um, cyberpunk. Do you know what I mean? Is that what you're going for, by the way, like cyberpunk? Yeah, but I mean, you must— maybe not cyberpunk then, because like, yeah, when I, when I said that, you're like, hmm, it's not.
Is there—
what kind of vibe were you going for? Like, your hair, it's very well put together. So where are you from? Are you from China? Yeah.
What part of—
I'm not from China. If I was from China, I would have spoken Chinese to you, right? I would have been like, shèi shèi, shèi shèi, shèi shèi, or something like that. I'm trying to come up with any Chinese that I know, but obviously I don't know.
Yeah, it's in the middle.
In the middle? You can just add me on Instagram and then, you know, I can send you. I thought I saw Japanese. This is smart actually, if someone like snatches, you know. Are you guys from Australia? You're from Australia? Yeah. Where are you from?
Mexico.
Mexico?
CDMX?
No, Guadalajara. Guadalajara. I love the pronunciation. Guadalajara.
Where the mariachi is from.
Yeah, where's the what?
Mariachi.
Who's that? You don't know mariachi?
Like the mariachi?
Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes. Your, your accent, you know, I was like, I was like, Maria Tree, like, what are you talking about? Yeah, got it. Well, we're in Sydney. We're in, uh, Australia.
Are you from Sydney?
Sydney. Got it.
Where are you guys from?
Take a guess.
Here.
I have a—
do I have a UK accent?
Okay, let me pause here for a second. You might be seeing this and thinking, wow, this looks really complicated, and it's like magic. I wonder if I can do the same. Well, it's actually pretty simple. A lot of it comes down to being really genuinely curious about people. When I'm out and about, I really try to observe what's around me— the people, the vibes, everything. At this moment, I'm in this park expansive field. There's a few dogs around me, some children, people, some cars, and even planes going by. All these things, right? Just being really, really present-minded. And that's one of the most important things that is gonna really make a huge difference in your everyday life spreading your vibe situation. And when someone catches my eye, I ask myself, why is that? Where is this person from? Why does this person have this very unique style? Or, I don't know what it is, they look pretty interesting, let me go say hi. So it's really about being real, observing what's around you, and expressing your genuine curiosity. Curiosity is a form of love. All right, let's see a few more examples.
Hey, excuse me, this is a really random question. Are you happen to be from like Southeast Asia?
No, no, no.
Yeah, okay, okay, let me, let me guess. Maybe not Asia. Latina, right?
Peru?
Damn. Mexico? No. Okay, you gotta tell me. Colombia.
Medellín.
Medellín. No, Medellín?
No, Bogotá.
Yes, nice, amazing. I love, I love Colombian people. Yeah, you look like, you look really similar to one of my friends, but like, no.
There you go.
I saw you and you look cute, so I wanted to come say hi.
Okay.
Yeah, you're like so nervous, you're like Nervous. Are you Thai?
I'm half Thai, half British.
Half Thai, half British?
Yeah.
You speak British English?
I speak like, familiar.
No, you don't speak like— I'm American. Like, you don't speak like— okay. What's your name?
Tammy.
Tammy?
Yes.
That's very American name. I'm Steven.
Nice to meet you.
My hands are so cold.
Your hands are sweaty.
You're like, you're like nervous already.
Like, hey, I'm sweaty. Nice to meet you too. So you live here? Like, you're from Bangkok?
Yeah, actually I'm from—
where is that? I'm new to Bangkok, so I don't really know that much.
It's near Bangkok, I guess. I don't really know how to explain it.
Okay, wait, what do you mean? So you don't know around here, but you don't really know around?
It's me.
Hey. You speak Japanese as well? No, no, I thought that was like Japanese hiragana.
Um, like, this is Bangkok, right? Yeah, and this is my house.
Ah, I see. So you traveled all the way here today just to hang out? Are these your friends?
Yes.
Hi, I'm Steven. Nice to meet you. Um, with the mask, it's hard, it's hard to tell, you know. Yeah, I want to see. I want to see. Okay, can I see all of you guys? It's like, it's really weird. Great, you guys are all good-looking people. Very good-looking people. All right, um, good to meet y'all.
What are you guys doing tonight?
Going home.
Oh, you guys all like live around the same area? Yeah, I see, I see. You have Instagram?
Yes.
Let's, let's connect and maybe we can go grab a tea sometime. Yeah, coffee or something. See, that's hiragana. Yeah, but you have hiragana.
I like this one. Oh yeah, I like to type this.
I'm Korean. Yeah, you have like all the Asian languages. Great. Amazing. Have a lovely day. Good to meet you. All right, we're almost there.
Yeah. Where is your accent from? Here in London? Yeah. Yeah, I wouldn't have guessed that actually. Like up north or something?
No, no, no.
New Americans.
Yeah, yeah.
What was that?
Like, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I mean, it's too easy, right?
Yeah.
Otherwise I'd have a completely different vibe. I'm too honest for that, you know.
Do you live local?
I used to live here for a long time. Yeah, but I moved and then I came back and I'm just like, I split around my time. Yeah. How come your accent is like— doesn't sound like London to me. Yeah. What's your name?
Ella.
Ella. Stephen.
Hey, excuse me. Sorry. Do you speak English? A little bit. This is going to sound very spontaneous. I just saw you. You look cute, so I wanted to come say hi. Hi.
Thank you so much.
I'm Stephen. What's your name?
You can call me Tanya.
Tanya. But that's not your real name. That's not your real name, huh?
Yeah.
How do you spell Oom?
O-O-M?
O-U-M. O-U-M. It's like a meditation body, you know? But Oom and Tanya are completely different names. How did you pick Tanya as your name?
My dad, then he died, so then he called me Oom. Like, you can call my name like that. So you call me Tanya.
That's so interesting. I feel like in Thailand people have always two names, right? Their real name and then their like English name. Yeah, you know, I find that very, very interesting. And then you, when I saw you, I first thing I noticed about you is that ninja vibe, you know? You're like a samurai, like a ninja.
Really?
Yeah, yeah, look at this, you know, it's like very like black and chic, but you're like about to do something crazy, you know, you have like a knife.
I'm like a crazy girl like that?
I don't know, maybe, maybe, maybe, maybe, we'll see. You're crazy, you're a little crazy, no? A little crazy is good, a little crazy is good, but I can see you as like a breakdancer, you know, but you dance? No, you can't dance? Oh man, that's, that's a, that's a letdown. But do you sing or do you do anything with music?
No, I'm not good.
No? Okay.
What are you good at?
What's your thing?
I'm not sure.
You're not sure?
I can sing, but I can sing a little bit. Not good.
I think you're lying to me because I feel like the more I talk to you, the more I understand your voice better. Your voice is quite clear, you know? Oh, thank you so much. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Also, you lied to me because you told me that you only speak a little bit of English, but You speak really good English.
Thank you so much.
Where did you learn your English?
Oh, online from movie also.
Ah, okay. So you're good with sounds, like you can understand the sound pretty well. Okay. Do you have your phone? Yeah, yeah. Take mine. You have a cat? You like cats?
Yeah, I have a cat.
You're a cat lady.
You know, I haven't told you this. You have—
you—
your eyes are very kind. I like kind eyes. Did anyone tell you this before? Well, have a lovely evening. Finish your project, and, um, I'll see you tomorrow. Have a lovely evening. Great to meet you.
So do you feel that?
I don't feel it really, to be honest with you. Like, people have been super nice to me, but maybe because like I'm American, then people are like— people don't really, uh, people are They're not accustomed to seeing Americans, so when they see one, they're like, "Oh, American, I'm gonna be nice to you." So how you can communicate with people, with Russian people?
So, because most of them doesn't speak English.
Yeah, but for work, you know, everyone speaks English. For my work, my clients. So it works out for me. I'll tell you what though, I have like 15 minutes before I go meet up with my friends. But I'm kind of thirsty. I'm holding this water, but I'm kind of thirsty. So, uh, yeah, should we go grab some coffee real quick?
Yeah, maybe.
Yeah, over there.
But I also have to meet my friend, but they said that I need to wait one more hour.
One more hour? Yeah, they don't like you.
They're like, all right, you're like way too early.
Like, you're not cool enough. You've been away from this country for way too long.
And Moscow quite cold in this time because I came from Seoul.
So that's the vibe. Now you might be thinking, Steven, that was amazing, but this is a little too unrealistic. I'm too busy.
He busy with Korean shit.
I don't have time to go say hi to strangers. But here's the thing, you're programmed to think that you can only approach people in a party setting when everyone's getting drunk and socializing. But if you have time to party, you have time to say hi. On your way to the gym, meeting friends, grabbing food— these are all prime opportunities that you can capitalize on in your everyday situation. So in order to do this properly, it's not just about doing whenever you feel like it, but it's about actually integrating it into your life. It's a lifestyle. And this is exactly what I've shown When you make a habit of putting yourself out there everywhere, you can create deep, meaningful connections literally anywhere, anytime. Obviously, there's a lot of nuance and layers to it, because at the end of the day, it's not just about what you say, but also about how you say it. The energetics behind everything. Your vibe is key. But once you've mastered the art of spreading your vibe like this and creating connections on the fly, anywhere, anytime, Your life is literally going to transform. I've created dates like this, built social circles around the world, and even met clients and built businesses like this. Some of the craziest and most unfathomable things happen in my life because of this powerful skill set. So if you want to learn how to fearlessly create soulful connections like this anywhere and build your dream dating life and relationship, hit the link below. Let's chat about how I can help you level up. Keep calm and vibe on.
Peace!
